Ex-Wives Undercover: Liars, Cheaters & Love Cons

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Ex-Wives Undercover: Liars, Cheaters & Love Cons

Ex-Wives Undercover is a powerful true crime podcast that exposes the hidden world of charming con artists, narcissists, and master manipulators—men who cheat, scam, and gaslight their way through relationships, leaving devastation behind. Told by the women who lived it, these are the real, raw stories of survival, sisterhood, and taking back power. This isn’t just about the con—it’s about the comeback. Listeners will gain insight into the red flags of emotional abuse, learn how to spot a scammer before it's too late and hear firsthand how women rebuilt their lives after betrayal. Whether you’ve been through it, know someone who has, or just love true crime with a deeper purpose—this podcast is your reminder that knowledge is power, and healing is possible.

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  1. Ghosted, Pt. 1 of 4

    EPISODE 1

    Ghosted, Pt. 1 of 4

    Join Amber and Athena as they dive into Lori’s gripping tale of love, loss, and deceit in the first episode of Ex-Wives Undercover Season 6. After losing her husband Paul, Lori thought she found solace in Richard, a charming paranormal investigator with a knack for ghost tours and love songs. But the red flags—hidden secrets, financial manipulation, and unraveling lies—paint a darker picture. In this episode, Lori recounts her journey from love bombing to uncovering Richard’s web of deceit, including his mysterious past, suspicious job losses, and shocking health issues. How does a whirlwind romance turn into a haunting revelation? Tune in for this compelling story of resilience, heartbreak, and lessons learned. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: How Lori met Richard and why his charm was initially irresistible. The eerie ghost tours and Richard’s claims as a paranormal expert. Love bombing, manipulation, and Lori’s growing suspicions. Shocking discoveries about Richard’s health, finances, and past relationships. Lori’s courageous steps to uncover the truth and warn others. Keywords: Love bombing Ghost tours Paranormal investigator Financial manipulation Toxic relationships Resilience Love gone wrong Red flags in relationships Ex-Wives Undercover Listener Notes: This episode includes sensitive topics like abuse and manipulation; discretion is advised. Join the conversation in our private Facebook group or follow us on TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube. Links: Website: Ex-Wives Undercover Social Media: TikTok | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook Don’t forget to leave us a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review and share this episode with friends who need to hear Lori’s story! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    48 min
  2. Ghosted, Pt. 2 of 4

    EPISODE 2

    Ghosted, Pt. 2 of 4

    [VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE] In this gripping episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, Amber and Athena dive into Lori's shocking story of deception, financial fraud, and emotional and physical abuse at the hands of her ex-husband, Richard. What started as a whirlwind romance quickly spiraled into a nightmare of manipulation and betrayal. From Richard’s dubious claims of being a former NYPD officer to his involvement in paranormal investigations, Lori soon uncovered lie after lie—culminating in a devastating financial and emotional toll. 💔 What You’ll Hear in This Episode: • How Lori fell for Richard’s charming facade and rushed into marriage. • Richard’s dubious past, including false claims of being a police officer and a ghost hunter. • Financial deceit, fraud, and Richard’s history of job losses. • The chilling moment Lori discovered he had a secret bank account and stole rent money. • How Richard’s lies extended into his business dealings, taking advantage of colleagues and friends. • The terrifying escalation of abuse, from emotional manipulation to physical violence. • Lori’s brave journey to escape and uncover the full extent of Richard’s lies. ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of financial abuse, emotional abuse, physical violence, and psychological manipulation. Listener discretion is advised. 👉 Stay tuned for next week’s explosive continuation of Lori’s story, where more dark secrets unravel, and Richard’s past finally catches up with him. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    47 min
  3. Ghosted, Pt. 3 of 4

    EPISODE 3

    Ghosted, Pt. 3 of 4

    [VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE] In this explosive episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, we dive into Lori’s harrowing journey of deception, manipulation, and ultimate resilience. When Lori’s partner, Richard Ruland, suddenly vanishes—leaving behind a financial and emotional mess—she uncovers a tangled web of lies that span multiple marriages, false identities, and a shocking history of deceit. 🎙️ What You’ll Hear in This Episode: The red flags Lori ignored before Richard disappeared. How he meticulously drained their shared finances before ghosting. A deep dive into Richard’s fraudulent claims of being a New York police officer. The shocking connection between Lori and Richard’s ex-wives—how they united to expose him. A hilarious yet brutal poetic takedown from one of his former spouses. 👀 More to Explore: The behind-the-scenes TikTok movement to warn others. How Richard’s ex-wives banded together to uncover his serial manipulation. What happens when a pathological liar gets backed into a corner? 🔎 Want More? 📲 Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and join our private true crime community on Facebook! 📺 Watch full episodes on YouTube. 🎧 Subscribe now and never miss an episode of Ex-Wives Undercover! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    48 min
  4. Ghosted, Pt. 4 of 4

