82 episodes

This podcast invites highly sought-after divorce professionals to share their guidance to all women listening. The intent is to share tips that affluent women can use to maintain their lifestyle during and post-divorce.

Hosted by Olivia Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Specialist, and Money Coach who discreetly helps high-net-worth women in divorce with their financial questions.

Divorce for Wealthy Women Olivia Summerhill, CFP, CDFA

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This podcast invites highly sought-after divorce professionals to share their guidance to all women listening. The intent is to share tips that affluent women can use to maintain their lifestyle during and post-divorce.

Hosted by Olivia Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Specialist, and Money Coach who discreetly helps high-net-worth women in divorce with their financial questions.

    Resolving Negative Relationship Patterns and Navigating Divorce

    Resolving Negative Relationship Patterns and Navigating Divorce

    Divorce, especially when children are involved, can be complex and emotionally challenging. Resolving negative relationship patterns is crucial for a positive separation experience. In this episode, licensed professional counselor Kelley Hopkins-Alvarez, LPC,CST,MS,MSEd,NCC, sheds light on navigating these complexities and fostering collaboration during divorce.

    Key Insights:

    Understanding Negative Relationship Cycles: Kelley discusses how unresolved negative relationship cycles impact collaborative divorce, emphasizing trust, communication, and resentment as critical factors.
    Navigating Mediation and Collaborative Divorce: Techniques for finding common ground and workarounds during mediation are explored, highlighting the importance of focusing on smaller agenda items for effective collaboration.
    Role of Therapists and Divorce Financial Consultants: Kelley stresses the significance of therapists and divorce financial consultants in addressing emotional and financial aspects, guiding couples through the process with a focus on children's developmental needs.
    Handling Money-Related Conflicts: Caucusing and separate discussions are suggested to allow individuals to express themselves openly while delicately addressing mental health concerns throughout the divorce process.
    Returning to Collaboration: This section emphasizes the importance of returning to the collaborative process with an open mind, the necessity for compromise, and teamwork, especially for parents shaping the family's future.

    Topics Discussed:

    Negative relationship cycles' impact on collaborative divorce
    Finding common ground during mediation
    Role of therapists and divorce financial consultants
    Communication strategies for couples
    Empowering couples to develop new relationships
    Addressing emotional challenges and supporting children
    Long-term impacts and family leadership

    About Kelley Hopkins-Alvarez, LPC,CST,MS,MSEd,NCC:
    Kelley is a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in Co-Parenting, Discernment Counseling, Divorce Support, and Couples and Sex Therapy. She focuses on empowering clients and prioritizing their emotional well-being. She actively works collaboratively to ensure a non-adversarial approach, particularly concerning children's needs.
    Connect with Kelley:

    Website: www.kelleyhopkinsalvarez.com
    LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/kelleyhopkinsalvarez
    Twitter: @KelleyHAlvarez

    About the Podcast:
    Hosted by Olivia Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Specialist, and Money Coach, the podcast aims to provide affluent women with guidance during divorce. Featuring insights from divorce professionals, it offers tips on maintaining a lifestyle during and after the divorce.
    Connect with Olivia:

    Website: www.summerhillfirm.com
    LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/oliviasummerhill

    Tune in to discover how handling money-related conflicts, fostering collaboration, and addressing emotional challenges can help wealthy women navigate a more informed and supportive divorce process.

    • 21 min
    Breaking Silence: UHNW Women's Divorce Resilience

    Breaking Silence: UHNW Women's Divorce Resilience

    In this episode, we dive into the resonating themes of empowerment, resilience, and the power of voice, drawing parallels between historical injustices and contemporary challenges faced by women, particularly in the context of divorce.



    Join us as we explore insights from Kate Moore, a New York Times best-selling author, as she discusses her book "The Woman They Could Not Silence" and its relevance to the experiences of divorced women today!



