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Advice for smart men on how to succeed with women in sex, dating, relationships, and marriages. Beautiful women give you a peek behind the curtain into what the feminine really craves from the masculine ... and how to give it to us. Personal growth is sexy, haven't you heard? Get in touch at dearmenpodcast@gmail.com. Take our free training for men at https://evolutionary.men/dearmen

Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women Melanie Curtin

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.6 • 98 Ratings

Advice for smart men on how to succeed with women in sex, dating, relationships, and marriages. Beautiful women give you a peek behind the curtain into what the feminine really craves from the masculine ... and how to give it to us. Personal growth is sexy, haven't you heard? Get in touch at dearmenpodcast@gmail.com. Take our free training for men at https://evolutionary.men/dearmen

    180: Top 3 things we’ve learned after coaching men on sex & relationships for years (ft. Jason Lange)

    180: Top 3 things we’ve learned after coaching men on sex & relationships for years (ft. Jason Lange)

    'Tis the season for reflection, and here Jason and I each share our top learnings when it comes to hearing from -- and coaching -- hundreds of men on dating, relationships, marriage, love, sex, separation, devotion, divorce, infidelity, personal growth, dedication, longing, and more. Whether it's wanting or needing more sex in a long-term relationship, surviving domestic violence, moving from feeling insecure about performing well in the sack with a new person to looking forward to it, the joy of connecting with a woman who's receptive to his gifts, overcoming sexual trauma, or navigating the vulnerability of online dating, we've witnessed our guys move through immense challenges and not just "make it," but thrive. We're grateful to our men for their openness and willingness to grow and transform, and giving us the opportunity to share these kinds of stories. To expansion and the alchemy of change. To life!

    • 47 min
    179: Why’s it so hard for me to approach my wife/partner for sex? (ft. Jason Lange)

    179: Why’s it so hard for me to approach my wife/partner for sex? (ft. Jason Lange)

    It might seem like a paradox: You're in a long-term relationship with a woman, yet it's actually harder to approach her for sex. You might think it's more difficult to approach a new sex or dating partner, but in fact it can be even more challenging to initiate sex with your wife/spouse. Here, Jason gets personal in terms of his experience having trouble initiating sex with partners in the past, and how he overcame that in his marriage now. Other things we cover:
    How do you maintain your confidence to keep approaching even when you've been turned down a few times? (Rejection can be a bitch.)What helps a woman open up sexually during the day that has her want to get down and dirty with you later that night?How you can improve your relationship by initiating sex more skillfully
    If you've ever wondered, "How do I get my wife to have more sex with me" you'll want to give this a listen.

    • 58 min
    178: What's it like to have non-ejaculatory orgasms as a man? (ft. Cam Fraser)

    178: What's it like to have non-ejaculatory orgasms as a man? (ft. Cam Fraser)

    In the world of advanced sexual mastery for men, the non-ejaculatory orgasm (aka "energetic orgasm" or "full-body orgasm") looms large. In this episode, Cam Fraser, Australia's leading sex coach for men, gets into the details around this. Because if this kind of sexual mastery is interesting to you as a penis-owner, you may wonder: How do you actually get there? What do you have to develop (and how) in order to be able to come without actually ejaculating? And what does this kind of mastery have to do with how good you are in bed? The answer might surprise you. Other topics we cover here: semen retention, what it was like for Cam to overcome his own experience with erectile dysfunction/premature ejaculation, how he got on the personal growth path, and what it means for sex with a partner when you take ejaculation off the table. Hint: it can be great in both dating and relationships.

    • 1 hr 5 min
    177: What's it like being a "wing girl" to thousands of men? (ft. Marni Kinrys, of the Wing Girl Method)

    177: What's it like being a "wing girl" to thousands of men? (ft. Marni Kinrys, of the Wing Girl Method)

    How good are you at gauging whether a woman is interested in you? How 'bout how to "escalate" in a titillating yet ethical (non-creepy) way? YouTube personality Marni has been a "wing girl" to thousands of men over the years, and in this lively discussion we get personal. We cover how she got her start, what she has learned about men, dating, and sex over the years; how her work has been informed by her relationship (married with children); and what she's excited about now.

    • 44 min
    176: Men, weed, alcohol, and love. (ft. Jason Lange)

    176: Men, weed, alcohol, and love. (ft. Jason Lange)

    Ever wondered whether you have a normal or healthy relationship with weed, alcohol, or another substance? Here's a related thing to consider: I've dated a number of men who used marijuana or alcohol to regulate (i.e. they were functioning alcoholics or weed addicts), and I was scared to tell them how it affected our relationship. It's hard to tell someone you care about that their unresolved trauma and subsequent connection to a substance is a problem for you. Here, Jason and I get real about what it means to have a conversation about this, and what the feminine truly craves from the masculine around this. (Hint: it's not perfection.)

    • 41 min
    175: Repair conversations, MDMA, and love (ft. Jayson Gaddis)

    175: Repair conversations, MDMA, and love (ft. Jayson Gaddis)

    When your partner triggers you, how do you respond? Do you have boundless patients and flawless boundaries? Or do you struggle to know how to get your needs met while also ensuring that your partner feels respected, cherished, and seen? Jayson Gaddis, author of Getting to Zero, and I get real in this conversation that includes how to "out" ourselves with vulnerability skillfully, and how that can help with repair (i.e. conflict resolution). We also touch on the deal with addressing trauma patterns with plant medicines like MDMA. This episode will spark some ideas about how you show up in relationships in your own life, whether sexual or not. Practicing repair is just as valuable in dating and committed relationships as it is with friends, colleagues, and family members, and it's worth it to learn how to become more masterful at it.
    Getting to Zero: How to Work Through Conflict in Your High-Stakes Relationships: https://www.gettingtozerobook.com/

    • 1 hr

Customer Reviews

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98 Ratings

98 Ratings

MajesticBook ,

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This podcast is tremendously valuable. The interviews are thoughtful, the guests are all extremely knowledgeable. If you are a man and are willing to listen, this podcast will really help you. There aren’t enough good things to say about this podcast and the resources it provides.

Rockin So Ut ,

Life Changing - Brought me back to Life

I found the Dear Men podcast a few months after my divorce. I was in an extremely low place and trying to decide if I wanted to live and if I did what did I want my life to look like and was it even possible. Melanie and her guests helped me to start to piece my life back together and to change myself and to work on myself and to change my perspective about life and relationships. The Dear Men podcast transformed me and infused life back into me!!

American Veteran18 ,

Episode 174 fantastic episode

Melanie, your podcast is fantastic and is full of authentic, realistic information that is very easy to follow. One of the many things I appreciate is your ability to clarify very specific details when explaining things or asking a guest to clarify in detail which as a guy speaks to me without a bunch of questions still trying to understand a certain point you are addressing. This for me is critical and so much of you work and research is spot on with so many men. This podcast is a quality podcast for sure! Keep up the great work you are doing and the many fantastic guests you bring on!

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