Do this for 3% of the day to save your marriage with Monica Tanner Part 2

You lie next to someone you love and feel more like co-managers of a household than a couple — and you couldn't name the day it started. In this second part, Dr. Diane Mueller reframes the resentment you've been quietly swallowing as a warning light on the dashboard, not a death sentence — and shows how handing each other just 3% of your week patches the small leaks before the boat takes on real water. Before your next date night, grab her free Yes, No, Maybe Checklist (mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe) and use it to finally say the small things out loud — the ones that pile up when they stay unspoken. (0:00) Roommate syndrome and myths in long-term relationships (3:20) How common is roommate syndrome? (4:42) The 3% rule for maintaining connection (7:22) Using connecting questions to deepen intimacy (10:03) The power of a yearly getaway (13:00) Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society (14:28) Recycling connecting questions over time (15:50) Addressing and resolving resentment (20:11) Skills for tackling small issues early (22:27) How to work with Monica and her book (23:36) Free gift from Monica and closing remarks