35 min
Episode 69: Sustaining Unconditional Love in Physician Relationships w/Dr. Yara Demo Next Level Physicians: Thriving Outside the Box
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- Entrepreneurship
SHOW NOTES:
In this week’s podcast, we invited Dr. Yara Demo to a conversation about marriage and relationships. We talk about what makes relationships healthy and unhealthy, and how challenging romantic relationships can be for a physician.
-- Highlights from the conversation:
DR YARA DEMO
● Practicing Neurologist, Physician Life Coach, Mother and Wife.
● Burnout, living intentionally, relationships coach
● Thriving and empowered after burnout
MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIPS
● It’s very easy for us to take the people that are close to us, and our relationships, for granted. Friends, family, romantic relationships.
● For a couple, is necesssary that both try to see things from the other’s perspective. This is necessary to start building tolerance, consideration, and respect. Mutual respect is imperative.
● Watching out language is something we should work on. Not only verbally, but also physically. The unconscious mind can make us react on a way that we are not aware of, and still hurt our partner with words or gestures.
● It’s important to accept that we all have different ways of thinking and working towards mutual goals. Without recognizing this, we have the risk of thinking that the other person isn’t making enough of an effort. This also leads to taking misunderstandings or “signals” as evidence of what we think in a stubborn way.
● When both partners are physicians, it’s a bit more probable for them to mutually understand the time commitment, the struggle, and the stress involved in doing the job. Shared experiences allow couples to rely on each other after being on call for 24 hours or after losing a patient, because they both know how that feels. One down-side of a physician couple is that usually, it’s one of them who takes the lead role in the home administration and/or child care. This can be a lot for someone who has a busy schedule, and may cause some friction with the partner who isn’t participating as much. Balance is key.
● In a non-physician male and physician female household, there can be a reversal of the roles (the socially expected ones) that can create a lot of struggle However, this depends on the couple’s mindset.
● A couple is always in development. There are several phases to go through. And the more time passes, the more challenges will be phased. We should keep present that it’s ok to change, but also to be open to the other person changing. An open mind and comprehension can go a long way.
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Website Address
www.YaraDemoMD.com
Social Media
Facebook Page
https://www.facebook.com/Marriage-Coaching-for-Busy-Physicians-with-Yara-Demo-MD-103182645130733
Instagram Profile
https://www.instagram.com/yarademomd/
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See you on the next one!
Hosted by: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne
Ready for the next level in your life? Join the Movement! Become a part of the Mind ReMapping Nation, an exclusive community that empowers your growth & accountability. Go to www.MindReMappingNation.com
Interested to learn NLP, & Hypnosis? Find out more about our upcoming NLP/Hypnosis 4 in 1 Certification training. Visit www.remapmymind.com or reach out directly & schedule an interest call at www.remapmymind.today
SHOW NOTES:
In this week’s podcast, we invited Dr. Yara Demo to a conversation about marriage and relationships. We talk about what makes relationships healthy and unhealthy, and how challenging romantic relationships can be for a physician.
-- Highlights from the conversation:
DR YARA DEMO
● Practicing Neurologist, Physician Life Coach, Mother and Wife.
● Burnout, living intentionally, relationships coach
● Thriving and empowered after burnout
MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIPS
● It’s very easy for us to take the people that are close to us, and our relationships, for granted. Friends, family, romantic relationships.
● For a couple, is necesssary that both try to see things from the other’s perspective. This is necessary to start building tolerance, consideration, and respect. Mutual respect is imperative.
● Watching out language is something we should work on. Not only verbally, but also physically. The unconscious mind can make us react on a way that we are not aware of, and still hurt our partner with words or gestures.
● It’s important to accept that we all have different ways of thinking and working towards mutual goals. Without recognizing this, we have the risk of thinking that the other person isn’t making enough of an effort. This also leads to taking misunderstandings or “signals” as evidence of what we think in a stubborn way.
● When both partners are physicians, it’s a bit more probable for them to mutually understand the time commitment, the struggle, and the stress involved in doing the job. Shared experiences allow couples to rely on each other after being on call for 24 hours or after losing a patient, because they both know how that feels. One down-side of a physician couple is that usually, it’s one of them who takes the lead role in the home administration and/or child care. This can be a lot for someone who has a busy schedule, and may cause some friction with the partner who isn’t participating as much. Balance is key.
● In a non-physician male and physician female household, there can be a reversal of the roles (the socially expected ones) that can create a lot of struggle However, this depends on the couple’s mindset.
● A couple is always in development. There are several phases to go through. And the more time passes, the more challenges will be phased. We should keep present that it’s ok to change, but also to be open to the other person changing. An open mind and comprehension can go a long way.
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Website Address
www.YaraDemoMD.com
Social Media
Facebook Page
https://www.facebook.com/Marriage-Coaching-for-Busy-Physicians-with-Yara-Demo-MD-103182645130733
Instagram Profile
https://www.instagram.com/yarademomd/
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See you on the next one!
Hosted by: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne
Ready for the next level in your life? Join the Movement! Become a part of the Mind ReMapping Nation, an exclusive community that empowers your growth & accountability. Go to www.MindReMappingNation.com
Interested to learn NLP, & Hypnosis? Find out more about our upcoming NLP/Hypnosis 4 in 1 Certification training. Visit www.remapmymind.com or reach out directly & schedule an interest call at www.remapmymind.today
35 min