Family Hustle Podcast Alec Borenstein and Amanda Abbou

Alec R. Borenstein is an Estate Planning Attorney at Pashman Stein Walder Hayden, where he advises business owners and individuals on trusts and estates, corporate and business law, and commercial real estate. He specializes in drafting wills and trusts, including revocable, grantor, and charitable trusts.
Alec also provides guidance on business and succession planning, such as operating and shareholder agreements and commercial leases. Above all, Alec's top priority is to assist his clients in planning for themselves, their families, and their businesses, securing their well-being regardless of life's challenges.
In this episode… The legal profession is known for its demanding work schedules, and lawyers often face the challenge of balancing their personal and professional lives. With long hours and high-pressure work environments, finding equilibrium can be a significant challenge.
Alec Borenstein believes that the key to balancing his work and personal life is the ability to compartmentalize. He tries to separate his work life from his personal life as much as possible and focuses on being present at the moment, whether he's with his family or at work.
In this episode of the Family Hustle Podcast, Alec Borenstein is interviewed by Chad Franzen of Rise25 about how he balances his work and family responsibilities as a lawyer. Alec shares his strategies for balancing his work and personal life, including compartmentalizing his emotions and setting boundaries to protect his time. He also discusses how he stays productive and manages his time effectively to achieve success in both his personal and professional lives.

Michael Wildes is the Managing Partner of Wildes & Weinberg, P.C., a firm specializing exclusively in the practice of US immigration and nationality law. Established in 1960 by his father, the firm covers all areas of US immigration law and has represented a distinguished domestic and international clientele, including former First Lady Melania Trump, renowned artists, and sports icons. Michael is also an adjunct professor at Benjamin N. Cardozo School of Law in New York, teaching business immigration law and a second externship course. As a former federal prosecutor and author of Safe Haven in America: Battles to Open the Golden Door, he has been actively engaged as a frequent commentator on network television and has testified on Capitol Hill. Additionally, Michael holds the position of Mayor in Englewood, New Jersey, where he resides.
In this episode… Are you juggling various roles in your life and wondering how to find balance? Have you ever considered how personal values and professional pursuits can intersect? The story of Michael Wildes, an accomplished immigration attorney, mayor, and dedicated family man, might just have the inspiration you need.
As the owner of a renowned law firm specializing in immigration law, Michael has become a leading voice. In addition to his legal pursuits, he serves his community as a Mayor, all while maintaining strong family values. His ability to merge these diverse areas of his life is intriguing and offers a rich insight into the complexities and rewards of a multifaceted career.
In this episode of the Family Hustle Podcast, Amanda Abbou and Alec Borenstein sit down with Michael Wildes to explore his life's journey. They delve into the balance of running an immigration law firm, leading as a mayor, and prioritizing family time. This conversation explores Michael’s unique approach to mentorship, his love for civic service, and his unswerving dedication to family life.

Fran Schwartz is the Founder and CEO of Integral Healthcare for Women, a consulting company providing services to clients in developing new or managing established midwifery programs and birth centers nationwide. With decades of executive management experience in ob-gyn, midwifery, and birth center providers, Fran brings unparalleled expertise to both start-up and established birth centers, covering development, operations, and revenue aspects.
Previously serving as the CEO and Executive Director of Brooklyn Birthing Center, the only accredited and licensed birthing center in metro New York, Fran has always been at the forefront of the birthing center movement. Since the pandemic outbreak, she has been instrumental in helping birth centers expand to meet increased capacity and even co-founded an extension site for the Brooklyn Birthing Center.
In this episode… Have you ever wondered how it's possible to balance being a caring mother and a thriving entrepreneur in a society that often separates personal and professional obligations? Meet Fran Schwartz, a trailblazing advocate for natural birth and a testament to the power of balance.
In the realm of maternity care, Fran is a force of nature. Her relentless advocacy for natural birth and unwavering dedication to improving maternity care have paved the way for the establishment of numerous birthing centers across the country. And as a mother, her life is filled with the delightful chaos of raising four children and managing her career — a balancing act that she's mastered with grace and resilience.
In this episode of the Family Hustle Podcast, Fran Schwartz joins hosts Alec Borenstein and Amanda Abbou to share her incredible journey. Fran discusses her transition from being a young lawyer to becoming a stalwart in the field of maternity care. She also sheds light on how she manages her family life and professional commitments. Tune in as Fran inspires us with her dedication, perseverance, and the boundless energy that fuels her mission to revolutionize maternity care.