    Episode Overview:


    The Story Behind "The Woman They Could Not Silence": Kate Moore shares the captivating narrative of Elizabeth, a courageous woman from the 1860s who defied societal norms and stood up against injustice, even in the face of being labeled as "crazy" and silenced. We explore how Elizabeth's story echoes the struggles of women silenced in various contexts, including divorce.
    Resonance with Divorced Women: Drawing parallels between historical oppression and contemporary challenges, we examine how the narrative of Elizabeth resonates with the experiences of divorced women, especially concerning unfair societal judgments and the use of derogatory labels to discredit their voices.
    Breaking Free from Societal Expectations: Kate emphasizes the importance of breaking free from societal expectations and reclaiming one's voice and agency, particularly during and after divorce. We discuss strategies for overcoming stigma and finding empowerment in self-expression.
    Building Support Networks: Recognizing the significance of support systems, especially during challenging life transitions like divorce, Kate offers practical advice on building strong support networks and finding solidarity with like-minded individuals.
    Personal Transformations and Self-Discovery: Viewing divorce as an opportunity for personal growth and self-discovery, Kate encourages listeners to embrace the journey of transformation and see divorce not merely as a loss but as a chance for new beginnings and authentic self-expression.

    About Kate Moore:

    Kate Moore, a New York Times best-selling author, is known for her captivating storytelling and her dedication to giving voice to the silenced. With a background in publishing and a passion for uncovering untold stories, Kate's work sheds light on forgotten histories and empowers readers to engage with the lives of extraordinary individuals. Her latest book, "The Woman They Could Not Silence," exemplifies her commitment to amplifying marginalized voices and inspiring change.

    Connect with Kate:


    Website: www.kate-moore.com
    LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/kate-Moore
    Facebook: www.facebook.com/Kate-Moore
    Twitter: @katebooks

    About The Podcast:

    Hosted by Olivia Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Specialist, and Money Coach, this podcast provides valuable insights and guidance for affluent women navigating divorce. Through candid conversations with industry experts and thought leaders like Kate Moore, the podcast aims to empower women with the knowledge and resources needed to navigate divorce while maintaining financial stability and personal well-being.

    Connect with the Podcast:


    Website: www.summerhillfirm.com
    LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/oliviasummerhill



    Please tune in to our podcast and discover the strength in your voice as we explore the transformative journey of resilience and empowerment in divorce.

    • 18 min
    Dry January During Divorce?

    Dry January During Divorce?

    Join us in this insightful episode as Casey McGuire Davidson, a renowned Life and Sobriety Coach and host of the famous podcast called The Hello Someday Podcast, delves into the often-overlooked connection between women navigating divorce and their relationship with alcohol.



    Casey sheds light on the societal influences, such as the pervasive "wine mom culture," that contribute to the normalization of alcohol consumption during challenging times. She and I also discuss the effervescent world of champagne, the comforting allure of wine, and their role in the complex divorce journey.



    Key Discussion Points:


    The Norm of Alcohol in Society:



    Casey explores the role of alcohol in the community and how its consumption has become normalized.
    Discusses the potential adverse effects of viewing alcohol as a societal norm.



    Wine as a Coping Mechanism:



    Unpacks the common trend of women turning to alcohol as a coping mechanism during challenging life transitions.
    Highlights the impact of societal marketing and the "wine mom culture" on women's drinking habits.



    Effects of Alcohol on Women:



    Explores how alcohol can act as a suppressant for emotions and frustrations in women.
    Emphasizes the need for open communication about drinking habits and the importance of reflection and self-discovery.



    Creating Alternatives to Alcohol Consumption:



    Casey provides valuable insights into alternatives to alcohol consumption, including improving appearance, better sleep, and engaging in diverting activities.
    Encourages a respectful understanding of diverse approaches to managing personal situations.



    Supportive Community During Change:



    Discusses the significance of a supportive community for individuals exploring their relationship with alcohol.
    Advocates for open dialogue and destigmatizing the discussion around alcohol use.



    Addressing Alcohol Drinking Habits:



    Casey encourages addressing alcohol drinking habits without labeling individuals as "alcoholics."
    Proposes therapy and coaching as alternative approaches to excessive alcohol consumption.




    Connect with Casey:


    Website: www.hellosomedaycoaching.com
    LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/caseydavidson
    Instagram: @caseymdavidson
    TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@hellosomedaysober
    YouTube: The Sober Channel



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    About The Podcast:

    Hosted by Olivia Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Specialist, and Money Coach, this podcast invites sought-after divorce professionals to share tips that affluent women can use to maintain their lifestyle during and post-divorce.



    Connect with Olivia:


    Website: www.summerhillfirm.com
    LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/oliviasummerhill



    Tune in for an empowering conversation that challenges stigmas, offers alternatives, and fosters a supportive community for women navigating divorce and their relationship with alcohol.

