Divorce Rich with Jacki Roessler, CDFA

Jacqueline Roessler, CDFA
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Divorce Rich with Jacki Roessler, CDFA

Welcome to the Divorce Rich Podcast! Join your host,  highly sought-after speaker and experienced Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Jacki Roessler, CDFA in this engaging  and down to earth show.  Along with her guests, Jacki offers clear and detailed advice to improve your financial decisions before, during and after divorce so you can survive divorce rich! New episodes are posted every  Thursday!  You can reach Jacki through her Michigan-based firm, Roessler Divorce Consulting, located at 600 S. Adams, Suite 300, Birmingham, MI 48009 or by email at jacqueline@roesslerdivorce.com.

  1. JUN 5

    Whose Career Is It Anyway? Divorce and Professional Assets

    Send us a text Forgotten assets can cost you thousands in your divorce settlement. While houses and retirement accounts get plenty of attention, your spouse's career—that law degree you helped them earn, the executive position you moved cities for, or the tenure track you supported them through—often gets overlooked completely. Career assets represent significant value that you helped build during your marriage. From company cars and expense accounts to health insurance benefits, advanced degrees, stock options, and performance-based compensation, these benefits directly impact your spouse's financial position after divorce. Even unvested benefits deserve consideration when dividing marital assets fairly. Working with financial experts who understand divorce can help quantify these complex assets. They can analyze everything from the present value of future earnings to the true cost of replacing employment benefits you'll lose access to after divorce. Remember, your ex's career isn't just their individual success story—it's part of your shared marital economy that deserves fair treatment in your settlement. You deserve recognition for your contributions to building that success, whether direct or indirect. Take the time to understand these often-overlooked assets and ensure they're properly addressed in your divorce proceedings. To schedule an appointment with Jacki for an initial complimentary consultation, use the link below. https://calendly.com/roessler-jacki/30min?month=2024-03 Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

    12 min
  2. Mediation, Divorce (and Marriage) with Attorney, Xavier Prather

    MAY 29

    Mediation, Divorce (and Marriage) with Attorney, Xavier Prather

    Send us a text When most people think of divorce, they picture contentious courtroom battles and emotional warfare. But what if there's a better way? Family law attorney and certified domestic relations mediator Xavier Prather reveals how mediation offers couples a path to resolution that  saves money, and creates better outcomes for everyone involved. Xavier brings an unexpected background to his mediation practice. As the historic winner of Big Brother Season 23—the first Black winner in the show's two-decade history—he developed remarkable skills for helping people in conflict communicate effectively. "In the Big Brother house, just like in divorce, you're dealing with a lot of different personalities and emotions in an environment designed to bring out some of the most toxic feelings," Xavier explains. "That experience taught me how to help people express themselves while still finding common ground." The conversation explores the critical differences between facilitative and evaluative mediation approaches. While evaluative mediation focuses on assessment based on courtroom experience, facilitative mediation centers on improving communication between parties. Xavier passionately advocates for approaches that give couples more control over their outcomes rather than surrendering decisions to the court system. Perhaps most fascinating is Xavier's discussion of marriage mediation—a proactive approach for couples who want to stay together but struggle with communication issues that could eventually lead to divorce. Unlike couples therapy, which delves into psychological patterns, marriage mediation focuses on practical communication strategies and agreements about responsibilities, finances, and parenting. "The couples that go to mediation—I applaud them because they're recognizing they need help before it's too late," Xavier notes. Center for Financial PlanningStriving to Improve Lives Through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

    32 min

  3. MAY 22

    Divorce Rich Snack: Decoding Payroll Stubs: Your Divorce Money Detective Guide

    Send us a text Understanding payroll stubs is a crucial yet often overlooked skill during divorce proceedings. Jacki breaks down how to read both your and your spouse's payroll documentation to ensure you're getting accurate financial information for support calculations and settlements. • Difference between gross pay (what's earned before deductions) and net pay (what's deposited in your account) • Federal and state tax withholdings and how to spot potential overwithholding • Understanding Social Security withholding caps and their impact on paychecks throughout the year • Health insurance, 401(k) and other deductions that affect net pay • How to calculate reasonable federal tax withholding percentages • Year-to-date totals and their importance in cross-checking against W-2 forms • Box 5 on W-2 forms shows Medicare wages, often the best reflection of true gross earnings • Importance of year-end payroll stubs for breaking down different income sources • Four power tips: review all stubs, keep copies of everything, look beyond take-home pay, and learn the payroll system If you like this podcast, please follow us on Apple or anywhere that you download podcasts and share this link with any friends or family that you think might benefit from this information. Center for Financial PlanningStriving to Improve Lives Through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

