Sharie and Clayton, Jess and Justin discuss how to communicate expectations with your spouse. It’s not wrong to have expectations. In fact, it’s foolish to pretend that you don’t have them. The Kings and the Brocks believe that unspoken expectations lead to premeditated resentment or disappointment... discuss how we can discuss expectations with one another in a healthy way. because unspoken expectations lead to premeditated resentments or disappointments.