Amanda Abbou is a Real Estate Agent at Signature Realty New Jersey. As the daughter of two New Jersey real estate attorneys, she was immersed in the industry from an early age, developing a strong foundation in real estate law before transitioning to the business side.
With over a decade of experience in the field, Amanda is a skilled negotiator with a keen eye for detail, and she fuels her success by committing to providing elite service to her clients.
As a mother of four boys, she has also mastered the art of patience and multitasking, making her an effective communicator and problem-solver.
In this episode… Achieving success in both parenting and business is not an easy feat. While being a successful entrepreneur requires a great deal of dedication and focus, parenting also demands time, energy, and attention. Striking a balance between the two can be a significant challenge, as both require considerable effort and commitment.
Amanda Abbou successfully balances her work and family responsibilities by managing her time effectively and involving her children in her work. Her strategy involves time blocking, adding tasks to her calendar, and teaching her kids about her business.
In this episode of the Family Hustle Podcast, Amanda Abbou is interviewed by Chad Franzen of Rise25 about how she balances her personal and professional life. Amanda shares her typical day, which includes homeschooling her children before starting work as a realtor. She also provides insights into managing time effectively, particularly for working parents. Whether you're a parent trying to juggle work and family or an entrepreneur looking for tips on time management and productivity, this episode is a must-listen!

Niraj Chhabra is the Managing Director of SideBar Advisors, a financial services firm that provides customized wealth management plans for attorneys. Before launching the firm in 2022, he was a Financial Advisor with Ameriprise Financial, concentrating on clients in the legal profession with a focus on family finances, tax and estate strategies, retirement, and financial planning for small businesses.
Niraj holds the Certified Financial Planner (CFP®) certification and is a member of the New Jersey Chapter of the Financial Planning Association. When he’s not helping lawyers navigate their unique tax challenges, Niraj enjoys international travel with his wife and son, running marathons, and catching up on books. 
In this episode… According to famous columnist Marilyn vos Savant, success is achieved by developing your strengths. How do you create a path and plan based on life’s resources to lead you from where you are to your desired destination? Following your passion with unwavering determination is key to achieving your dreams.
Financial planning expert Niraj Chhabra navigates his long and fruitful career with this mindset — from his long stint with Ameriprise Financial to setting up his wealth management firm. After discovering his strength in financial management, Niraj expanded by leveraging the money management and work ethics lessons learned early in life and career to reach his goals. Now he opens up on some of his greatest insights on creating a winning strategy for success and taking a bold leap toward career fulfillment.
In this episode of the Family Hustle Podcast, hosts Amanda Abbou and Alec Borenstein welcome Niraj Chhabra, the Managing Director of SideBar Advisors and financial planning expert for legal practitioners. Niraj delves into his fascinating journey of establishing a thriving firm and achieving work-life balance. He also reflects on the influence of his background and mentors on his professional journey, career lessons, and his goals for SideBar Advisors. 

Jill Spielberg is the Director and Partner-in-Charge of the Family and Matrimonial Law department at Abrams Fensterman, LLP, a full-service law firm providing quality counsel, innovative solutions, and personalized service to diverse clients. With a background of 13 years in the field, Jill specializes in high-net-worth matrimonial cases and high-conflict custody litigation. Before joining Abrams Fensterman, she served as a partner at a boutique family law firm in White Plains, where her exclusive focus was on divorces, pre and postnuptial agreements, child support, and custody cases.
Jill has been repeatedly recognized for her professional prowess, earning the Super Lawyer title in 2016 and being named among the top 10 Family Law Attorneys under 40 by the National Academy of Family Law Attorneys and the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys. She completed her Juris Doctor from Brooklyn Law School as a Carswell Scholar and is a member of the New York State Bar Association’s Family Law Section and the Westchester County Bar Association.
In this episode… How can we successfully navigate life's challenges and strive for success in a rapidly changing world? For Jill Spielberg, powerhouse trial attorney and resilient mother, it's about managing 'organized chaos,' balancing her professional and personal life, and finding silver linings in the darkest clouds. 
In the world of litigation, Jill is a force to be reckoned with, relentlessly advocating for her clients and reaching significant professional heights. But her life outside the courtroom is just as intriguing. As a single mother of two, Jill navigates the trials of parenthood while simultaneously shouldering the loss of her beloved husband. Her story is a testament to her strength, perseverance, and unwavering commitment to creating a supportive and loving environment for her family.
In this episode of the Family Hustle Podcast, hosts Alec Borenstein and Amanda Abbou sit down with Jill Spielberg as she candidly discusses her legal career, her philosophy of 'organized chaos,' and the coping mechanisms that helped her transform the adversities into victories. Jill discusses her daily routines and strategies for attaining a healthy work-life balance while sharing her aspirations and outlook for the future. Tune in to be inspired by Jill Spielberg's extraordinary journey.