344 episodes

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kimmy Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kimmy and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love Kimmy Seltzer

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.7 • 134 Ratings

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kimmy Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kimmy and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

    Overcoming Rejection and Unlocking Confidence: Where Are They Now with Scot

    Overcoming Rejection and Unlocking Confidence: Where Are They Now with Scot

    Tired of feeling like your social interactions are hitting a dead end? What if you could unlock the key to confidence starting with your style and body language? In Episode 343 of The Charisma Quotient, “Overcoming Rejection and Unlocking Confidence: Where Are They Now with Scot,” Kimmy catches up with former client, Scot, as they dive deep into the transformative power of self-confidence, personal growth, and the impact of clothing on confidence and performance. 
    Scot shares his personal journey, from struggling with social interactions to finding love and confidence after seeking help from Kimmy. They cover the importance of not personalizing rejections, recognizing self-worth, and the impact of gratitude and positivity on your mindset. You’ll hear about Scot's remarkable transformation and how his new outfits gave him the “costume confidence” to approach women and eventually find his long term girlfriend who he will be marrying soon!
    If you realize that you need to feel more confident with your clothes and body language to go out there and date, come to Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop, First Impression Makeover coming up soon.  Go to www.stophatingdating.com  to register as spots go fast. Start taking action in this area of your life and become the confident and stylish person you know you can be! 
     
    P.S.  If you want to take it one step further and learn this stuff LIVE in person, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com  
     
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
     

     

    • 29 min
    Spark Your Sexy: Ignite Your Love Life

    Spark Your Sexy: Ignite Your Love Life

    Are you feeling frumpy, low energy and unattractive?  Is that affecting your motivation to put yourself out there?  Get ready to ignite your inner fire and spark your sexy confidence. This episode is dedicated to the ladies out there!  In Episode 342 of The Charisma Quotient, “Spark Your Sexy: Ignite Your Love Life,” Kimmy shares powerful tools and success stories to help you embrace your best self and feel irresistible. Kimmy reveals her 5 “F” Tips to sexy confidence and how to reclaim your sparkle as a woman. She walks you through a self-assessment in the key areas of feeling attractive and provides actionable tips to boost confidence.  In this episode, Kimmy provides practical tools to help you assess and enhance your fashion sense, flirting skills, and feminine energy. From wardrobe audits to embracing spontaneity and vulnerability, she offers valuable advice for personal transformation and self-embodiment.  Kimmy invites listeners to her unique "spark your sexy retreat" and "First Impression Makeover" workshop, designed to help you feel confident and attractive in an experiential way.
    If you are feeling frumpy and not very confident when meeting new people, come to Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop First Impression Makeover coming up soon.  Go to www.stophatingdating.com  to register as spots go fast. Start taking action in this area of your life and become the confident and stylish person you know you can be! 
     
    P.S.  If you want to take it one step further and learn this stuff LIVE in person, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com  
     
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
    ************************************************⁣
    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 46 min
    Achieving Greatness in Love: Interview with Dr. Dravon James

    Achieving Greatness in Love: Interview with Dr. Dravon James

    Are you finding yourself making excuses or feeling powerful around your dating life?  The truth is you do have the power to create the love life you want but it’s often hard to see that.  In Episode 341 of The Charisma Quotient, “Achieving Greatness in Love: Interview with Dr. Dravon James,” Kimmy sits down with Dr. Dravon James, the founder of The Next Step Leadership Academy, a transformation specialist, best-selling author, radio host, and actress. 
    Dr. James and Kimmy get into how to use everything that shows up in your life, to finally achieve greatness, especially when it comes to dating and love! They talk about how to get specific about your goals, and how to cultivate habits in order to get there. You’ll pick up tips to increase self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and consistency in your wins.
    If you are fed up with the direction of your love life and want help achieving greatness in attracting the love you deserve, schedule a free private coaching call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    P.S.  If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com  
     
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
    ************************************************⁣
    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
    ************************************************⁣
    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
     
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
     
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
     
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
     
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
     
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 37 min
    Mindfulness And Dating: Interview with Bruce Langford

