51 min
Ep. 133 - Having Superhero moments with Jonathan Miller The Social-Engineer Podcast
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- Social Sciences
In this episode, Chris Hadnagy, Shelby Dacko and Jonathan Miller discuss many ways to improve your skills as a communicator. Learn the importance of observing the information your own body gives you. Hear their experiences with being amygdala hijacked, and how you can have your own superhero moment.
00:07 – Introduction to Shelby Dacko, Human Risk Analyst for Social-Engineer.
00:44 – Introduction to Jonathan Miller and his experience resolving conflict without violence.
02:06 – How to focus on nonviolent communication in violent circumstances.
04:18 – How to engage in productive conversation by respecting other’s opinions.
06:24 – Become a better communicator by paying attention to introspective sensations.
10:33 – How a 1984 GMC Vandura and a potato helped Jonathan become a communications expert.
14:48 – Why most people pay no attention to the way they communicate.
18:58 – Announcements:
Human Hacking: Win Friends, Influence People, and Leave Them Better Off for Having Met You
Virtual Advanced Practical Social Engineering - 17-20 November, 2020
The Human Hacking Conference - Orlando, FL March 11-13, 2021
HHC SE Pentest Track – Day 2 – Vishing (Curt)
Advanced Practical Social Engineering – Orlando 13-16 April, 2021
Masters Level Social Engineering – Orlando, Fl 10-14 May, 2021
Advanced Practical Social Engineering – Bristol, UK 15-18 June, 2021
Social-Engineer.com
23:35 – How to become self-aware of the way you communicate.
25:08 – How to Deal with Defensiveness and Defensive People in Conversations
26:09 – How an amygdala hijack can trigger a defensive response and how you can work to fight it.
42:56 – Defensiveness creates more defensiveness.
44:29 – Jonathan's contact info, podcast and social media links.
Press Kit: http://bit.ly/JMPressKit
Website: https://www.mindfulcommunication.me
Mindful Communication Podcast: https://anchor.fm/podcast-863ccb8
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/millerdjonathan/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mindfulcommunication/
Tough Talks Made Easy: https://bit.ly/ToughTalksMadeEasy
Code: social50
Article: How to Deal with Defensiveness and Defensive People in Conversations
46:39: Jonathan’s book recommendations.
Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life
Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind
48:01 – Outro
Chris on Twitter
Social-Engineer on Twitter
Social-Engineer on Instagram
Social-Engineer.org
Social-Engineer.com
The Human Hacking Conference
The Human Hacking Conference on Twitter
The Innocent Lives Foundation
The Innocent Lives Foundation on Twitter
In this episode, Chris Hadnagy, Shelby Dacko and Jonathan Miller discuss many ways to improve your skills as a communicator. Learn the importance of observing the information your own body gives you. Hear their experiences with being amygdala hijacked, and how you can have your own superhero moment.
00:07 – Introduction to Shelby Dacko, Human Risk Analyst for Social-Engineer.
00:44 – Introduction to Jonathan Miller and his experience resolving conflict without violence.
02:06 – How to focus on nonviolent communication in violent circumstances.
04:18 – How to engage in productive conversation by respecting other’s opinions.
06:24 – Become a better communicator by paying attention to introspective sensations.
10:33 – How a 1984 GMC Vandura and a potato helped Jonathan become a communications expert.
14:48 – Why most people pay no attention to the way they communicate.
18:58 – Announcements:
Human Hacking: Win Friends, Influence People, and Leave Them Better Off for Having Met You
Virtual Advanced Practical Social Engineering - 17-20 November, 2020
The Human Hacking Conference - Orlando, FL March 11-13, 2021
HHC SE Pentest Track – Day 2 – Vishing (Curt)
Advanced Practical Social Engineering – Orlando 13-16 April, 2021
Masters Level Social Engineering – Orlando, Fl 10-14 May, 2021
Advanced Practical Social Engineering – Bristol, UK 15-18 June, 2021
Social-Engineer.com
23:35 – How to become self-aware of the way you communicate.
25:08 – How to Deal with Defensiveness and Defensive People in Conversations
26:09 – How an amygdala hijack can trigger a defensive response and how you can work to fight it.
42:56 – Defensiveness creates more defensiveness.
44:29 – Jonathan's contact info, podcast and social media links.
Press Kit: http://bit.ly/JMPressKit
Website: https://www.mindfulcommunication.me
Mindful Communication Podcast: https://anchor.fm/podcast-863ccb8
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/millerdjonathan/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mindfulcommunication/
Tough Talks Made Easy: https://bit.ly/ToughTalksMadeEasy
Code: social50
Article: How to Deal with Defensiveness and Defensive People in Conversations
46:39: Jonathan’s book recommendations.
Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life
Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind
48:01 – Outro
Chris on Twitter
Social-Engineer on Twitter
Social-Engineer on Instagram
Social-Engineer.org
Social-Engineer.com
The Human Hacking Conference
The Human Hacking Conference on Twitter
The Innocent Lives Foundation
The Innocent Lives Foundation on Twitter
51 min