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The Inner Confidence Podcast is a weekly podcast that brings you the most cutting edge dating and lifestyle advice for men. Topics include attraction, seduction, fitness, wealth hacking, and lifestyle design.

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The Inner Confidence Podcast is a weekly podcast that brings you the most cutting edge dating and lifestyle advice for men. Topics include attraction, seduction, fitness, wealth hacking, and lifestyle design.

    Bored with your partner? Discover if true joy lies in monogamy or beyond (Ep 267)

    Bored with your partner? Discover if true joy lies in monogamy or beyond (Ep 267)

    Links:

    Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠

    Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠

    Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠



    Intro:

    Today, we'll be diving deep into a topic that touches many relationships - dealing with boredom. We all know that relationships can lose their initial spark as the lustre of new love fades. But what lies beyond the excitement? Can we find a richer, more nuanced form of connection?

    In this episode about dealing with relationship boredom, we'll analyze the intricacies of long-term commitment and how the initial rush of passion can transform into a comforting sense of home and security.

    We'll hear from two of our clients as they navigate their own challenges, from anxiety over labeling a relationship to knowing when it's time to seek variety or move on to new horizons.

    And I'll share some of my personal journey from prioritizing sexual conquests to recognizing the value in deeper, more intellectual connections with partners.

    We'll also explore how societal norms and mental health intertwine with our concepts of monogamy and commitment.

    So, whether you find yourself pressured to define a relationship, wondering how to maintain attraction over time, or simply searching for ways to reinvigorate your partnership, this episode is tailored for you.



    Timestamps:


    00:00 Navigating casual dating, monogamy, and relationships with women.
    05:17 Unwilling to address uncertain relationship and feelings.
    07:35 "I doubt I'll care much about family."
    12:37 Struggle with boredom, prefer monogamy for happiness.
    15:16 Wealth loses appeal; pursue meaningful experiences instead.
    19:00 Mutual commitment essential; communication and understanding vital.
    21:50 Humans tend towards polygamy with periods of monogamy.
    23:39 Overcoming lust and desire leads to freedom.
    29:26 Struggle with intimacy, find balance in rejection.
    32:55 Seek power through emotions, not just accomplishments.
    34:05 Transition from business success to personal fulfillment.
    36:52 Honor intelligent part, accept lack of knowledge.



    Connect w/ Robbie: 

    Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠ 

    TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠ 

    YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠ 

    Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success! 

    Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    • 39 min
    Date Game Tactics: Navigating the Invite to Meet Her Friends on Date One or Two (Ep 266)

    Date Game Tactics: Navigating the Invite to Meet Her Friends on Date One or Two (Ep 266)

    Links:


    Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠
    Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠
    Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠

    Timestamps:


    00:00 She invited me, I made new friends.
    03:52 Reversing dating protocol leads to successful outcome.
    09:41 Puppy dog failure led to embarrassing outcome.
    10:52 Few slots open in exclusive men's community. Apply now.



    Connect w/ Robbie: 


    Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠ 
    TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠ 
    YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠ 
    Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success! 
    Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    • 11 min
    Ditching the Script: How Traditional Seduction Fails Men w/ Ryan Black (Ep 265)

    Ditching the Script: How Traditional Seduction Fails Men w/ Ryan Black (Ep 265)

    Links:


    Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠
    Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠
    Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠
    Guest Link: Ryan's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theryan.black/



    Throughout this episode, we'll highlight the transformational potential of social freedom exercises and mindset shifts that go beyond traditional pickup strategies. We’ll encourage you to find power in vulnerability and build a social circle that reflects your true values.

    Together, we examine the fascinating dynamics between high-status men, "bad boy" images, and the pursuit of authentic connections.

    So, whether you're well-versed in the dating scene or simply seeking to enhance your social prowess, this episode promises a wealth of wisdom to help you foster genuine connections and move towards a life of inner confidence.



    Timestamps:


    09:16 Differentiating between wants and needs, especially in dating.
    11:13 Traditional approach to social freedom and seduction.
    16:06 Dependence on others for self-worth is detrimental.
    21:11 Last minute parachute, thrilling but not transformative.
    28:59 Early negative experiences shaped my relationship views.
    36:44 Realization of copying others' experiences, social status.
    41:01 Signal fun, not seriousness, in dating life.
    43:08 Success in dating depends on personality type.
    49:37 Achieve success with $10K a month.
    54:41 Achieve high status, attract women, overcome fear.
    01:00:39 Life transformed through personal development program investment.
    01:07:25 Mystery method reinforces bad social conditioning.
    01:13:10 Be present, let subconscious guide interactions.
    01:15:11 Javier Bardem's character makes bold, clear advance.



    Connect w/ Robbie: 

    Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠ 

    TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠ 

    YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠ 

    Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success! 

    Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    • 1 hr 19 min
    Online Flirting Secrets To Get More Dates w/ Connell Barrett (Ep 264)

    Online Flirting Secrets To Get More Dates w/ Connell Barrett (Ep 264)

    Links:

    Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠

    Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠

    Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠

    Guest Link: Connell's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation/



    Today, we dove into the power of humor on first dates, the essential role of quality photos in online dating, and the subtle balance of sexuality and wit in crafting unforgettable profile prompts. We unpacked tips on personalizing that first message to stand out and the clever use of Instagram to connect and build a genuine social circle.



