When Life Swings - Swing Back! Resilience Podcast with Phylecia Kellar (formerly ballin and bipolar)

E114 - WE ALL HAVE TWO ROADS WE CAN GO DOWN - WHICH ONE WILL YOU CHOOSE?

Recently, I had a conversation with my 10-year-old nephew that stopped me in my tracks — because it wasn’t just a lesson for him, it was a reminder for all of us.

I told him there are two roads he can go down in life:

  • One where he focuses on everything he can’t do — the problems, the trauma, the obstacles
  • And another where he focuses on what he can do — the opportunities, the solutions, and the choices still available to him

This episode is a conversation about choice.
About how trauma, hardship, and pain are real — but they don’t get to decide our future unless we let them.

We talk about:

  • How early experiences shape our thinking
  • The difference between acknowledging problems and becoming trapped by them
  • Learning to quiet the mind when it spirals
  • Why focusing on solutions doesn’t erase trauma — it gives us power

No matter your age, background, or story, we all reach moments where we have to choose which road we’ll walk. This episode is a reminder that while we can’t control everything that happens to us, we can choose how we move forward.

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