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Can you find love in the time of Corona? Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much of Tinder? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the HuffPost calls one of the ‘Top 10 podcasts about love and sex’. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do as they talk with real daters and experts about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes, and first moves to first loves. Whether you’re looking to DTR or DTF, you’ll have moments of “OMG-that-also-happened-to-me” to “I-never-thought-of-it-that-way-before.” Tune in every Wednesday to challenge the way you date in this crazy Dateable world.

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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick | Dating & Relationship Podcast hosts

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.6 • 554 Ratings

Can you find love in the time of Corona? Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much of Tinder? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the HuffPost calls one of the ‘Top 10 podcasts about love and sex’. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do as they talk with real daters and experts about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes, and first moves to first loves. Whether you’re looking to DTR or DTF, you’ll have moments of “OMG-that-also-happened-to-me” to “I-never-thought-of-it-that-way-before.” Tune in every Wednesday to challenge the way you date in this crazy Dateable world.

Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Love in the time of Corona' Facebook group

Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.

Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

    S14E13: When You Know, You Know

    S14E13: When You Know, You Know

    As cliche as it sounds, the right person can be right around the corner....or maybe even someone you already know. We're chatting with Trace about how he started over after ending a 12-year relationship only to propose after 3 weeks of dating one of his newfound best friends. We discuss knowing when to think things through vs. take a leap of faith, what marriage, love, and commitment mean in today's day in age, and why friendship is the foundation of any relationship.

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

    Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

    Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

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    Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

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    • 59 min
    #brunchtalk: How Can I Stop Being Jealous of My Friend's Relationships?

    #brunchtalk: How Can I Stop Being Jealous of My Friend's Relationships?

    When it feels like you're always the third wheel or the only single one in the group, it's tough to not be jealous that your friends found their special someones. For this week's brunch talk we're diving into it all from validating your feelings in a way that still allows you to want the best for your friends, embracing and enjoying the various stages of your life (including being single), and reframing how you view being the odd one out.

    Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@datablepodcast.com

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    Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

    Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

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    • 22 min
    S14E12: Taming Your Inner Critic w/ Katie Sturino

    S14E12: Taming Your Inner Critic w/ Katie Sturino

    Even the best of us can start to believe that inner voice that wonders if we’re too fat, too skinny, too tall, too short, too light, too dark – whatever it is that gets in the way of thinking we’re worthy of love. But have no fear, we’re silencing the self doubt as we chat with Katie Sturino about how she regained her confidence and rocked the dating game even at her lowest point. We discuss how our earliest trauma still plays into the way we think about ourselves when dating, the importance of “doing the work” even though it feels unfair you have to do it at all, and why it's so damn important to get to a place where we’re truly comfortable in our own skin.

    Trigger Warning: We discuss abortion rights and the recall of Chesa Boudin in the intro if you need to skip ahead

    Follow Katie @katiesturnio and check out her podcast 'Book Sweat', book body talk and beauty line Megababe

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    • 1 hr
    #brunchtalk: Help! I've been Dickmatized

    #brunchtalk: Help! I've been Dickmatized

    Ever been in a situation where you know it's not your person....yet you keep staying because the sex is so.damn.good? We feel you as we chat on this week's brunch talk about how to break free from the dickmatization, if being p*ssytized is even a thing, and how to have faith that you'll find someone eventually that meets all your needs – in and out of the bedroom.

    Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@datablepodcast.com

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

    Thank you to our partners for this episode:

    Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

    Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

    Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

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    • 23 min
    S14E11: Performance Anxiety (In the Bedroom)

    S14E11: Performance Anxiety (In the Bedroom)

    Sex can be so enjoyable yet so stressful at the same time....especially when you're dating someone new. We're chatting with Dean about recovering from erectile dysfunction and what that meant for his sex life. We discuss our societies views on sex and the expectations of men, why not being able to get it up rarely has to do with the partner, and how to get through sexual dysfunctions with your partners.

    Want to learn more about how Dean navigated ED through therapy and other mental/psychological approaches? Feel free to reach out to him at deantalksaboutED@gmail.com

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

    Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

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    • 1 hr 1 min
    #brunchtalk: What's the Difference Between Being Too Picky And Settling?

    #brunchtalk: What's the Difference Between Being Too Picky And Settling?

    Oh the dreaded s word….settling. We’re all so afraid to “settle” yet how do we know when we are being so picky that no one can meet our standards vs being smart to hold out for the right person? On this week’s installment of brunch talk we’re dissecting it all: the core differences of being selective vs picky, the settling paradox, and the only 7 things to look for in a partner.

    Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@datablepodcast.com

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

    Thank you to our partners for this episode:

    Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

    Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

    Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

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    • 27 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
554 Ratings

554 Ratings

OpaOpaOpa! ,

Such a wonderful, thoughtful podcast

I am so glad I found this podcast. It is so full of warmth, kindness and good humor. And full of great advice!

B220408 ,

Favorite dating podcast

Julie & Yue are insightful, funny, and make a wide range of topics feel relatable. Great guests with interesting perspectives!

serial-masturdater ,

Hands down BEST podcast about dating

And I’ve heard ALOT of them! Julie and Yue are thoughtful, open minded, provide realistic advice and present multiple sides of the story. They bring different points of view about dating which I really enjoy.

A lot of other pod casts make you feel terrible, give you sexist advice that really doesn’t work in 2022. Dateable content stands out by a mile!

PS: they are hilarious. There have been times when I’ve laughed out loud in public because I walk while listening.

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