    Timestamps:


    00:00 Building social circle key to dating success.
    05:59 Debate over online dating scripts and effectiveness.
    09:34 Personalize messages for better online dating success.
    10:09 Personalized content can be simple yet effective.
    16:18 Rare to be overly gamey, avoid sex talk.
    18:29 Playful spirit animal question leads to intimacy.
    20:47 Advising clients on innocent, fun conversation topics.
    25:19 2024 focus: Social media growth, join Instagram.
    28:39 Ideal online dating photos: attractive portraits, candid lifestyle.
    29:46 Scientific approach to online dating profile photos.
    34:02 Unique photo on dating profile creates curiosity.
    39:07 It's okay to have polarizing marketing prompts.
    41:10 "Instagram key for dating, showcasing high value."
    42:47 Online dating tips for dating Gen Z.
    47:21 Showing off on Instagram is better than in-person.
    49:55 Online dating is not the best strategy.
    52:42 Take courageous romantic risks to find love.



    Connect w/ Robbie: 

    Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠ 

    TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠ 

    YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠

    • 54 min
    Lionell Coleman on the Real Cost of Modern Relationships (Ep 263)

    Lionell Coleman on the Real Cost of Modern Relationships (Ep 263)

    Links:

    Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠

    Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠

    Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠

    Guest Link: Lionell's Instagram - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/mr_coleman777/⁠ 



    Intro:

    In today's episode with Lionell Coleman, we unpacked the complexities of modern dating—embracing conflict, redefining partner expectations, and combating the entitlement culture. We recognized the toll of social media's unrealistic standards and explored the balance between emotional investment and personal growth. Lionell shared insightful personal stories, and we discussed the profound impact of maintaining a disciplined routine on overall success. Remember, true confidence comes from within, and it's about progress, not perfection.



    Timestamps:


    00:00 Build social circle, find wingman, meet women.
    05:13 Compliments on physique, doubts on achieving it.
    10:48 Enjoy your meal and drink, stay hydrated.
    18:48 Living within means in Kiev, saving money.
    23:43 Flight delayed, accused of leaving them stranded.
    30:37 Bringing diverse guests together for meaningful discussions.
    31:38 Show delves into dating skills, offers protocol.
    41:07 Adopting morning routine for motivation and fitness.
    44:23 Modern relationships are like contractual bliss.
    51:58 Studied male-female dynamics and attraction for 15 years.
    56:08 Partnerships struggle when not ready for commitment.
    58:02 Rare fortunate situation, conflicting lives and expectations.
    01:07:49 Using agencies for online dating is lucrative.
    01:10:42 Noticing infidelity among acquainted couples in public.
    01:17:04 Expecting royal treatment in the modern world.
    01:22:45 Great editor and consideration fix relationships; be considerate.
    01:27:53 Limited time for love, focus on son.
    01:31:32 Former party promoter reflects on changing priorities.
    01:37:43 Podcast topics, guests, compatibility, and motivational speaking.
    01:40:06 Betrayal and vulnerability can sever relationships.
    01:47:29 Team sports help with social skills development.



    Connect w/ Robbie: 

    Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠ 

    TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠ 

    YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠ 

    Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success! 

    Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    • 1 hr 51 min
    Avoid This Wealth Trap: Attract Genuine Love, Not Gold Diggers w/ St. Robert Daygame (Ep 262)

    Avoid This Wealth Trap: Attract Genuine Love, Not Gold Diggers w/ St. Robert Daygame (Ep 262)

    Links:

    Robbie's Texting Course: https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting

    Free Download of The Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter

    Apply For The IC Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community



    Guest Link:

    St. Robert's Blog: https://www.strobert.blog/



    Intro:

    We're joined by the stalwart sage of the street, St. Robert Daygame, to navigate the intricate world of dating and relationships, especially for the affluent man. Together, we'll dissect the perils of prevalent party circuits from Miami to Dubai — the lux realms where people indulge in lifestyle one-upmanship and transactional romances.

    We'll unwrap the nuances of deciding when, or even if, to spend money on women, and the pitfalls of flaunting wealth in the quest to attract a partner. Do all women in these glitzy settings merely chase status and money? We're scrutinizing the so-called "gold digger" dilemma and discussing why a man's deepest values and lifestyle choices might just be the magnet for a match that resonates beyond the superficial.

    From navigating sugar baby platforms to rethinking daygame strategies, we're diving deep into what it truly takes to connect with high-value women, especially when you're done siphoning through the facade of high net worth dating games.



    Timestamps:


    07:28 Superficial people seek spiritual experiences for validation.
    14:01 City neighborhoods reflect uniformity in people's lifestyle.
    17:08 Using status and wealth to attract women.
    23:33 Teaching men to navigate dating and relationships.
    28:31 Testing generosity and sincerity in relationships.
    33:47 Men prefer sugar baby setup for casual dating.
    43:38 Transition from night game to day game.
    44:42 Avoided day game due to social circle.
    53:46 Successful professionals seek meaningful, non-party relationships.
    58:58 General idea shared about an interesting story.
    01:04:35 Instagram and quiz link in description, learn approaches.
    01:06:11 Encourage regular listeners to leave a review.



    Connect w/ Robbie: 

    Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠ 

    TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠ 

    YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠ 

    Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success! 

    Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    • 1 hr 6 min

Customer Reviews

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54 Ratings

54 Ratings

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