Effective Ways to Support a Loved One Through Divorce

Divorce can be an incredibly challenging experience, especially when navigating the complexities of a high-net-worth divorce. In this episode, Jamie Berger and Sarah Jacobs, co-founders of the esteemed Jacobs Berger family law practice, share their expert advice on how friends and family can effectively support a loved one during this difficult time—without overstepping boundaries or complicating the legal and emotional process.

Jamie and Sarah, both seasoned family law professionals, delve into the critical role that loved ones can play in providing support. They offer actionable insights on how to help with organizing financial documents, when to bring in outside professionals, and how to maintain healthy boundaries throughout the divorce. They also caution against common pitfalls, such as offering unsolicited legal advice or pushing a particular lawyer, and explain how these well-meaning actions can unintentionally add stress.

This episode is packed with invaluable advice for anyone supporting someone going through a high-net-worth divorce—or for those experiencing one themselves. By the end of this conversation, you’ll have a clear understanding of how to provide the right kind of support while respecting both emotional and legal needs.

Key Topics Discussed:

• Understanding Boundaries: How to respect the role of lawyers and mediators while offering emotional support.
• Emotional Support vs. Legal Advice: Why it’s important to differentiate between the two and avoid giving legal guidance unless qualified.
• The Dangers of Comparisons: Why comparing your loved one’s divorce to others can be harmful and unhelpful.
• Financial Considerations: What friends and family need to understand about the financial complexities of ultra-high-net-worth divorces.
• Common Mistakes to Avoid: Recognizing the common missteps friends and family often make during a divorce, and how to avoid them.

Connect with Jamie and Sarah:

• Website: Jacobs Berger
• Jamie Berger LinkedIn: Jamie Berger
• Sarah Jacobs LinkedIn: Sarah Jacobs
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About The Podcast: Hosted by Brooke Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Specialist, and Money Coach, this podcast shares expert insights and tips for affluent women navigating divorce. Whether you’re going through a divorce yourself or supporting a loved one, this podcast is your go-to resource for maintaining your lifestyle and financial stability during and after divorce.

Connect with Brooke:

• Website: Summerhill Firm
• LinkedIn: Brooke Summerhill