443 episodes
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick | Dating & Relationship Podcast hosts
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4.7 • 759 Ratings
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Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much of Tinder? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the HuffPost and the New York Times calls one of the ‘Top 10 podcasts about love and sex’. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do as they talk with real daters and experts about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes, and first moves to first loves. Whether you’re looking to DTR or DTF, you’ll have moments of “OMG-that-also-happened-to-me” to “I-never-thought-of-it-that-way-before.”
Tune in every Wednesday to challenge the way you date in this crazy Dateable world.
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Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
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S17E15: Healing Your Intimacy Wounds w/ Andre Lazarus
We're getting intimate, y'all with Intimacy Coach Andre Lazarus as we talk about how past sexual experiences – or inexperiences – may be holding you back from having the sex life you've always wanted. We discuss how to take back control of anything that's caused you shame, ways to feel more confident about your sexual desires, and why it's entirely possible to live a more connected life with deeper intimacy.
Trigger Alert: We touch briefly on sexual traumas including rape, assault, and more.
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Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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#brunchtalk: Is It A Date Or A Vibe Check?
Dating can be hard (and expensive!) when you're dating multiple people at once, never sure if that first date will amount to anything more. In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing balancing all the planning aspects of modern dating with putting your best foot forward for each new person you meet. We discuss the differences between first dates and meet and greets, how to do a "vibe check" without killing the vibe, and ways to plan more intentional lower-budget first dates that still wow.
Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com
Our FINDING YOUR PERSON program is open for a limited time from 11/24-12/3 at findingyourperson.com
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
This episode is sponsored by:
Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 or use the code DATEABLE50
Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com
* Check out Factor 75 and use my code dateable50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/
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S17E14: Is There Any Reality In Reality TV Dating Shows? w/ Justine & Natasha From 2 Black Girls, 1 Rose
From the Bachelor to Love is Blind to Indian Matchmaking, how much is reality TV is seeping into real-life dating? We're chatting with Natasha & Justine from 2 Black Girls, 1 Rose about what reality dating shows teach us (if anything) about modern dating, love, and relationships. We discuss why we're all so intrigued by reality shows in the first place, how the pick-me mentality has been perpetrated into dating culture, and ways reality TV shows have made us buy into (or out of) the fantasy of love.
Follow 2 Black Girls, 1 Rose on Instagram @2BlackGirls1Rose and check out their podcast ‘2 Black Girls, 1 Rose’ wherever you get your podcasts
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Our FINDING YOUR PERSON program is open for a limited time from 11/24-12/3!! USE code FLUFFING for 20% off on Black Friday only at findingyourperson.com
This episode is sponsored by:
NOCD: We're partnering with NOCD to raise awareness of relationship OCD. To book a free 15-minute call, go to nocd.com/dateable
Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 or use the code DATEABLE50
Uncommon Goods: Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/dateable
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com
* Check out Factor 75 and use my code dateable50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/
* Check out Uncommon Goods and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.com
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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#brunchtalk: Can Your Relationship Work If Your Friends Dislike Your Partner?
Nothing is more uncomfortable than when friends don't approve of your relationship, but is it a dealbreaker? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing what to do if your friends don't like your partner – or your partner's friends don't like you. We discuss when this becomes problematic versus something you can get over, how to best handle the situation to try to get closer, and ways you can move forward if the relationship with the friends is beyond repair.
Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com
Our FINDING YOUR PERSON program is open for a limited time from 11/24-12/3 at findingyourperson.com
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
This episode is sponsored by:
Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 or use the code DATEABLE50
Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.
Uncommon Goods: Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/dateable
Bearaby: Get your hand-nit weighted blankets @mybearaby or bearaby.com
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com
* Check out Factor 75 and use my code dateable50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/
* Check out Uncommon Goods and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.com
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S17E13: F*ck Cuffing Season
If you’re freaking out about finding a partner during cuffing season – stop right there. We're talking about why cuffing season is actually the WORST time to find love – and why you should try fluffing season instead. We discuss the reasons starting a relationship now doesn’t set you up for long-term success, what fluffing season is and why it’s a better use of your time, and ways you can fluff to be more strategic while everyone is scrambling.
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Our FINDING YOUR PERSON program is open for a limited time from 11/24-12/3!! USE code FLUFFING for 20% off on Black Friday only at findingyourperson.com
This episode is sponsored by:
NOCD: We're partnering with NOCD to raise awareness of relationship OCD. To book a free 15-minute call, go to nocd.com/dateable
Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 or use the code DATEABLE50
Uncommon Goods: Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/dateable
Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.
Bearaby: Get your hand-nit weighted blankets @mybearaby or bearaby.com
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com
* Check out Factor 75 and use my code dateable50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/
* Check out Uncommon Goods and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.com
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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#brunchtalk: How To Deal With Your Family Asking About Your Love Life Over the Holidays
Tis the season....for the grilling of what's going on in your love life. From questions about why you're still single to when we'll ever get grandchildren, the holidays can be a stressful time. But have no fear! In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing how to navigate these conversations in a way that puts you in control, why we need to remember our family members are probably coming from a good place with these questions anyway, and ways you can use these conversations to bring you closer instead of ruining the holiday.
Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
This episode is sponsored by:
Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.
Uncommon Goods: Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/dateable
Bearaby: Get your hand-nit weighted blankets @mybearaby or bearaby.com
HoneyLove: Treat yourself to the best shapewear on the market and save 20% Off at honeylove.com with the code DATEABLE
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com
* Check out Factor 75 and use my code dateable50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/
* Check out Uncommon Goods and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.com
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Customer Reviews
Always informative and interesting!
I look forward to each episode.
Congratulations?
I did not want to date again. I was happy and fulfilled in every aspect of my life. 56 years old, a few “meh” situationships and one almost perfect relationship after a late-in-life divorce….I’d decided dating was not worth the drama. Found Dateable via Exit Interview (FASCINATING, btw, so juicy!) and fast forward almost a year…..I signed up for my first OLD account and have 2 dates in my first week out! Best part is, I’m going into this with the BEST attitude (you ladies have given me so much inspiration) and plan to be 1) present in the moment, 2) hopeful, 3) non-judgemental, 4) realistic and resilient if things don’t work out! Wish me luck!
Funny and real
I’m a new listener and am now a fan! It’s cool to hear perspectives from a couple of strong ladies. Keep it up!!