Roadmap to Secure Love

Episode 35-Sexual Ethics: A Crucial Conversation Before Marriage

In this insightful episode of the Roadmap to Secure Love, Kimberly Castelo and Kyle Benson unpack the often-overlooked conversations couples need to have in order to build trust, safety, and lasting connection.

Many couples assume they are on the same page when it comes to sexual intimacy — but unspoken differences around sexual imagery, emotional affairs, social media boundaries, and private sharing can quietly erode trust. Without clear communication and intentional agreements, even small misunderstandings can turn into painful betrayals.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

  • Why open conversations about sexual intimacy are crucial for secure relationships
  • How unspoken assumptions lead to trust violations
  • The role of curiosity and vulnerability in navigating difficult topics
  • How to co-create boundaries that honor both partners
  • Practical tools to protect emotional and sexual connection

Whether you're dating, engaged, or married, these conversations are essential to creating a secure and deeply intimate relationship.

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Until next time, stay connected and love fully. ❤️

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