Ep. 40Who are You? Family, Politics, and the Hunger for Identity with Mary Eberstadt The Moral Imagination

In the episode I speak with Mary Eberstadt about her latest book Primal Screams: How the Sexual Revolution Created Identity Politics. She argues that the revolutionary changes to family structure across the western world: fatherlessness, divorce, abortion, single parent homes, the shrinking of the family –have caused deep hurt in people and that many of the social problems we face today are manifestations of a “primal scream” for belonging.
 Eberstadt explains that the breakdown of the family has resulted in a widespread subtraction: we have a much smaller protective infrastructure around us than our ancestors did. While many people connect family decline to individual things like loneliness or educational achievement, it also has large macro impacts. She argues that primary cause of political rage, identity politics, gender confusion, and more is rooted in the breakdownof the family and people’s struggle to answer the question “Who am I?”  
Primal Screams is a very important book that combines an empirical examination with a real empathy for people who suffer from the impact of the sexual revolution and the break down of the family.
We discuss a number of issues including:  
Loneliness in the elderly and the young
The rise in psychiatric problems among Generation Z and Millennials
What we can learn from animal behavior and family structure
How the sexual revolution harms women and children and only benefits predatory men.
Transgenderism
The #MeToo Movement
The role of abuse and sexual dysphoria
The lack of siblings and the problem of social learning
The Myth of the Lone Wolf
The Trend of Incels
The Great Resignation
How Feminism creates problems for both girls and boys
Masculinity and Decline of Males
Declines in Fertility
Contraception
Critiques and replies to her argument by Mark Lilla, Peter Thiel, and Rod Dreher
Biography Mary Eberstadt holds the Panula Chair at the Catholic Information Center in Washington, DC, and is a Senior Research Fellow at the Faith and Reason Institute. Her latest book is Primal Screams: How the Sexual Revolution Created Identity Politics, with commentaries by Rod Dreher, Mark Lilla, and Peter Thiel. 
Her other books include It's Dangerous to Believe; How the West Really Lost God; and Adam and Eve after the Pill. Mrs. Eberstadt’s writing has appeared in many magazines and journals. [Her 2010 novel The Loser Letters, about a young woman in rehab struggling with atheism, was adapted for stage and premiered at Catholic University in fall 2017. Seton Hall University awarded her an honorary doctorate in humane letters in 2014. During the Reagan administration, she was a speechwriter to Secretary of State George Shultz and a special assistant to Ambassador Jeane J. Kirkpatrick at the United Nations. Updates about her work can be found on her website, maryeberstadt.com
 
Resources Mary Eberstadt Website: maryeberstadt.com
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My lecture on Robert Nisbet and the decline and quest for community