235 episodes

Hosted by New York City-based comedians Carolyn Bergier & Melody Kamali, Dyking Out is a podcast about lesbian / queer life, news, and pop culture. Each week, Carolyn and Melody invite a special guest (comedians, musicians, actors, crushes) to dyke out with them about a topic that's relevant to the LGBTQIA world. But really, it's just another way to advance the gay agenda.

Dyking Out - a Lesbian and LGBTQIA Podcast for Everyone‪!‬ Dyking Out - a Lesbian and LGBTQ Podcast for Everyone!

    • Comedy
    • 4.8 • 1.4K Ratings

Hosted by New York City-based comedians Carolyn Bergier & Melody Kamali, Dyking Out is a podcast about lesbian / queer life, news, and pop culture. Each week, Carolyn and Melody invite a special guest (comedians, musicians, actors, crushes) to dyke out with them about a topic that's relevant to the LGBTQIA world. But really, it's just another way to advance the gay agenda.

    "The World is Down One Sick Rack" w/ DeAnne Smith

    "The World is Down One Sick Rack" w/ DeAnne Smith

    We made contact with comedian and writer DeAnne Smith (Netflix) from their underground Canadian bunker for an episode that will have you thinking about nipples, or the absence of them. DeAnne tells us about their recovery from top surgery, the overwhelming nipple considerations, and the sick rack they parted with. We also address Important Lesbian Questions like If you're friends with an ex, when can you call them a friend instead of your ex? How do you get over heartache? How can you use your assets to advance social justice causes? If you're in New York City, be sure to catch DeAnne's monthly show DeAnarchy at Union Hall!
    -Get extra content EACH WEEK, Ad Free episodes, support the pod, and get to know other listeners by joining our Patreon community.
    If you can't support the pod on a monthly basis, please consider tipping us through Paypal or purchasing 1-on-1s and cameos through Jemi. We truly appreciate it!
    -We've got MERCH.
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    -Help more folks find us and Leave Us a 5-star Review if you like what you hear!
    -Theme song by There Is No Mountain
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    • 1 hr 13 min
    "What Would Anne Lister Do?" w/ Sally Wainwright

    "What Would Anne Lister Do?" w/ Sally Wainwright

    This episode is sponsored by Ana Luisa Jewelry offering a special discount for our listeners.
    Anne Lister is THRIVING thanks our guest Sally Wainwright, the creator of Gentleman Jack , now in its second season on HBO. Whether or not you've seen the show, this is the perfect episode to learn more about one of the most fascinating d*kes who never got her due in our history books. Sally talks about the breadth and quality of Anne's diaries and how they shaped the show. Yes, we ask about the pube lockets. But we also talk about so much more! Also, for all of you Last Tango in Halifax fans, we ask her about it. Looking for more content? Head to our Patreon to hear Melody's most INSANE dating app story.
    -Get extra content EACH WEEK, Ad Free episodes, support the pod, and get to know other listeners by joining our Patreon community.
    If you can't support the pod on a monthly basis, please consider tipping us through Paypal or purchasing 1-on-1s and cameos through Jemi. We truly appreciate it!
    -We've got MERCH.
    -For related content, follow us on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram
    -Help more folks find us and Leave Us a 5-star Review if you like what you hear!
    -Theme song by There Is No Mountain
    Sponsors:
    Carpe: mycarpe.com use code DYKINGOUT for 25% off your first purchase
    Helix: Helixsleep.com/dykingout for up to $200 off your purchase
    BetterHelp: As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at betterhelp.com/do 
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    • 1 hr 3 min
    "Playing The Long Game" w/ Sammi Cohen

    "Playing The Long Game" w/ Sammi Cohen

    Melody Kamali got stuck sitting weird in a chair (she had a last-minute conflict) and won't be on this week's episode. But we wanted to record it and put it out anyway because we are so excited to talk about the movie we all wish existed in our formative years. We've got Sammi Cohen talking all things Crush (streaming now on Hulu), a new queer coming-of-age romcom that will have you speaking in puns. Or signing up for sports you're not good at. Or learning how to skateboard. Do we finally have the queer movie we've always wanted? What went on behind the scenes to ensure an authentic and entertaining story? How did Sammi bring her own experiences to the film? Why do straight girls keep insisting on tickling each other's backs? In terms of queer storytelling, where do we go from here? We hope you love this movie as much as we do!
    -Get extra content EACH WEEK, Ad Free episodes, support the pod, and get to know other listeners by joining our Patreon community.
    If you can't support the pod on a monthly basis, please consider tipping us through Paypal or purchasing 1-on-1s and cameos through Jemi. We truly appreciate it!
    -We've got MERCH.
    -For related content, follow us on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram
    -Help more folks find us and Leave Us a 5-star Review if you like what you hear!
    -Theme song by There Is No Mountain
    Sponsors:
    Carpe: mycarpe.com use code DYKINGOUT for 25% off your first purchase
    Helix: Helixsleep.com/dykingout for up to $200 off your purchase
    BetterHelp: As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at betterhelp.com/do 
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 53 min
    "I'm Not Your Mother" w/ ContraPoints (Natalie Wynn)