    EPISODE 4

    Ghosted, Pt. 4 of 4

    [VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE] In this gripping episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, we dive into Lori’s shocking experience of being ghosted by her husband, Richard Ruland, who disappeared after draining their bank account and selling her belongings. Lori’s viral TikTok detailing her ordeal garnered 1.3 million views and caught the attention of the beloved influencer, Mama Tot (Ophelia Nichols), who offered her support. Join hosts Amber and Athena as they unpack Lori’s journey, from the moment she realized her husband had vanished to the community of strong women who rallied around her. We also hear about the web of deception spun by Richard Ruland, including multiple wives, fiancées, and girlfriends, and how Lori’s courage is helping other women escape similar situations. Key Moments in This Episode: 🔹 Lori’s viral TikTok that started it all 🔹 How Mama Tot and the TikTok community came to Lori’s aid 🔹 The unraveling of Richard Ruland’s past and the women he deceived 🔹 The emotional impact of narcissistic abuse and the journey to healing 🔹 Lori’s powerful advice on financial independence and self-love Special Guest: 🎙 Mama Tot (Ophelia Nichols) – The TikTok sensation shares her perspective on helping people through their darkest moments. Resources & Links: 👉 Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook 👉 Join our private Facebook group for more exclusive discussions 👉 Watch this episode on YouTube 👉 Support us on Patreon for bonus content Thank You for Listening! If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review and share it with someone who needs to hear it. #ExWivesUndercover #Podcast #TrueStories #SurvivorStories #Ghosted #NarcissisticAbuse #MamaTot #Healing #WomensEmpowerment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    57 min
  5. The Hidden Dangers of Dating as a Widow with Christine Baumgartner

    EPISODE 5

    The Hidden Dangers of Dating as a Widow with Christine Baumgartner

    [VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE] In this special bonus episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, Amber sits down with dating and relationship coach Christine Baumgartner to discuss the unique challenges widows face in the modern dating world. Christine, who has been both divorced and widowed, shares her personal journey, the lessons she learned, and expert advice on how to navigate dating safely and successfully after loss. From emotional vulnerability to financial scams, widows are often targeted by predators who exploit their grief and longing for companionship. Christine breaks down red flags to watch for, how to protect yourself online and why healing before jumping back into dating is crucial. 💡 Key Takeaways: ✅ Why widows are more vulnerable to dating scams ✅ The psychology behind love bombing and mirroring ✅ How to spot a scammer before they steal your heart (and wallet) ✅ The importance of healing and rediscovering yourself before dating ✅ Safe dating strategies for widows ready to find love again 🔥 Resources & Links: Connect with Christine Baumgartner: https://theperfectcatch.com/ Learn more about Ex-Wives Undercover: https://www.exwivesundercover.com/ Join our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/c/exwivesundercover 🎧 Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review, and follow us on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook and YouTube! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 7m
  6. From Green Flags to Red Flags

    EPISODE 6

    From Green Flags to Red Flags

    In today's podcast, you will meet a woman named Danielle who, in the beginning, saw only green flags regarding a handsome Italian professor named Luca, whom she began dating. Unfortunately, it wouldn't take too long before the green flags turned red. With Halloween around the corner and a couple of costumes picked out for the pair, Danielle would slowly unmask the many disguises her new beau was wearing. As the story unfolds, it reveals themes of deception, outrageous lies, scandal and the complexities of modern dating.  Danielle walks us through all the crazy, as she reveals the emotional rollercoaster of their relationship. From navigating his family issues to discovering his deceit through community support, Danielle's story highlights the importance of communication, self-empowerment, and recognizing red flags in relationships. This episode will remind you just how powerful community is, especially in uncovering truths and supporting one another in the dating world. Resources & Links: 👉 Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook 👉 Join our private Facebook group for more exclusive discussions 👉 Watch this episode on YouTube 👉 Support us on Patreon for bonus content Thank You for Listening! If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review and share it with someone who needs to hear it. #ExWivesUndercover #Podcast #TrueStories #SurvivorStories #DatingApps #Healing #WomenEmpowerment #Hinge #Newyork #Lovecon Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 5m
  7. Who's Johnny?

    EPISODE 7

    Who's Johnny?

