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Need advice? Don’t Blame Me is here to answer your call, literally. Host Meghan Rienks and Producer/Co-Host Melisa D. Monts bring their blunt, truthful, and hilarious wisdom on topics such as sex, mental health, and relationships. Take their advice or not - you can’t blame them for screwing up your life.
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Don't Blame Me‪!‬ Meghan Rienks

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.8 • 3K Ratings

Need advice? Don’t Blame Me is here to answer your call, literally. Host Meghan Rienks and Producer/Co-Host Melisa D. Monts bring their blunt, truthful, and hilarious wisdom on topics such as sex, mental health, and relationships. Take their advice or not - you can’t blame them for screwing up your life.
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    Boyfriend Won't Get High School Diploma

    Boyfriend Won't Get High School Diploma

    Meghan and Melisa give advice on:

    Returning to working in an officeFriend not supporting your moveMental health and hybrid workingSupporting your boyfriend who hasn't finished high schoolDon't Blame Them: Compulsory Heterosexuality
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    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf
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    www.dontblameme.showDomestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com… with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.
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    • 1 hr 46 min
    Compulsory Heterosexuality

    Compulsory Heterosexuality

    Meghan and Melisa give advice on:

    Write-In Update: Boyfriend was rude because I forgot that I was going to help him moveIf you're being love bombedBoyfriend won't claim his independence from his parentsWondering if you're in love with your partnerTelling a friend they're too touchyDon't Blame Them: My Best Friend's Dad Wants to Sleep With Me
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    @by.meghan.and.melisa
    https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf
    Need Advice?
    www.dontblameme.showDomestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com… with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.
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    • 1 hr 36 min
    Girlfriend Broke Up With Me On Facetime While In Italy

    Girlfriend Broke Up With Me On Facetime While In Italy

    After discussing weddings, Meghan and Melisa give advice on:

    Boyfriend was rude because I forgot that I was going to help him moveGirlfriend broke up with me while she was in ItalyFriend didn’t show up to bridal showerDBT: Working with an assistant who acts like your superiorDBT: Not having your ideal job after graduating college
    Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me
    Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891
    Follow Us!
    @meghanrienks
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    @sheisnotmelissa
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    @by.meghan.and.melisa
    https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf
    Need Advice?
    www.dontblameme.showDomestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com… with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.
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    • 1 hr 13 min
    My Best Friend's Dad Wants to Sleep With Me

    My Best Friend's Dad Wants to Sleep With Me

    After discussing Love Island, Meghan and Melisa give advice on:
    They give advice on:
    Update: Peeing Bride - Part IIWorking with an assistant who acts like your superiorNot having your ideal job after graduating collegeFriend dramatizing their painOffered $200 for sex with your friend's dadDon't Blame Them: Boyfriend feels entitled to your body
    Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me
    Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891
    Follow Us!
    @meghanrienks
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    @sheisnotmelissa
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    @by.meghan.and.melisa
    https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf
    Need Advice?
    www.dontblameme.showDomestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com… with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.
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    • 1 hr 31 min
    How to Date Your Ex

    How to Date Your Ex

    After discussing Wikifeet and their net worths, Meghan and Melisa then read a write-in update from the person whose boyfriend's friends wrote a slur on his birthday cake.
    They give advice on:
    Being good houseguestsHaving a new relationship with your exSetting boundariesBoyfriend not driving you to the airportDon't Blame Them: Independence of moving to a new city without a relationship 
    Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me
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    Follow Us!
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    @by.meghan.and.melisa
    https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf
    Need Advice?
    www.dontblameme.showDomestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com… with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.
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    • 1 hr 8 min
    Boyfriend Feels Entitled to My Body

    Boyfriend Feels Entitled to My Body

    Meghan and Melisa are back together, in person, celebrating their 10th season of Don't Blame Me!
    The give advice on:

    Update: Crushing on your grad school cohortMoving in with your boyfriend but feeling behind your other friends that are in relationshipsHaving a strained relationship with your motherFriend keeps dating creepsBoyfriend's touch is overwhelmingDon't Blame Them: Wanting your partner to uproot their life because of a work opportunity
    Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891
    Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me
    Follow Us!
    @meghanrienks
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    @sheisnotmelissa
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    @by.meghan.and.melisa
    https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf
    Need Advice?
    www.dontblameme.showDomestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com… with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.
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    • 1 hr 21 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
3K Ratings

3K Ratings

SammyBdancin' ,

Count me converted!

I found this podcast after being a subscriber on Meghan’s YouTube (side note: love the cinnamon roll recipe😋). I’m going to be honest and say that when I started listening to this podcast I was definitely a conservative and had a lot of backwards thinking. After listening to season after season, (and after getting over my own big-headedness lol) I truly started to realize that not only are these ladies giving great relationship advice, but their moral and political standpoints are on point and make so much more sense than what I was raised to believe.
Thank you so much Meghan and Melisa. You have both changed my life in too many ways to count! Keep shining bright! ❤️

S. Asanov ,

Meghan always agreeing with Melisa

In overall I love listening to this podcast and listening to callers call in, however, often times I feel like when Meghan gives an advice before Melisa and then listens to Melisa’s advice she ends up changing her advice to fit Melisa’s and agree with her. It’s okay to have opposing opinions and advice. I listen to almost all of the episodes and realize this almost every time.

MapleLeafFan1 ,

Unnecessarily Cruel

I’ve followed Meghan since her tiffany blue bedroom days, but I’m done. I can’t shake the feeling that she is a mean girl after listening to this podcast. On multiple occasions, I have found it to be unnecessarily cruel and unaccepting toward its callers. It honestly feels like both hosts are lashing out at callers to ease their own problems rather than give quality advice.

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