EP22: Unleashing the Fearless You

When it feels like fear has a vice grip on your fertility journey, the idea of being fearless as you live it, can seem like an impossible pipe dream. What if it’s not? Fearlessness is a key secret to success on this journey. Learn what it takes to unleash it in YOU.

Transcript:
Hey gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset, master, former prosecutor and recovering type a control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43 despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the. Odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell Yes.

For your fertility journey. It’s time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 22, unleashing Your Fearlessness. My darlings, I hope that you loved the past couple weeks is special, extra large additions. of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast. The case studies of Aisha and Jennifer were amazing, weren’t they?

I hope you are starting to see how incredibly powerful you can be on this journey when you take control of what you think and believe. Asha and Jennifer’s stories are proof that when you learn how to yank yourself out of circling the drain of pity partying and living by fear and negativity, you can literally change the trajectory of your fertility journey fast.

This week, I want to quickly build on that topic by helping you examine something very close to my heart, fearlessness. We are going to keep this lean and mean so you can start playing with this idea right away. Because the sooner you bring it to the surface, baby, the sooner you can start shaking things up in the best possible way on your journey.

Just like Aisha and Jennifer. Let’s start by defining what I mean when I say fearless, particularly in this context. For me, fearlessness is a process. It’s an evolution. It’s about having such a deep and abiding conviction And what you desire, that on the path to obtaining or achieving that goal or thing, when faced with circumstances that elicit a fear response, instead of curling up into a ball and waving a white flag, you say, fuck yeah, bring it.

I’m scared shitless, and I’m doing it anyway. Does fearlessness actually mean you never feel fear again? No. The only time you can be 100 percent certain that you will never feel fear again is if you have a lobotomy or die. And let’s be real, neither of those options are particularly awesome when you are on the path to your baby.

Which is why learning to use fear intelligently and make it work for you is a priceless skill on this journey. As you hear that, your saboteur might clap back and say, Well, that doesn’t make any sense, Roseanne. How can you be fearless and have fear? That’s dumb. Here’s how to talk back to that dream stealing fool.

Real life is about the shades of gray. Expecting everything to be black and white is emotionally immature perfectionism. What do we know about perfectionism? It will keep you stuck and reduce you to mediocrity as you sit on the sidelines watching other people who have the guts step in the ring. As I say that, just know that I have images of Russell Crowe from Gladiator and Gerard Butler from the 300 thundering through my mind.

But I digress. My darlings, fear is a part of life. It’s natural. At times, it can be exhilarating, it can be exciting, particularly when you learn how to use it to your advantage. Fear is an amazing teacher if you learn to use it wisely. In fact, being willing to be afraid can give you an unfair advantage o