    Mindfulness And Dating: Interview with Bruce Langford

    Do you find yourself mindlessly scrolling through dating apps? Swiping right, swiping left, but getting nowhere? It’s time to dial in some mindfulness to your dating life and beyond.  Mindfulness means living the present moment and being more intentionally aware.  In Episode 340 of The Charisma Quotient, “Mindfulness And Dating: Interview with Bruce Langford,” Kimmy sits down with Bruce Langford, a mindfulness coach, speaker, podcaster, and best-selling co-author of Cracking the Success Code.
    Bruce shares his personal story of finding his voice, and how he became so passionate about helping people find theirs through mindfulness. Kimmy and Bruce get into some techniques including the C.A.L.M method to incorporate mindfulness in your dating life, to help you stay present, give yourself permission to embrace a different outcome, and ultimately find love. Bonus: Bruce shares how he found the love of his life using mindfulness! 
    If you have difficulties being present and anxiety is paralyzing you to the point of it affecting your dating life, schedule a free private coaching call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
    ************************************************⁣
    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
    ************************************************⁣
    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
     
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
     
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
     
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
     
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
     
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
     

    • 36 min
    Body Confidence and Self-Acceptance When Dating: Interview with Katie Bramlett

    Body Confidence and Self-Acceptance When Dating: Interview with Katie Bramlett

    Struggling with body image? Weight issues? How you feel about your body can impact every aspect of your life...especially dating. In Episode 339 of The Charisma Quotient, “Body Confidence and Self-Acceptance When Dating: Interview with Katie Bramlett,” Kimmy sits down with the insightful Katie Bramlette, CEO and co-founder of WeShape. 
    Katie offers valuable expertise in promoting self-love and emotional intelligence in the world of fitness, as well as insight into the toxic weight loss culture and its impact on mental well-being. Katie offers practical advice for redirecting energy towards self-acceptance and away from societal standards. Kimmy and Katie discuss the importance of community support, curating social media for positive body image reinforcement, and finding fulfillment in activities and friendships. Katie also shares her personal journey of breaking free from diet and exercise perfectionism, finding food freedom, and shifting her relationship with herself.
    Ready to shift YOUR focus and enhance your love life? Schedule a free coaching call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    P.S.  If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, check out Kimmy’s brand new workshop coming up on Mar 26 called Unleash Your Sexy Confidence:  The Art Of Attraction & Chemistry.  This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for sparking your sexy again. It's more than just about flirting – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and attract people with charm and charisma so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com  But hurry because seats are limited. And you’ll get to interact with Kimmy LIVE there!
     
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
    ************************************************⁣
    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
    ************************************************⁣
    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
     

     

    • 33 min
    Discovering Sexy Confidence: Where are They Now with Rachel

    Discovering Sexy Confidence: Where are They Now with Rachel

    Are you ready to be inspired? Ever think it’s too late to learn how to flirt and find the one?  Meet Rachel, an extraordinary woman who overcame immense dating struggles to find true love and happiness.  Episode 338 of The Charisma Quotient, “Discovering Sexy Confidence: Where Are They Now with Rachel” dives into her inspiring journey of self-discovery and the invaluable transformation she experienced after seeking help from Kimmy herself. 
    Rachel's dating journey was riddled with challenges - from attracting the wrong type of partners to battling shyness and anxiety.  She had a ton of confidence issues and found flirting and owning her beauty extremely hard.  But after a breakthrough call, personal coaching and attending a dating retreat with Kimmy, her life took a beautiful turn. Through Kimmy’s coaching, Rachel learned to stand up for herself, own her worth, and navigate dating with sexy confidence. And she learned to let go and flirt and have fun with confidence which made her more present.  She shifted her focus from fleeting chemistry and anxiety to meaningful connections, and the results were nothing short of miraculous as she ended up attracting a great man in her life. If you’ve been yearning for a love story that defies the odds, this episode is a must-listen for you!
    If you want help overcoming challenges of flirting and seeing your self-worth to attract a healthy relationship, hop on a free private coaching call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    P.S.  If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, check out Kimmy’s brand new workshop coming up on Mar 26 called Unleash Your Sexy Confidence.  This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for sparking your sexy again. It's more than just about flirting – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com  But hurry because seats are limited. And you’ll get to interact with Kimmy LIVE there!
     
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
    ************************************************⁣
    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
    ************************************************⁣
    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 33 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
134 Ratings

134 Ratings

HeatherWyattWellness ,

Fun & Real 🫶

I had a blast being a guest on The Charisma Quotient with Kimmy Seltzer! 🎙️ She made the experience fun and engaging. Amazing host, great vibes – tune in for some awesome conversations!

Steph Anne S ,

Inspirational!!!

I have been listening to Kimmie for a few
month. She is always giving relevant and thoughtful tips and tricks to better yourself, and your dating life.

dixieabby ,

Intentional dating

I’ve been listening for several years and have worked with Kimmy. I highly recommend her advice.

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