Advice for smart men on how to be successful with women in sex, dating, and relationships. Beautiful women give you a peek behind the curtain into what the feminine really craves from the masculine ... and how to give it to us. Personal growth is sexy, haven't you heard? Get in touch at email@example.com.
128: Feel like you're walking on eggshells? Recognizing Borderline Personality Disorder (ft. Violet Lange)
Ever been in a relationship where little things set your partner off? Ever gotten the silent treatment (or had sex withheld from you) because you did something "wrong", even though it was hard to figure out what the "rules" were from day to day? Ever spent a lot of energy trying to please your partner and apologizing just to keep the peace ... even though it wasn't really logical that you'd have to apologize for what happened? You might have been relating with someone with Borderline Personality Disorder. This is a must-listen episode for anyone who can relate.
127: The secret to inspiring your woman to want more sex with you! (ft. Becky Wells) [replay]
Ever been with a partner where you wanted more sex than she did? It can be more than just frustrating -- it can kill a relationship. It's not always about libido, either -- often it's a pleasure & communication issue. It's really hard for a woman to tell a man that something he's doing hurts, or isn't working. In fact, 10% of women say it's "impossible" to speak up when something isn't working in sex. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or married, learning to skillfully talk about sex (and how to make it insanely pleasurable for her) makes things better both inside and outside the bedroom.
126: If you don't want sex with tons of women, is there something wrong with you? (ft. Jason Lange)
A lot of men feel like they're "supposed" to want to bang every woman they possibly can, and that if a woman makes herself sexually available, they "have to" have sex with her. But what if you're not attracted to her, or you don't feel safe in some way? We talk a lot about safety for women (which is critically important), *and* there are dynamics around safety for men that are also vital. Here, we talk about the dynamics of attraction, culture, and dating when it comes to men, women, sex, pressure, and relationship.
125: 2 sex coaches open up about men, love, and growth (ft. Shana James) [replay]
When it comes to men, women, and sex, things can feel complicated. But when you zoom out, a lot becomes clear. My friend Shana James and I have collectively coached thousands of men, and seen several patterns emerge again and again. Here are the top 5 things we've learned as sex, dating, and relationship coaches for men who relate with women.
124: How to have the women YOU want, want you back (ft. Jason Lange)
Ever felt like the women you really want don't want you back? It's exceedingly frustrating (and not good for your sex, dating, or relationship life) when you feel like you're settling instead of going for what you really want in terms of attraction and the feminine. Here we delve into the personal, lived experience of anxious/avoidant attachment style, and how to overcome it to have the flourishing sex and love life you've always wanted. There's also some solid relationship advice about navigating trauma.
123: The best therapy to help your sex & love life (might not be what you think) (ft. Z Zoccolante)
If you've ever repeated patterns in your sex, dating, or relationship life, you know how frustrating it can be. Keep attracting unavailable women, or women with severe trauma? You probably want to stop doing that. And while talk therapy (traditional psychotherapy) can help, somatic therapy can be more effective. Here, a somatic therapist takes us behind the scenes to explain what somatic therapy entails, and how it can help you to have a thriving sex and love life. Whether you're married, dating, or single, this is relevant AF.
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Take notes men! Want to improve relationships, this is a show to check out. Deep dives, exploring topics many may avoid, while offering lots of insight. Luke D
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An engaging, honest, refreshing take on all things sex, dating, and relationships. Mel is an amazing and charming host and has such great advice. I learn a lot every episode while being thoroughly entertained. Highly recommended!
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This podcast is great for insight and to not feel alone in some rough topics when it comes to sex, dating and relating. It has a lot of heart and connects real stories. I've loved every episode and continue to enjoy listening. Learning new things about myself and my relationships while also learning more about all of us male and female as a whole. Def. listen to this if you are desiring to understand men and women and how to bring the balance closer together in love. Plus it's a bonus to laugh and feel there with each story. Truly enjoyable and insightful. Keep on bringing on the stories of real life and the honesty to them.