6 episodes

A millennial exits a long-term relationship before his thirtieth birthday and finds himself struggling to meet the girl of his dreams in an unwelcome landscape that has evolved to using dating apps, social media traps, and unwritten rules that everyone subscribes to but nobody explains.

Each episode in this serialized dating journey dissects what went down with each potential partner through screenshots, notes, and interviews with friends.

Through the modern day miracle of podcasting you can finally live vicariously through a repertoire of unhealthy relationships, complete with a soundtrack of lofi instrumentals from Kit Romas and plenty of laughs along the way.

DATER American Original LA

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 22 Ratings

A millennial exits a long-term relationship before his thirtieth birthday and finds himself struggling to meet the girl of his dreams in an unwelcome landscape that has evolved to using dating apps, social media traps, and unwritten rules that everyone subscribes to but nobody explains.

Each episode in this serialized dating journey dissects what went down with each potential partner through screenshots, notes, and interviews with friends.

Through the modern day miracle of podcasting you can finally live vicariously through a repertoire of unhealthy relationships, complete with a soundtrack of lofi instrumentals from Kit Romas and plenty of laughs along the way.

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    EP 1. After exiting a long-term relationship, a young man set his eyes on a female Kanye West fan and stumbles every step of the way. After getting some advice and support from his friends, he dreams up a way to potentially reverse history.

    visit www.americanoriginal.la
    Contributors' IG:
    @thenicktester

    @joeunfiltered

    @herberdotcom

    @cuporcone
    Soundtrack by Kit Romas 
https://soundcloud.com/kit-romas/
    Audio Mixing
 Justin Rucker

    Additional Graphic Design
 Erik Gallardo
    © 2019
     

    • 48 min
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    EP 2. Insecurities start creeping in, but after getting a pep talk — the dating commences. When he is confronted with a chance for romance, insecurities come into play from a totally different direction.
     
    visit www.americanoriginal.la
    Contributors' IG:
    @thenicktester

    @joeunfiltered

    @herberdotcom

    @cuporcone
    Soundtrack by Kit Romas 
https://soundcloud.com/kit-romas/
    Audio Mixing
 Justin Rucker

    Additional Graphic Design
 Erik Gallardo
    © 2019

    • 39 min
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    EP 3. After a misstep or two on Tinder — a missed connection becomes a rematch. When it is discovered that this particular Tinder match has a sketchy history with a friend, a conspiracy theory erupts.

    visit www.americanoriginal.la
    Contributors' IG:
    @thenicktester

    @joeunfiltered

    @herberdotcom

    @cuporcone
    Soundtrack by Kit Romas 
https://soundcloud.com/kit-romas/
    Audio Mixing
 Justin Rucker


    Additional Graphic Design
 Erik Gallardo

    © 2019

    • 51 min
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    EP 4. After things went sideways with Beer Emoji, a new candidate arrives with none of the baggage. With so much in common it has to work right? Don't bet on it.

    visit www.americanoriginal.la
    Contributors' IG:
    @thenicktester

    @joeunfiltered

    @herberdotcom

    @cuporcone
    Soundtrack by Kit Romas 
https://soundcloud.com/kit-romas/
    Audio Mixing
 Justin Rucker


    Additional Graphic Design
 Erik Gallardo

    © 2019

    • 52 min
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    EP 5. When all else fails come up with a revenge scheme. Yet even the best revenge schemes can become undone by a meme or an ex.

    visit www.americanoriginal.la
    Contributors' IG:
    @thenicktester

    @joeunfiltered

    @herberdotcom

    @cuporcone
    Soundtrack by Kit Romas 
https://soundcloud.com/kit-romas/
    Audio Mixing
 Justin Rucker


    Additional Graphic Design
 Erik Gallardo

    © 2019

    • 52 min
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    EP 6. A perfect storm brings together a missed Tinder connection in real life. Things work out better than imagined until the realities of life begin to do damage to a good thing. Deceit? Distance? Disrespect? Can love survive Triple Ds?
     
    visit www.americanoriginal.la
    Contributors' IG:
    @thenicktester

    @joeunfiltered

    @herberdotcom

    @cuporcone
    Soundtrack by Kit Romas 
https://soundcloud.com/kit-romas/
    Audio Mixing
 Justin Rucker

    Additional Graphic Design
 Erik Gallardo
    © 2019

    • 1 hr 20 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
22 Ratings

22 Ratings

Er217 ,

All you need is love

The indie movie vibe of Dater has moments of hilarity, despair, and everything in between as you follow @TheNickTester’s shaky ascent through the Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs.

When you’ve been in a relationship for as long as I have, it’s easy to take love for granted. Maslow’s hierarchy puts Love only after sustenance and safety - It comes even before esteem needs, cognitive needs, aesthetic needs, and finally, self actualization. Dater was a trip down memory lane, reminding just what lengths we’ll go when we’re deprived of one of our most basic human needs: Love.

rickniley ,

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Dater is a fascinating deep dive into the contemporary world of dating, filled to the brim with all the nuance, neuroticism, and nagging self-doubt that comes with being overexposed to information in the 21st century. Nick casts a hypnotic spell as he unspools each tale that makes you want to immediately queue up the next episode.

It's got a great structure (with a well timed plot development that I won't spoil) that reveals how Nick views the world, and, more interestingly, himself, peppered with insights from third party witnesses. It's in getting to hear these multiple viewpoints on individual incidents that the truth spills out and both sides of the dating equation are exposed.

If I had a complaint, it's that one of the most fascinating tangents (about a doubletake-inducing trip to an ice cream shop for an interview project) is casually mentioned without further explanation. Hopefully it's a tease for Nick's next project...

ThatBootsGuy ,

You won’t be disappointed!

This podcast is a real view into what the dating world is actually like - awkward, stressful, hopeful, and some funny moments along the way. @thenicktester and his friends bring you on an extremely entertaining journey into the world to Tinder and the realities people face while trying to find that special someone. This isn’t a story of sexual conquest - it’s a story of a regular guy looking for that Nick 10 to be happy with. Do yourself a favor and check it out!

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