Better Divorce Podcast Paulette Rigo
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Welcome to The Better Divorce Podcast. Paulette Rigo here to guide you through the storm of divorce into calmer waters.
Whether you're contemplating divorce, in the thick of it or rebuilding post-divorce, we've got you covered. Each week, we tackle tough topics, share resilience stories, and offer practical advice to help you navigate with confidence.
Remember, you're not alone and a brighter future awaits. Ready to turn a tough time into a time of growth?
Then let's get started.
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Ep. 183 Bela Gandhi: Love is possible at ANY age!
Join Paulette and Bela for this conversation on The Secrets to Dating Successfully After Divorce. We can talk about:
Divorce statistics for 2nd/3rd marriages
How to create a dating plan
What you need to be successful in online dating
What a dating coach can do to help you
Red flags in dating!
About Bela:
Bela Gandhi of Smart Dating Academy, is a nationally acclaimed dating & relationship expert. SDA offers the best tips to start to date smarter to help you find real and lasting love. Bela is a sought out correspondent and works with all major networks including Steve Harvey, NBC, ABC, FOX, CNN, JET, Essence, Forbes, WGN, and more...
Takeaways:
Dating after divorce can be daunting and overwhelming, but it is possible to have a successful and fulfilling experience.
Learning from past mistakes and not repeating patterns is crucial in starting a new relationship.
Having a support system and seeking guidance from experts can help navigate the challenges of dating after divorce.
Identifying red flags in potential partners and setting boundaries is important for creating healthy and fulfilling relationships.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Fear of Dating After Divorce
06:22 The Importance of a Support System and Expert Guidance
13:04 Identifying Red Flags and Deal Breakers
24:20 Success Stories and the Importance of Investing in Yourself
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Ep. 182 Brenda Bridges: Remember The Three P's - Purpose, Process Professionals.
Join Paulette and Brenda for this conversation on Knowing the approach that best suits your situation and family will give you more control over your process, ensure you are more likely to put together the team you need and ultimately lead to a better outcome. Remember the three P's - purpose, process professionals.
About Brenda:
Brenda's journey is nothing short of inspirational. After making it through the harsh realities and emotional challenges of her divorce, she transformed her experience into a catalyst for change, dedicating her career to guiding others through their own challenges and taking a fresh look at how we go about divorce.
Bridging Divorce Solutions is Brenda's vision, a beacon for those facing the daunting world of divorce. Her approach balances the financial complexities that often accompany it and the emotions that influence money decisions. Brenda's expertise lies in demystifying the financial implications of divorce, ensuring that her clients are well-informed and empowered to make decisions that safeguard their future.
Brenda's approach is unique; she combines empathy with financial savvy, offering a lifeline to those feeling overwhelmed by the divorce process. Her personal experience fuels her passion, making her not just an advisor but a relatable ally.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Background
03:32 Brenda's Personal Experience and Career Transition
06:18 The Need for a Balanced Approach in Divorce
08:29 Brenda's Journey to Becoming a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst
12:50 Choosing a Career Path and Finding Fulfillment
16:24 The Importance of Working with Qualified Professionals
19:22 Understanding Options and Setting Goals in Divorce
22:12 Understanding the Rules and Requirements
23:11 Choosing the Right Mediator
24:23 Different Methods of Divorce
26:09 Considering Relationship Dynamics
27:06 Categorizing Elements of the Case
27:10 Matching the Process to the Situation
28:07 Financial Planning and Divorce Settlements
29:20 The Role of a CDFA
30:26 Financial Analysis and Future Forecasting
32:19 Avoiding Pitfalls and Mistakes
33:26 Understanding the Ramifications
34:21 Emotional Attachments to Assets
35:18 Ensuring Feasibility of Agreements
37:34 The Importance of Financial Education
38:08 The Benefits of Prenuptial Agreements
39:01 Revisiting Prenuptial Agreements
40:13 Planning for the Future
41:24 The Importance of Financial Awareness
42:30 Finding Support and Resources
43:28 The Book: Oh Shit, I'm Getting Divorced
44:23 Closing Remarks
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EP. 181 Evan Marc Katz: You don't have to change to find love. You have to change your choice in men
Join Paulette and Evan for this conversation on You don't have to change to find love. You have to change your choice in men.
About Evan:
Dating coach Evan Marc Katz is the author of 4 books and has been featured in hundreds of media outlets since 2003. His blog has over 35 million readers, his podcast has over 2.5 million downloads and 13,000 women have taken Love U, his video course that helps smart, successful women find love. Evan is happily married and lives in Los Angeles.
Takeaways:
Dating after divorce can be challenging, but it's important to approach it with confidence and a positive mindset.
Online dating platforms can be overwhelming, but success depends on how you use them and the effort you put in.
Many people carry limiting beliefs from past relationships, but it's important to recognize that there are healthy and functional relationships out there.
