Episode 37-Rewriting the Family Script: How to Protect Your Partner Without Betraying Your Parents

What happens when the people who raised you become a source of tension in your marriage? In this heartfelt episode of Roadmap to Secure Love, certified emotionally focused therapists Kimberly Castelo and Kyle Benson explore the emotional complexity of in law conflict resolution.

Many couples silently struggle with guilt, frustration, or emotional regression when navigating relationships with parents and in-laws. You might feel caught between the loyalty you feel toward your family of origin and the love you’re building with your partner. If you've ever wondered, “Whose side am I supposed to be on?” — this episode is for you.

Inside this episode, you'll learn:

• Why emotional regression happens around our parents—and how to notice it
• What it means to shift your primary alliance from your family to your partner
• How oversharing with parents can unintentionally betray your spouse
• Why you should be the “face” of your marriage when setting family boundaries
• Ways to navigate loyalty, conflict, and connection with compassion and clarity

We believe love grows stronger when we face these challenges together—with empathy, intention, and courage.

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Until next time, stay connected and love fully. ❤️

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