    13 min
  4. From Pay Cuts to Job Changes: Adjusting Child Support with Attorney Jorin Rubin

    MAY 15

    From Pay Cuts to Job Changes: Adjusting Child Support with Attorney Jorin Rubin

    Send us a text The economic landscape is shifting. With potential downturns and job insecurity looming, knowing exactly when and how to modify child support becomes more than just useful information—it's financial protection.  This candid conversation with family law attorney Jorin Rubin of https://rubinframpton.com/jorin-g-rubin/ reveals the hidden mechanisms behind child support modifications that every divorced or separating parent should understand. What makes this discussion particularly valuable is the exploration of complex scenarios rarely addressed in standard divorce guidance. For self-employed parents, those standard business deductions that keep the IRS satisfied won't shield your income from support calculations. Regular financial gifts from family members might count toward your support obligation. Even that inheritance you received after divorce could impact calculations if you're drawing income from it. To find Jorin on Social Media;  https://www.instagram.com/tipsdivorceattorney/https://www.tiktok.com/@jayattorneyTo schedule an intro free consultation with Jacki, click the link below  https://calendly.com/roessler-jacki/30min?month=2024-03 Center for Financial PlanningStriving to Improve Lives Through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

    27 min
  5. Your Post-Divorce Paycheck: Creating Tax-Efficient Income in Retirement with Nick Defenthaler, CFP®, RIPC®

    APR 17

    Your Post-Divorce Paycheck: Creating Tax-Efficient Income in Retirement with Nick Defenthaler, CFP®, RIPC®

    Send us a text Facing the financial complexities of divorce in your 50s or 60s? The retirement planning decisions you make now could save you tens of thousands in taxes down the road. Jacki Roessler welcomes financial planning expert Nick Defenthaler to unpack the crucial yet often overlooked retirement account strategies that can transform your financial future after divorce. Nick breaks down the fundamental differences between traditional and Roth IRAs with crystal clarity, revealing why understanding these distinctions matters tremendously when dividing assets in a divorce settlement. Nick shares practical wisdom about creating an optimal "retirement paycheck" by drawing from different account types in a strategic sequence. You'll discover why the financial decisions you make during this transition period can have tax implications lasting decades, and why partnering with advisors who understand both divorce and tax planning is essential for long-term financial security. RESOURCES To learn more about Nick, click the link below:   https://www.centerfinplan.com/nick-defenthaler Check out the articles Nick has written for ‘The Street: Retirement Daily”  by clicking the following link  https://www.thestreet.com/retirement-daily/author/nick-defenthaler-cfp-ricpTo schedule a complimentary introductory consultation with Jacki, click the link below:https://calendly.com/roessler-jacki/30min?month=2024-03 Whether you're contemplating divorce, currently navigating the process, or adapting to life after a gray divorce, this episode provides the financial literacy you need to make informed decisions about your retirement accounts and create a more secure future. Subscribe to Divorce Rich for more insights on achieving financial clarity during this challenging life transition. Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

    34 min
  6. Divorce in a Downturn: Stock Market Fears with Wealth Advisor, Melissa Fradenburg

    APR 10

    Divorce in a Downturn: Stock Market Fears with Wealth Advisor, Melissa Fradenburg