    • 40 min
    The Art of Positive Divorce: Navigating Emotional Terrain

    The Art of Positive Divorce: Navigating Emotional Terrain

    In today's episode, we delve into the often-overlooked aspects of divorce with Karen McNenny, an expert in relationships and human behavior who brings over two decades of experience as a divorce coach. Karen sheds light on the path to a positive and constructive divorce, urging a shift in mindset towards rebuilding relationships rather than tearing them apart.



    Key Takeaways:


    Embracing a Positive Mindset: Karen emphasizes the importance of adopting a positive mindset when approaching divorce. Rather than focusing on animosity, she encourages couples to rebuild relationships, especially when children, common friends, and business partnerships are involved.
    Effective Communication: Our guest underscores the significance of effective communication during divorce, mainly when children are in the picture. Karen shares insights on managing joint business ventures and recognizing blind spots that often go unnoticed.
    Navigating Emotional Difficulties: Acknowledging the emotional challenges of divorce, Karen discusses the importance of addressing these difficulties head-on. She shares strategies for managing the emotional aspects and stresses the need for a clear plan and communication strategy.
    Role of a Mediator and Coach: Karen advocates for seeking blind spots during the divorce process and highlights the value of having a coach to reduce the risk of adverse outcomes. A collaborative approach is explored as an alternative, fostering proper handling and fewer complications.



    Topics Discussed:


    Kimberly's Divorce Story: An insightful real-life example of navigating divorce challenges.
    Importance of Effective Communication: Strategies for maintaining open and constructive communication.
    Examining Blind Spots: How identifying blind spots can prevent adverse outcomes in the long run.
    Acknowledging Emotional Difficulties: Strategies for managing and addressing emotional challenges during divorce.
    Crucial Role of Mediators and Coaches: Understanding the importance of professional guidance in the divorce process.
    Exploring the Collaborative Approach: An alternative method to align contracts and minimize complications.



    About Karen McNenny:

    Karen's journey from actress and dancer to a certified Drama and Movement Therapist has uniquely positioned her as a divorce coach. Her extensive background includes corporate experience, where she focused on workplace culture, employee engagement, and leadership excellence. Since 2007, Karen has dedicated herself to supporting individuals and groups in their journey toward improvement and fostering better connections in personal and professional life.

    Connect with Karen:


    Website: www.karenmcnenny.com
    Instagram: @gooddivorcecoach
    Twitter: @McNennyKaren
    Facebook: www.facebook.com/KarenLMcNenny

    About The Podcast:

    Divorce For Wealthy Women invites highly sought-after divorce professionals to share insights and guidance. Our goal is to equip affluent women with tips to maintain their lifestyle during and post-divorce.

    Connect with Olivia:


    Website: www.summerhillfirm.com
    LinkedIn: Olivia Summerhill

    Thank you for joining us on this empowering journey. Remember, you're not alone; there's support every step of the way. Stay tuned for more episodes filled with expert advice and valuable insights.

    • 22 min
    Wealthy Women's Liberation: Mastering Finances After Divorce

    Wealthy Women's Liberation: Mastering Finances After Divorce

    Introduction

    Gaining control of your finances after a divorce can be overwhelming, but you're not alone. In this episode, Mikelann Valterra, a renowned money coach, writer, and speaker, guides us through the intricate journey of post-divorce financial empowerment. Discover the concept of "Money Fog" and practical tips from her latest book, "Rise Above the Money Fog."

    Mikelann is a seasoned money coach, writer, speaker, and leader in personal finance. With over 20 years of private practice, she helps individuals manage cash flow effortlessly, addressing their unique financial psychology. Her mission is to alleviate financial stress, reduce debt, and clarify the future.


    Connect with Mikelann:



    Website


    LinkedIn


    Facebook




    About Mikelann Valterra


    Mikelann's background, expertise, and passion for transforming individuals' relationships with money.



    About "Rise Above the Money Fog"


    Insight into Mikelann's latest book, addressing the challenges of financial anxiety post-divorce.


    Understanding the concept of Money Fog and its impact on financial lives during significant life transitions like divorce.



    Importance of Simplifying Finances


    Mikelann emphasizes elegant financial simplicity, including consolidating accounts to reduce overwhelm.


    The significance of personalized spending plans for gaining control over finances and building a powerful post-divorce life.



    Three Main Money Personalities


    Explore the different money personalities and how they influence financial decisions.



