52 min
Did I Sleep With Your Husband or Something?! Ghosted by Your BFF. The Honest Mom Podcast
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- Mental Health
So sometimes friendships fizzle and gradually fade. Sometimes there's a HUGE blowout and you give each other the middle finger and never speak again. But what happens when POOF! Suddenly your best friend, or even just a friend in general, just stops communicating with you?
Is she mad? Did I do something? Have I been doing something and she is just now had it up to her eyeballs? Did I sleep with her husband and have amnesia? What the F is going on? She won't answer my calls, my texts, or acknowledge the card I wrote her. I'm at the point where I may go on her lawn like in "Say Anything" (I'm dating myself here) with a boom box blasting Peter Gabriel's "In Your Eyes".
Ghosting is actually more common than you think. I had NO clue so many people have had this experience and no answers, no closure. It can drive someone MAD figuring out what happened and how to fix it. But what if it can't be fixed? How do you move on and let go?
This episode is for you if you are nodding to anything above or simply want to be prepared in case you're broken up with and have no answers why. I hope what I talk about makes you feel better about the situation, knowing that it probably has nothing to do with you (unless you did indeed sleep with her husband), and how to get in a better mental state about letting go of a friendship.
Mom Card Drawing: "If you could only sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet..." -Fred Rogers (Could we all have a Fred Rogers in our motherhood world?!)
These are a few of my Favorite Things: Simple Mills gluten free and vegan baked items. I get their muffin, cake, brownie, bread and cookie mixes and they are TASTY and filled with incredible ingredients. Sweetened with coconut sugar which makes them even BETTER. Easy and my daughter loves everything we make together. Get yours at Vitacost or download their app!
Thank you so much for listening, sharing, subscribing, and interacting with me about your honest mom journey. I appreciate you so much!
Where to find and connect with me: (click on hyperlinks below)
Website
Instagram
The Honest Mom Project Facebook Group
So sometimes friendships fizzle and gradually fade. Sometimes there's a HUGE blowout and you give each other the middle finger and never speak again. But what happens when POOF! Suddenly your best friend, or even just a friend in general, just stops communicating with you?
Is she mad? Did I do something? Have I been doing something and she is just now had it up to her eyeballs? Did I sleep with her husband and have amnesia? What the F is going on? She won't answer my calls, my texts, or acknowledge the card I wrote her. I'm at the point where I may go on her lawn like in "Say Anything" (I'm dating myself here) with a boom box blasting Peter Gabriel's "In Your Eyes".
Ghosting is actually more common than you think. I had NO clue so many people have had this experience and no answers, no closure. It can drive someone MAD figuring out what happened and how to fix it. But what if it can't be fixed? How do you move on and let go?
This episode is for you if you are nodding to anything above or simply want to be prepared in case you're broken up with and have no answers why. I hope what I talk about makes you feel better about the situation, knowing that it probably has nothing to do with you (unless you did indeed sleep with her husband), and how to get in a better mental state about letting go of a friendship.
Mom Card Drawing: "If you could only sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet..." -Fred Rogers (Could we all have a Fred Rogers in our motherhood world?!)
These are a few of my Favorite Things: Simple Mills gluten free and vegan baked items. I get their muffin, cake, brownie, bread and cookie mixes and they are TASTY and filled with incredible ingredients. Sweetened with coconut sugar which makes them even BETTER. Easy and my daughter loves everything we make together. Get yours at Vitacost or download their app!
Thank you so much for listening, sharing, subscribing, and interacting with me about your honest mom journey. I appreciate you so much!
Where to find and connect with me: (click on hyperlinks below)
Website
Instagram
The Honest Mom Project Facebook Group
52 min