Ep. 71 - Putting Yourself First with Eric Ballester The Art of Winning

Eric Ballester is a transitioning U.S. Air Force Special Warfare Combat Controller who has spent 20 years working with some of the bravest Americans. During his last 12 years, he supported the national mission at the Joint Special Operations Command, where he built high-performance teams, solved complex problems, provided teaching and mentoring, handled logistics, and delivered superior operating results. He has excellent communication skills and is highly adept in fast-paced, rapidly changing environments. Eric's military experience, critical thinking, and positive attitude are his strengths, and he has an exceptional ability to adapt and overcome obstacles. His drive to constantly improve propelled him past his peers, making him the #1 Special Operator of the year. He recently earned his MBA at the University of Arizona Eller School of Management. Eric is also a founding member of a non-profit organization that treats veterans and first responders suffering from visible and non-visible injuries. To learn more about the incredible efforts helping service members and first responders, check out Shields & Stripes!
 
In this episode, Eric delves into the importance of self-care for veterans, first responders, and active-duty members. Eric shares his work at Shields & Stripes, a nonprofit organization dedicated to helping those who suffer from occupational traumas. He discusses his journey since retiring from the military and how he has been working to impact society. Eric emphasizes why it is crucial to prioritize oneself and seek help when needed. He explains his four pillars of care: psychological counseling, occupational therapy, physical activity, nutrition, and spiritual connection. These pillars create an immersive environment that helps veterans heal from physical and emotional injuries sustained during service. Eric also highlights the importance of friends being available for each other in need. He suggests taking responsibility for one's actions while making a difference by being present and offering support.
 
[00:00 - 12:21] Making an Impact on Veterans and First Responders
·       Eric Ballester is introduced to the show.
·       Eric transitioned from the military two years ago to serve the veteran and first responder population suffering from occupational stresses.
·       He is a founder member of Shields and Stripes, a nonprofit that helps veterans, first responders, and other veterans.
 
[12:21 - 38:58] Helping Service Members Heal
·       People who have gone through a lot and feel like they can no longer stand life represent the opposite spectrum of what is usually focused on.
·       Data reflects the reality of the biggest reasons why people are struggling after leaving the military.
·       To help younger generational veterans with mental health disorders, we need to address the psychological issues that cause an identity crisis after being removed from service.
·       People need to prioritize their own care before caring for others.
·       Self-care is not selfish, and individuals deserve to prioritize themselves.
·       It is necessary to break the stigma around prioritizing self-care.
·       Building a community with shared experiences can be helpful for supporting each other.
 
[38:58 - 46:11] Seeking Help is Not Weak
·       Ashton shares the story of how he lost a friend and the process that he had to endure
·       People know when something is wrong with their friend, family member or partner, and sometimes they just need someone to ask how they are doing and if they want to talk about it.
·       Being present and genuinely available can help someone who is going through a tough time to feel more comfortable in sharing their feelings.
·       While you cannot change someone's decision, making yourself genuinely available and present might be the thing t