    Send us a text When market volatility collides with divorce proceedings, the resulting anxiety can feel overwhelming. But what if this turbulence actually presents unexpected opportunities? Jacki Roessler and wealth advisor Melissa Fradenburg cut through the political noise surrounding recent tariffs to deliver actionable financial wisdom for those navigating divorce during uncertain economic times. This eye-opening conversation tackles the psychological barriers that prevent smart financial decision-making. While most of us hunt for sales when shopping for clothes or furniture, we panic when investments go "on sale" during market dips.  During divorce, when emotions already run high, this reminder to distinguish between realistic concerns and anxiety-driven fears could be the difference between financial recovery and costly mistakes. Whether you're newly managing investments post-divorce or worried about assets still being divided, this episode offers the clarity needed to make sound decisions despite market turbulence. RESOURCES: To reach out to Melissa Fradenburg, click the link below www.antonelliadvisors.com/melissafradenburgClick Here to read Hartford Funds' Article, "Beyond Investment Illusions"  https://www.hartfordfunds.com/dam/en/docs/pub/prospectingmaterials/Brochures/P3320.pdfTo learn more about Jacki's work as a divorce financial planner and to see if she's a good fit for your case,  schedule an initial complimentary consultation by clicking the link below https://calendly.com/roessler-jacki/30min?month=2024-03 Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

    34 min
  7. The Marital Home in Divorce: Experts Weigh In: Sell, Split, Buy-Out?

    APR 3

    The Marital Home in Divorce: Experts Weigh In: Sell, Split, Buy-Out?

    Send us a text The marital home represents far more than bricks and mortar during divorce—it embodies memories, stability, and often the largest financial asset couples must address. This insightful roundtable discussion brings together key experts who should be involved in these critical decisions: family law attorney Max Emmer, mortgage specialist Leeanne McKeon (a Certified Divorce Lending Professional), real estate expert Jodi Douglas, and host Jacki Roessler (a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst). Most eye-opening are the experts' warnings about poorly crafted divorce decree language,  unrealistic refinancing deadlines, improper quitclaim deed timing, and failure to verify accurate home values which can create catastrophic financial consequences that last years beyond the divorce itself. Through real case examples and practical guidance, they demonstrate why assembling the right professional team early prevents costly mistakes. Contact Certified Divorce Lending Professional, LeeAnn McKeon https://movement.com/lo/leeann-mckeonContact Family Law Attorney, Max Emmer  https://www.emmerlawplc.com/contact-us/Contact Realtor, Jodi Douglas, MS, CDRE™, RCS-D™   https://jodidouglas.howardhanna.com/Schedule a complimentary consult with Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Jacki Roessler by clicking the link below: https://calendly.com/roessler-jacki/30min?month=2024-03Download Jacki's budget worksheet by clicking the link below https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/resources/To Register to Attend a Live Workshop on this topic with Jacki, Max, Leeann and Jodi on May 14, 2025 at the Bloomfield Township Library, email Jacki @jacqueline@roesslerdivorce.com. Have you listened to our previous episodes? Subscribe now to ensure you never miss the financial guidance and expert insights that can transform your divorce experience. Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

    37 min
  8. Surprising Divorce Tax Hacks

    MAR 18

    Surprising Divorce Tax Hacks

    Send us a text Tax season brings anxiety for many, but for those navigating divorce, it also presents unique opportunities to protect your financial future. Despite the complexity, understanding a few key tax concepts can literally put thousands of dollars back in your pocket during this challenging life transition. Tax literacy remains shockingly low among Americans—only 2% demonstrate proficient knowledge according to recent studies. Yet as this episode reveals, even basic tax understanding becomes a powerful tool during divorce negotiations. For example, the difference between filing as "single" versus "head of household" isn't just paperwork; it represents a $7,300 higher standard deduction and access to valuable credits that could significantly reduce your tax burden. To learn more on this topic,  click the link below to watch Jacki's webinar on Tax Literacy for Divorce which was recently posted for Phoenix Financial Advocates. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ez2sTDEihS0To schedule an introductory consult (at no charge) with Jacki, click the link below. https://calendly.com/roessler-jacki/30min?month=2025-03 Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

    19 min
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Welcome to the Divorce Rich Podcast! Join your host,  highly sought-after speaker and experienced Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Jacki Roessler, CDFA in this engaging  and down to earth show.  Along with her guests, Jacki offers clear and detailed advice to improve your financial decisions before, during and after divorce so you can survive divorce rich! New episodes are posted every  Thursday!  You can reach Jacki through her Michigan-based firm, Roessler Divorce Consulting, located at 600 S. Adams, Suite 300, Birmingham, MI 48009 or by email at jacqueline@roesslerdivorce.com.

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