Do you have humility? What is it? | Church 4/26/26

Being used vs being a doormat. How do you stay present? BQ: Do you have humility? What is it? Assignment: Be a thought watcher.

Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, April 26, 2026

📖 NEW Biblical Question: Where are you seeking to exert yourself?

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TIMESTAMPS

* (0:00:00) - 00 - Small talk off-mic; Welcome

* (0:02:13) - 01 - Raymond as tenants’ chauffeur

* (0:06:41) - 1B - Being used vs being a ‘doormat’ the right way

* (0:12:32) - 02 - 🧠 Alzheimer’s: Showcase personality gone: Jesse’s dad story

* (0:15:22) - 03 - Sleepwalking? Daughter out-of-wedlock: Doesn’t have a chance…?

* (0:20:07) - 3B - Trouble forgiving chaotic parents…

* (0:24:04) - 3C - 🤔 How to stay present?

* (0:30:16) - 3D - Other man: Forgive controlling mama, you just like her!

* (0:36:14) - 3E - More: How do you stay present?

* (0:40:11) - 3F - JLP: Seeing thoughts, you’re separated; Let go, don’t lock in

* (0:46:10) - 04 - Escaping? Don’t vacation if you’re stressed.

* (0:49:19) - 4B - Taking photos: Living in the past? Ego?

* (0:51:33) - 4C - Perfect peace? Am I content, or lazy? Don’t compare…

* (0:56:49) - 4D - Feel guilty not writing nephew; Silent Prayer?

* (1:02:47) - 4E - Wife wants to obey, but you won’t lead. Pray.

* (1:07:10) - 05 - Manifesting? Forgive: No expectation. “Teaching” daughter

* (1:09:45) - 06 - Another attempt on Trump! Y’all didn’t know?

* (1:11:16) - 07 - Forgetting the truth? Knowing, not thinking

* (1:16:01) - 08 - 📖 BQ: Do you have humility? What is it?

* (1:24:15) - 8B - Shy lady; Humility? Broke up a fight: “I don’t think I’m a hero.”

* (1:32:06) - 8C - JLP on BQ: Humility is: “I give up.”

* (1:35:04) - 09 - Assignment: Be a thought watcher

* (1:39:29) - 9B - Worried after fight: Insane, not practical!

* (1:42:56) - 9C - JLP on The Fallen State (Ep 450): No “me” to save!

* (1:50:50) - 9D - JLP: God loves us, but we identify with the wrong self

* (1:54:25) - 9E - Son’s baseball coach confrontation

* (1:55:58) - 9F - False personality switch … talking with a boy

* (2:00:34) - 10 - New BQ: Where do you seek to exert yourself? Closing…

CLIPS

01 - Do Not Give as the World Gives: Ego and Being Used for Weakness (9-min) - Rumble - YouTube (SHORT)

08 - What Humility Is (15-min) - Rumble - YouTube (SHORT)

09 - There Is No ‘Me’ to Save from Embarrassment! (19-min) - Rumble - YouTube (SHORT)

See Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, BitChute, Rumble, Odysee — BOND: Rebuilding the Man

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CHURCH NOTES 4/26/26

📖 Biblical Question: Do you have humility? What is it?

📝 Assignment: Be a thought watcher. (assigned on JLP Mon 4-20-26)

📖 NEW Biblical Question: Where are you seeking to exert yourself?

00 - Small talk off-mic; Welcome

(0:00:00) - Start (0:01:38) Intro

(0:02:04) Any questions?

01 - Raymond as tenants’ chauffeur

(0:02:13) - Raymond drives tenants’ kids around.

(0:04:42) Stop now. You’re not responsible. (0:05:49) Just ask Michael Jackson.

1B - Being used vs being a ‘doormat’ the right way

(0:06:41) - The difference between being used and being a doormat… Alms… (0:08:03) They see Raymond’s weakness and are taking advantage of him.

(0:08:34) And your arms are too short to box with God. (funny) Alms? Ohm?

(0:10:14) Don’t do good deeds as the world does.

(0:10:45) - Friend called JLP show, alcoholic friends using her.

(0:12:08) - JLP: Overcome the world

02 - Alzheimer’s: Showcase personality disappears: Jesse’s dad story

(0:12:32) - Question…

(0:13:17) - JLP: Senile people with Alzheimer’s get violent — the real person shows up, because they have no restraints. In our ego nature, we try to hide it and put on a showcase personality.

(0:14:15) - My father was a MESS! He thought his wife was stealing from him.

03 - Sleepwalking? Daughter out-of-wedlock: Doesn’t have a chance…?

(0:15:22) - Mario from Chino. Prison? He grew up on a plantation in Mexico — brother sleepwalked, and would drive! A trauma to him as a kid, he’d follow him around the farm. He was 3, and the brother was 6, and would wake up.

(0:17:20) - 8yo daughter out-of-wedlock … Love your sense of humor…

(0:18:14) - JLP: She doesn’t have a chance… maybe a little chance. If you love God…

(0:19:21) - Kids cannot handle evil at all. … Am I doing too much sharing your teachings? Be a living example.

3B - Trouble forgiving chaotic parents…

(0:20:07) - Tried forgiving mother and father a month ago — his dad isn’t into releasing his anger. He’s done it three times. He carried a lot of anger as a kid — mother left… Dad a drunk, met him at 8, mistreated us badly. It was chaotic. Sat them both down — I practiced it. (0:22:03) - Dad asked why I’m staying away from the family. Always drinking, gossip.

3C - How to stay present?

(0:24:04) - Dolores: Not your thoughts; you’re not observing them. How do I observe a thought?

(0:25:31) - How do I get into the present? Do I lock into my heartbeat? Jesse jokes that means you’re dying. Dolores…

(0:27:01) - I can stay present at a creek, but walking through hell, so many distractions!

(0:27:31) - Vanessa’s husband has trouble staying present himself… JLP: Your wife still beat you up? Is it OK to go for a rest, or is that avoidance?

(0:28:17) - Adriana answers.

(0:29:42) - When he plays drums…

3D - Other man: Forgive controlling mama, you just like her!

(0:30:16) - Another man in a black shirt… JLP: he knows thaaat! But howww? (0:31:20) - Forgiven? Yes! Did you go and