    "I'm Not Your Mother" w/ ContraPoints (Natalie Wynn)

    Are you in a parasocial relationship with this week's guest? Or with us? You're probably not alone! YouTuber (or video essayist, pick your poison) and ex-philosopher Natalie Wynn, known by most as ContraPoints, joins us to d*ke out about our strange digital relationships. Sometimes it's angry people hiding behind anime avatars. Other times, it's people you've never met inviting you to their wedding. And if you're lucky, it's really great folks in your audience who you enjoy getting to know and maybe become friends with! Also, we touch on the power of crystals, and Natalie has the best answer to our new final question.
    -Get extra content EACH WEEK, Ad Free episodes, support the pod, and get to know other listeners by joining our Patreon community.
    If you can't support the pod on a monthly basis, please consider tipping us through Paypal or purchasing 1-on-1s and cameos through Jemi. We truly appreciate it!
    -We've got MERCH.
    -For related content, follow us on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram
    -Help more folks find us and Leave Us a 5-star Review if you like what you hear!
    -Theme song by There Is No Mountain
    Sponsors:
    Carpe: mycarpe.com use code DYKINGOUT for 25% off your first purchase
    Helix: Helixsleep.com/dykingout for up to $200 off your purchase
    BetterHelp: As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at betterhelp.com/do 
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    • 1 hr 16 min
    "Secretly Holding Hands" w/ Aby James

    "Secretly Holding Hands" w/ Aby James

    BIG EP ALERT! We're changing up our format to freshen up the way we d*ke out. And what better guest for this than comedian and actor Aby James (How I Met Your Father). Aby tells us about her unique relationship with her therapist, playing Tien Tran's love interest, her old YouTube videos, and what happened when she fell in love with her best friend. How far would you go to spend the most time with your best friend who you happen to be in love with but may not be fully aware of that fact? Probably not as far as Aby! Also, what's all the hype about Hype D*kes? We hope you like the new format, and as always, head to the Patreon for all the juicy gay goss.
    -Get extra content EACH WEEK, Ad Free episodes, support the pod, and get to know other listeners by joining our Patreon community.
    If you can't support the pod on a monthly basis, please consider tipping us through Paypal or purchasing 1-on-1s and cameos through Jemi. We truly appreciate it!
    -We've got MERCH.
    -For related content, follow us on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram
    -Help more folks find us and Leave Us a 5-star Review if you like what you hear!
    -Theme song by There Is No Mountain
    Sponsors:
    Carpe: mycarpe.com use code DYKINGOUT for 25% off your first purchase
    Helix: Helixsleep.com/dykingout for up to $200 off your purchase
    BetterHelp: As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at betterhelp.com/do 
    Best Fiends: Join us and the millions of Americans who are already playing this game. Download Best Fiends for FREE on The Apple APP store or Google Play.
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    • 1 hr 10 min
    The Chart w/ Zara Barrie

    The Chart w/ Zara Barrie

    How many lines connect you to your local Shane on The Chart? Lesbian aficionada, writer, author, and performer Zara Barrie joins us to explore the tangled webs we weave in our community. Is it okay to hook up with a friend's ex? Why do 'charts' feel more real in smaller cities? When queer women go after straights, is it because they've exhausted their own chart? Should we put all our projects on hold to make a master Celesbian chart? Which one of us is the real Alice Pieszecki? Okay, we don't address that last one, but feel free to let us know your opinion. Plus, Melody gays up the Grammy's and Carolyn wants to change an icon's life story. And finally, we get a short and sweet listener question but give it the longest answer.
    -Get extra content EACH WEEK, Ad Free episodes, support the pod, and get to know other listeners by joining our Patreon community.
    If you can't support the pod on a monthly basis, please consider tipping us through Paypal or purchasing 1-on-1s and cameos through Jemi. We truly appreciate it!
    -We've got MERCH.
    -For related content, follow us on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram
    -Help more folks find us and Leave Us a 5-star Review if you like what you hear!
    -Theme song by There Is No Mountain
    Sponsors:
    Carpe: mycarpe.com use code DYKINGOUT for 25% off your first purchase
    Helix: Helixsleep.com/dykingout for up to $200 off your purchase
    BetterHelp: As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at betterhelp.com/do 
    Best Fiends: Join us and the millions of Americans who are already playing this game. Download Best Fiends for FREE on The Apple APP store or Google Play.
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    • 1 hr 37 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
1.4K Ratings

1.4K Ratings

Holiday Laurent ,

Holiday Laurent

Do yourself a favor and get into this podcast!

Samee J ,

Wonderful Show!

Love this podcast! Melody and Carolyn are great hosts and are very cool and funny.

zurn_ ,

Best Podcast Ever !

Been listening for a little under a year and I’ve been loving it ever since. Had to become a Patreon also bc well… I NEEDED more dyking out content haha Also that chart music impression is A1! 😂

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