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Love Kristen!

Feb 8

MKaaSB

Love Kristen on the show — warm, compassionate and funny. And more Cody as guest, please :)
So sad that my favorite podcast has ended

Jun 9

yma4821

I loved this podcast dearly and it was always a bright spot in my week. I even subscribed to Slate Plus just to hear the extra segment. I was so sad when the podcast abruptly ended.
That friend you would never ask about

May 30

bam526

I am regularly STUMPED by the supposed authority of the host: she regularly slaloms between judging the writers or their challengers and wild co-signing/promotion of their maladaptive behaviors and in her wisdom, issuing frankly antisocial responses (if someone comments on your decision to display a provocative self-portrait, demand that they defend their selfies? How mature). Maybe she’s just the right voice for the right time — there seems to be no shortage of terrible advice out there, and no penalty for dispensing it — but I frequently find myself having to turn it off halfway through.
Letter writer word limit WHEN???

Apr 26

castorinibb

The hosts are great, the advice is good, the letters are *novels*! I’m begging the producers to impose a word count or make some strategic edits, because by the time we’re into the third redundant and overly detailed paragraph, I’ve tuned it out. Maybe some discerning person at Slate can make cuts to these letters instead of making cuts to their staff.

Slate's premier advice column, featuring Jenée Desmond-Harris, helps you navigate the thorniest questions of relationships, work, and life. Want more Dear Prudence? Join Slate Plus to unlock weekly bonus episodes with exclusive advice. Plus, you’ll access ad-free listening across all your favorite Slate podcasts. You can subscribe directly from the Dear Prudence show page on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/prudie-plus to get access wherever you listen.