18 min
Ep 2 | Unapologetically You: Navigating Self-Expression and Societal Norms The Gothic Heart
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- Fashion & Beauty
Summary:
In this episode of "The Gothic Heart," I share a story from my law school days that reveals the struggle of staying true to your style while dealing with the expectations of society. I remember wearing a bright red pleather dress to our annual Barrister's Ball, thinking it was the perfect way to express my personality. But later, I found out that a professor I hadn’t even met was judging me for it, saying it was inappropriate and that I'd never make it in the legal world with that kind of fashion sense. I was like, are you kidding me? We were at a party, not a courtroom!
But here's the thing—I didn't let those judgments change who I was or how I dressed. I kept my edge while still meeting the professional expectations of law school and, later, the courtroom. I designed jewelry that was subtle but had hidden gothic elements, and I got tattoos that could be covered with a suit. It's all about finding ways to be yourself without giving in to societal pressure.
In this episode, I talk about the balancing act of expressing your true self while navigating environments that might not be so open to alternative styles. If you've ever felt like you had to tone down your style or hide your interests just to fit in, you'll relate to this. Join me as I share my experiences and give some tips on how to strike that balance. Because at the end of the day, you should never have to apologize for being you.
Episode Highlights:
Introduction: Navigating Self-Expression within Societal Norms Challenges of Workplace Expectations Finding a Balance: Personal Style and Professional Requirements Embracing the Evolution of Personal Style Discovering Support and Resources for Alternative Interests The Journey Ahead If you're loving what you heard, grab a screenshot and spread the word on Instagram! Tag me @amityalexandrajewelry so I can join in the excitement. And hey, if you're really feeling the vibe, drop a review and toss those five stars my way. Your support fuels this passion project, and I'm so grateful for every bit of it! 🌟
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MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Red Pleather Dress Vampire Fang Ring Photos of the above can be found in the accompanying blog post at https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/blogs/the-gothic-heart/episode2
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Check out the Amity Alexandra Jewelry Design Website | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/
Schedule a Consult with Me! | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/pages/work-with-amity _____________________________
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Summary:
In this episode of "The Gothic Heart," I share a story from my law school days that reveals the struggle of staying true to your style while dealing with the expectations of society. I remember wearing a bright red pleather dress to our annual Barrister's Ball, thinking it was the perfect way to express my personality. But later, I found out that a professor I hadn’t even met was judging me for it, saying it was inappropriate and that I'd never make it in the legal world with that kind of fashion sense. I was like, are you kidding me? We were at a party, not a courtroom!
But here's the thing—I didn't let those judgments change who I was or how I dressed. I kept my edge while still meeting the professional expectations of law school and, later, the courtroom. I designed jewelry that was subtle but had hidden gothic elements, and I got tattoos that could be covered with a suit. It's all about finding ways to be yourself without giving in to societal pressure.
In this episode, I talk about the balancing act of expressing your true self while navigating environments that might not be so open to alternative styles. If you've ever felt like you had to tone down your style or hide your interests just to fit in, you'll relate to this. Join me as I share my experiences and give some tips on how to strike that balance. Because at the end of the day, you should never have to apologize for being you.
Episode Highlights:
Introduction: Navigating Self-Expression within Societal Norms Challenges of Workplace Expectations Finding a Balance: Personal Style and Professional Requirements Embracing the Evolution of Personal Style Discovering Support and Resources for Alternative Interests The Journey Ahead If you're loving what you heard, grab a screenshot and spread the word on Instagram! Tag me @amityalexandrajewelry so I can join in the excitement. And hey, if you're really feeling the vibe, drop a review and toss those five stars my way. Your support fuels this passion project, and I'm so grateful for every bit of it! 🌟
_____________________________
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Red Pleather Dress Vampire Fang Ring Photos of the above can be found in the accompanying blog post at https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/blogs/the-gothic-heart/episode2
_____________________________
CONNECT WITH ME!
The Gothic Heart Blog | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/blogs/the-gothic-heart
Check out the Amity Alexandra Jewelry Design Website | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/
Schedule a Consult with Me! | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/pages/work-with-amity _____________________________
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amityalexandrajewelry
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amityalexandrajewelry
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amityalexandrajewelry
Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/amityalexandrajewelry
You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/@amityalexandrajewelry
18 min