KinkQuest.org Ana and Soren Sterling

This week, we are launching a new project that is part of the KinkQuest community - Cooperative Foreplay, a new home for podcast episodes that are specifically focused on reviewing ero-games (adult video games) and playing them together! Don't miss it!

This is a long episode! We recorded all of our thoughts and stories from attending KinkFest in Portland, Oregon, so whether you are wondering what it's like to go to a Kink Convention or wondering whether KinkFest is like the events you have been to, the answers are all here! Don't miss it!

This week, we're talking about how we came to our complicated relationship status and how it fits into the community around us.

This week, we're talking about submission styles and the way that sometimes people with different ideas about what submission means can clash in the community.







We talk about:







• Finding the right words (or not!) to describe your dynamic







• Compliant submission and bratting and how they are similar and different







• The challenge of looking for connection in a space where talking about your dynamic feels out of place







• A Very D/s episode of Star Trek starring Famke Jansson







Don't miss it!

This week we are back after way too long away and catching anyone still listening up on where we have been and where we are going next!







We talk about:







• Planning play parties and building in-person community







• The need for 'middle space' in the kink community







• Our upcoming trip to Kinkfest







• Our fancy new spanking bench! (Check out Tom's shop at www.fetishfurniture.org)







It's really nice to be back to podcasting again!

This week, we're getting creative in the kitchen, making home-made whipped lube!















The recipe is still a work in progress, but here is what we are working with right now:







10 oz Shea Butter







10 oz Palm Oil







10 oz Coconut Oil







5 oz Olive Oil







5 oz Sweet Almond Oil







About 1 oz Aloe Vera







1 tsp Vitamin E







1 tsp Soy Lechitin







3 tbsp Apple Cider Vinegar







12 drops Neroli essential oil















And, of course, if you are not in the mood for kitchen shenanigans, and just want to short-cut straight to buying the best lube that money can buy, please head over to The Butters website! (We have no incentive to link here, other than that we love the product with all our kinky little hearts!)