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Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much of Tinder? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the HuffPost and the New York Times calls one of the ‘Top 10 podcasts about love and sex’. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do as they talk with real daters and experts about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes, and first moves to first loves. Whether you’re looking to DTR or DTF, you’ll have moments of “OMG-that-also-happened-to-me” to “I-never-thought-of-it-that-way-before.”

Tune in every Wednesday to challenge the way you date in this crazy Dateable world.

Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Love in the time of Corona' Facebook groupCheck out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick | Dating & Relationship Podcast hosts

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.6 • 650 Ratings

Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much of Tinder? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the HuffPost and the New York Times calls one of the ‘Top 10 podcasts about love and sex’. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do as they talk with real daters and experts about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes, and first moves to first loves. Whether you’re looking to DTR or DTF, you’ll have moments of “OMG-that-also-happened-to-me” to “I-never-thought-of-it-that-way-before.”

Tune in every Wednesday to challenge the way you date in this crazy Dateable world.

Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Love in the time of Corona' Facebook groupCheck out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

    S16E6: Why You're Choosing The Wrong Partners w/ Psychotherapist Marc Sholes

    S16E6: Why You're Choosing The Wrong Partners w/ Psychotherapist Marc Sholes

    What happens when your "type" doesn't seem to work, yet you keep gravitating towards people with similar characteristics over and over again? We're here to learn how to reset our romantic GPS with Mark Sholes so we don't keep steering toward the wrong partners. We discuss how attachment style plays into the partners you choose, when to work through a rough patch vs. accept it's not the right partner for you, and how to start making different choices that lead to different outcomes for your love life.

    Learn more about Marc's work at https://www.marcsholeslcsw.com/ and check out his book 'Reset Your Romantic GPS'

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.

    This episode is sponsored by:

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    Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

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    • 59 min
    #brunchtalk: How much PDA is too much PDA?

    #brunchtalk: How much PDA is too much PDA?

    We all want to be the cute loving couple but never to be THAT couple....so what's the line? And how do your levels of PDA change depending on if you're alone vs. with friends, family, or coworkers? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing ways to show love and affection that won't alienate others, what to say if you have THAT friend who makes it uncomfortable, and how to stay inclusive so no one feels like the third wheel.

    Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

    This episode is sponsored by:

    Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

    Hers: Get access to medical providers for help with anxiety and depression. For more information visit forhers.com/spring

    Nux Activeware: Get 20% off your purchase at nuxactive.com and use the code DATEABLE20 at checkout.

    Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations

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    • 24 min
    S16E5: How To Break Up By Text w/ Comedian Allison Goldberg

    S16E5: How To Break Up By Text w/ Comedian Allison Goldberg

    Is there ever a good way to break up with someone? Well, we know there are certainly some less-than-ideal ways (ahem text) as we chat with comedian Allison Goldberg about the art of breaking up and if texting is ever a good idea. We discuss why text is the modern-day post-it note (IFYKYK), how you can get more closure in any breakup, and ways laughter can be the best medicine to help us heal.

    Follow Allison Goldberg @alli_goldi and learn more about her upcoming shows at https://www.allisongoldberg.com/ (or become a contestant on https://www.loveisntblind.co/!)

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

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    Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

    Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

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    • 1 hr 4 min
    #brunchtalk: Is the saying 'If they wanted to, they would' true?

    #brunchtalk: Is the saying 'If they wanted to, they would' true?

    From all the romcoms and dating advice, we've been told over and over again: if they wanted to, they would. They'd move mountains to be with us and if they can't, then they just aren't that into it. In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing when someone says they can't do something / they aren't ready and what this means for you, why this saying isn't always so black and white, and how to use this information to help propel you forward in your love life.

    Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

    This episode is sponsored by:

    Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

    Nux Activeware: Get 20% off your purchase at nuxactive.com and use the code DATEABLE20 at checkout.

    Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations

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    • 22 min
    S16E4: Breaking the Second Date Curse

    S16E4: Breaking the Second Date Curse

    Why is it so damn difficult to make it past the second date in today's world? We're chatting with Kevin about how it was so hard that he thought he had a second date curse – until he realized the pressure he was putting on himself. We discuss why we look at dating as an achievement, how to stop putting so much emphasis on milestones and metrics such as the number of dates you've been on, and how you can start to enjoy the process more of dating.

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

    This episode is sponsored by:

    BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE

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    Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

    Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations

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    • 1 hr 6 min
    #brunchtalk: How Important are Shared Interests?

    #brunchtalk: How Important are Shared Interests?

    When dating, we're always looking to see if we have common interests as potential partners....but does it matter? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing how a relationship can work if you have different hobbies and interests, the line between accommodating your lifestyle vs. what doesn't matter for the long haul, and how we can reframe what we're looking for to account for the growth and change that's bound to happen in a long-term partnership.

    Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

    This episode is sponsored by:

    Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

    Nux Activeware: Get 20% off your purchase at nuxactive.com and use the code DATEABLE20 at checkout.

    Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations

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    • 25 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
650 Ratings

650 Ratings

Listenerfromsfhere ,

Love you guys!!

You guys are amazing and I love listening to every single new episode!!! Hope to bump into you in person one day! 🤗🤗🤗

annoyed wf customer ,

Brunchable 😍😍😍

Yue and Julie are great - I usually get very sick of dating podcasts within a few episodes because they are repetitive or preachy or salesy but these ladies have nailed the perfect mix of racy and relatable and are full of values based, clear headed advice for finding your person which seems… harder and harder for a thirty something single lady in Los Angeles these days

Also, I love the brunch talk. Shorter form episodes are great for listening to something quick and juicy. The long format ones are nice to dig into but forreal, shorten the intros! Get to the good stuff!

jag822 ,

Feels like chatting with friends

Love this podcast and love the brunch talk episodes. Feels like I’m chatting with friends! I love hearing about other girls’ experiences that are similar to mine

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