    Mikelann's Personal Divorce Story


    A candid discussion about Mikelann's own experience with divorce and how she applied money coaching principles.



    Host: Olivia Summerhill


    Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Specialist, and Money Coach discreetly assisting high-net-worth women in divorce with their financial questions.


    Connect with Olivia:



    Website


    LinkedIn




    Tune in for a powerful journey to financial empowerment and post-divorce resilience. Don't miss Mikelann's valuable insights and practical tips from "Rise Above the Money Fog," and subscribe to empower yourself with the knowledge to maintain your lifestyle during and after divorce!

    • 19 min
    The Myth of the Silver Spoon and Divorce

    The Myth of the Silver Spoon and Divorce

    The Myth of the Silver Spoon



    Introduction:




    Welcome, listeners, to another insightful episode of "Divorce for Wealthy Women." I'm your host, Olivia Summerhill, and today, we have the privilege of delving into the intricate world of family wealth dynamics, focusing on navigating divorce alongside the esteemed Kristin Keffeler.



    Kristin is not just a consultant; she's a thought leader paving the way in the evolving landscape of global family wealth advising, commonly called Wealth 3.0. As the founder of illumination360 and the Chief Learning Officer for the Johnson Financial Group, Kristin is no stranger to guiding affluent families through life-altering events, especially the complexities of divorce.



    In our conversation, we'll explore Kristin's strengths-based approach, grounded in extensive research and years of private practice. She specializes in human motivation, behavioral change, family dynamics, governance, rising generation education, and intergenerational collaboration—all within the context of divorce. Join us as we uncover the wisdom and insights Kristin has gained on her journey, shedding light on how families can navigate the challenges of divorce and empower the rising generation to make a meaningful impact in the world.



    Stay tuned for an enriching discussion that goes beyond the surface, right here on "Divorce for Wealthy Women."



    Key Takeaways:



    Embracing Transformation:



    Divorce, while challenging, can be a catalyst for personal growth. Kristin explores how embracing the pain and reevaluating beliefs can pave the way for a better future.


    Inner Work in Affluent Families:



    Kristin emphasizes the importance of inner work in affluent families navigating divorce, providing insights into understanding motivations, beliefs, and emotional responses.


    Seven-Step Method from "The Myth of the Silver Spoon":



    Kristin shares the seven-step method outlined in her book, "The Myth of the Silver Spoon," which is designed to help individuals navigate family riches and create a meaningful life.


    Developing Confidence and Finding One's Voice in Divorce:



    Specific techniques are discussed, focusing on how clients can develop confidence and find their voice during the complexities of divorce, particularly in affluent circles.


    The Power of Reframing and Effective Communication:



    Kristin explores the power of reframing the narrative around wealth and divorce and the importance of effective communication within wealthy families to ensure everyone feels heard and understood.


    Insights from "The Myth of the Silver Spoon":



    A glimpse into Kristin's book provides a guide that combines practical advice with psychological insights, offering actionable steps for personal growth and empowerment during life transitions for ultra-high-net-worth families.


    Encouraging Personal Growth During Divorce:



    Personal growth during divorce is highlighted as a transformative opportunity for individuals to reassess values, redefine goals, and embark on a journey of self-discovery.


    Connect with Kristin Keffeler:


    Website: illumination360.com
    LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kristin-keffeler
    Facebook: facebook.com/kristinkeffeler

    Grab a Copy of "The Myth of the Silver Spoon":


    The Myth of the Silver Spoon

    About the Host:


    Olivia Summerhill is a certified financial planner, divorce specialist, and money coach.
    Website: summerhillfirm.com
    LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/oliviasummerhill

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    Subscribe, rate, and leave a review to stay updated on empowering discussions in "Divorce for Wealthy Women."



    Join Olivia Summerhill and her guests for more empowering discussions in the next episode of "Divorce for Wealthy Women." Subscribe now and remember your financial well-being matters.



    [Disclaimer: The information provided in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Consult with a qualified profess

    • 14 min

Customer Reviews

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Refreshing and informative

I have been working with people, including scores of wealthy women going through divorce for over two decades-so it can feel like I’ve heard it all, but Olivia brings a refreshing take on money women and divorce to every episode. Very valuable content. I highly recommend it.

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Such helpful and varied content

I have enjoyed listening to your experts discuss topics that are so relevant and helpful. Great podcast!

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