Love U is a platform that provides education and support for women navigating the dating world, helping them build confidence and make better dating and relationship choices. Take the leap and be open to dating after divorce
Feel and allow yourself to be vulnerable in order to find love
Make smart trade-offs and compromise on the right things in relationships
Don't compromise on important qualities like kindness and character
Seek resources and support to navigate the complexities of dating after divorce.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and the Topic of Dating After Divorce
03:07 The Challenges of Online Dating
06:10 Why Dating is More Complicated Now
12:58 Shifting Your Mindset After a Negative Experience
21:53 Taking the Leap: Dating After Divorce
23:09 The Importance of Vulnerability in Finding Love
24:06 Smart Trade-Offs and Compromises in Relationships
26:52 Don't Compromise on Kindness and Character
35:45 Navigating the Complexities of Dating After Divorce
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Ep. 180 Abbe Feder: Not to go through anything hard alone if you don't have to
Join Paulette and Abbe for this conversation on Not to go through anything hard alone if you don't have to
About Abbe:
Abbe Feder (FEED-er) founded InCircle Fertility after emerging on the other side of her all-consuming struggle with infertility and pregnancy loss. Combining professional expertise, industry know-how, and an abundance of empathy and compassion, InCircle Fertility provides coaching to individuals and couples all over the world and wherever they are on their path to parenthood.
Takeaways:
Infertility can have a significant impact on marriage, causing strain and communication challenges.
Statistics show that infertility affects a significant number of couples, highlighting the need for support and understanding.
Different perspectives on family and desires for children can create tension and conflict within a marriage.
The dilemma of frozen embryos raises legal and emotional considerations that couples must navigate.
Seeking support from experts can help couples navigate the challenges of infertility and make informed decisions.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Background
01:16 Abbe's Personal Journey
05:15 The Assumption of Easy Pregnancy
07:25 The Impact of Stress on Fertility
09:09 Supporting Clients in the Infertility Journey
12:33 Assessing Physical and Medical Factors
13:09 Balancing Physical, Financial, and Emotional Well-being
14:01 The Emotional and Physical Roller Coaster of Hormone Treatments
17:40 The Need for Control and Surrender in the Infertility Journey
18:46 Infertility and its Impact on Marriage
19:40 Statistics on Infertility
20:10 Communication Challenges
21:24 Different Perspectives on Family
22:25 The Impact on Marriage
23:49 Considering Different Paths
24:02 Options for Frozen Embryos
25:26 Strain on the Marriage
26:23 Seeking Support and Expert Help
27:09 Divorce and Frozen Embryos
29:40 Legal and Emotional Considerations
30:08 Litigation and Privacy Concerns
31:01 Conscious Choices in Marriage
32:27 The Brave New World of Technology
33:25 The Importance of Knowledge and Support
34:02 Contacting and Working with Abbe
34:27 Contacting and Working with Paulette
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Ep. 179 Bob Thompson: Using Persistent Progress & Self Checks Can Change Your World
Join Paulette and Bob for this conversation about Using Persistent Progress & Self Checks Can Change Your World.
About Bob:
Real Estate Agent And Motivational Speaker-WhatBobThinks.
Takeaways
Recognize the need for change in your career and personal life, and be willing to take risks to pursue your passions.
Overcome external pressure and imposter syndrome by focusing on your own goals and not seeking validation from others.
Practice persistent progress and self-check by setting small goals, celebrating victories, and continuously evaluating and improving yourself.
When going through divorce, make plans in the dark and seek support from online communities and professionals who can guide you through the process.
Chapters
00:00
Introduction and Welcome
01:26
Bob's Transformational Story
04:13
Recognizing the Need for Change
08:05
Overcoming External Pressure
12:34
Persistent Progress and Self-Check
23:13
Bob's Divorce Story and Takeaways
31:32
Making Plans in the Dark
34:13
How to Connect with Bob
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Ep. 178 Lesa Koski: 7 Dilemmas of Divorce
Join Paulette and Lesa for this conversation about 7 Dilemmas of Divorce.
About Lesa:
Lesa Koski is an Attorney turned Mediator.
Chapters
00:00
Introduction
01:23
The Seven Divorce Dilemmas
02:33
Dilemma 1: Finances
03:25
Dilemma 2: Co-Parenting and Children
04:32
Dilemma 3: Emotions
05:23
Dilemma 4: Judgment and Stigma
06:19
Dilemma 5: Legal Aspects of Divorce
07:47
Conclusion
36:27
The Benefits of Mediation and Divorce Coaching
37:23
Housing Dilemmas in Divorce
39:00
The Importance of Making Informed Decisions about Keeping or Selling the Family Home
40:50
Navigating Real Estate and Mortgage Considerations in Divorce
43:22
Addressing Loneliness and Emotional Challenges in Divorce
53:01
Finding Fulfillment and Purpose After Divorce
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Customer Reviews
Great resource!
The Better Divorce Podcast is an excellent resource for anyone going through a divorce. Paulette and her expert guests provide a wealth information and hope for those facing this major life change.