It's Not Me, It's You

Really loving this podcast. John and Vanessa are so down to earth, and willing to speak frankly about tough subjects. I’m learning a lot.

Are you guys doing anymore podcasts together??

John Kim is raw, witty, and vulnerable. Self-aware and willing to learn. A dream come true in a man, right? Ha. I love listening to him on his shorts on the angry therapist.. what surprised me here was Vanessa. I love her intelligent insight and assertiveness.. she helps bring the depth .. she knows a lot about the psychology of it all... if relationships haven’t always been smooth sailing for you, these two will resonate with you. As an accomplished woman myself, I appreciate their take on attachment styles and childhood traumas/experiences that shape adulthood. Plus they’ll make you laugh! No man understands “for show” hand towels.

I look forward to new episodes every week!! I love how open and honest v+j are. The topics they cover are so relatable. I usually don’t like when couples share lessons about relationships, but I actually trust these two because they are therapists who are still learning and growing. Love love love