    In this gripping episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, we sit down with Victoria, who shares her unbelievable experience of meeting Johnny—who later turned out to be Canada’s very own Tinder Swindler [Jon Mulder]. She opens up about how their relationship unfolded, the red flags she noticed (or missed), and the shocking revelation that exposed his true identity. This eye-opening conversation sheds light on online dating scams, emotional manipulation, and the importance of staying vigilant in the digital dating world. Key Takeaways: The tactics used by online scammers to gain trust and financial support. How Victoria uncovered Johnny’s deception. Essential tips to protect yourself from romance scams. Resources & Mentions: Report a Scam and Fraud Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Inc. Listen to the story on CTV Connect with Us: Follow Ex-Wives Undercover on Instagram, TikTok and Facebook Have a similar story? Share it with us at ExWivesUndercover@Gmail.com If you found this episode insightful, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with friends. Stay safe while swiping! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    39 min
  8. From Perfect Husband to Life in Prison

    EPISODE 8

    From Perfect Husband to Life in Prison

    In this deeply emotional episode, Sara opens up about her powerful journey through friendship, love, and the shattering truths that changed her life forever. What began as a fairytale romance quickly turned into a story of struggle as her husband descended into alcoholism, testing the strength of their marriage and her faith in love. Sara courageously shares the moment everything changed—a shocking revelation about her husband's abuse of a young girl, the painful investigation that followed, and the impact on her family. She walks us through her heartbreak, the trial, and the difficult path toward healing. 💡 Key Takeaways: Early red flags—like his drinking—were overshadowed by his intelligence and charm. Sara’s story highlights the emotional weight of uncovering abuse within a trusted relationship. She discusses the importance of standing up for victims, even when it means losing everything. Resources & Links: 👉 Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook 👉 Join our private Facebook group for more exclusive discussions 👉 Watch this episode on YouTube 👉 Support us on Patreon for bonus content Thank You for Listening! If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review and share it with someone who needs to hear it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 11m
  9. Holier Than Thou, Pt. 1 of 3

    EPISODE 9

    Holier Than Thou, Pt. 1 of 3

    In this heartfelt episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, Abby opens up about her whirlwind romance with Bobby—from their spontaneous elopement in Reno to the deeply personal challenges that unfolded behind closed doors. Abby’s story is more than just a love tale—it's a powerful exploration of womanhood, identity, and growth. Together, we unpack the often-silenced experiences of postpartum depression, mental health stigma in religious communities, and the slow, painful unraveling of manipulation and financial control in abusive dynamics. Abby’s journey reminds us of the strength it takes to reclaim our voices and the healing that comes from sharing our truth. 🎧 What You'll Hear in This Episode: The fast-paced romance that led to a spontaneous elopement How love bombing and religious expectations shaped Anna's early marriage The subtle beginnings of manipulation and financial control in abusive relationships Why leaving a toxic relationship is more complex than it seems 💡 Key Takeaways: Love can be intoxicating—but fast starts often come with red flags. Faith and tradition can influence personal decisions in ways that blur boundaries. Abuse often hides behind control, manipulation, and the pressure to maintain appearances. It’s okay to seek help—whether through therapy, medication, or trusted support systems. ✨ A Quote to Remember: "You can love someone and still lose yourself in the process—healing begins when you start choosing you." — Abby Resources & Links: 👉 Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook 👉 Join our private Facebook group for more exclusive discussions 👉 Watch this episode on YouTube 👉 Support us on Patreon for bonus content Thank You for Listening! If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review and share it with someone who needs to hear it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    57 min
  10. The A-Team Joins From Mrs. to Ms., Season Updates & More

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    The A-Team Joins From Mrs. to Ms., Season Updates & More

    Guess what? We had the amazing opportunity to be guests on the popular podcast From Mrs. to Ms.! 🎉 Since there won’t be a new episode of Ex-Wives Undercover this week, we’d love for you to check out our special guest appearance on From Mrs. to Ms. with Andrea. It was an absolute blast, and we know you’re going to love it! Tune in to Episode #82, show Andrea some love, and let us know what you think! 💕🎧 If you still want more Ex-Wives Undercover, Amber will be interviewed on Jake Deptula's new podcast, LoveLustFear, on Friday, March 14th. From Mrs. to Ms. Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube LoveLustFear Apple Podcasts Spotify We're still looking for more stories to share. If you're interested, please send us an email at ExWivesUndercover@Gmail.com www.ExWivesUndercover.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    4 min
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Ex-Wives Undercover is a powerful true crime podcast that exposes the hidden world of charming con artists, narcissists, and master manipulators—men who cheat, scam, and gaslight their way through relationships, leaving devastation behind. Told by the women who lived it, these are the real, raw stories of survival, sisterhood, and taking back power. This isn’t just about the con—it’s about the comeback. Listeners will gain insight into the red flags of emotional abuse, learn how to spot a scammer before it's too late and hear firsthand how women rebuilt their lives after betrayal. Whether you’ve been through it, know someone who has, or just love true crime with a deeper purpose—this podcast is your reminder that knowledge is power, and healing is possible.

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