The Love With Intelligence Podcast Lily Walford

Have you ever felt trapped in a cycle of relationships that leave you unfulfilled or drained? Today's enlightening discussion unveils the hidden impact of childhood experiences on our adult connections. Together, we'll explore the mysterious link between parents with low emotional intelligence and your own quest for love, navigating the complex waters of emotional validation, codependency, and the challenging task of breaking free from these cycles. By shining a light on these shadows, we'll equip you with the knowledge to forge paths toward healthier and more fulfilling partnerships.

Strap in for a heart-to-heart on the arduous path of healing from trauma and the grasp of narcissistic relationships. We share the poignant journey of a client battling abandonment issues and the paradox of prioritizing oneself in relationships that seem to punish self-care. We'll dissect the nuances of complex PTSD and how past pains can hijack your reactions to present-day triggers. This chapter is a beacon for those navigating the murky waters of the dating scene and a guide for those aiming to align their partner choices with their deepest values for lasting love and compatibility.

Closing the loop, we address the foundation of healthy relationships and the transformative journey of confronting and mending childhood wounds. In this honest conversation, I'll guide you through the signs of over-giving, the struggle with trust, and the tendency to be overly agreeable—which can inadvertently beckon manipulative partners. Discover how embracing vulnerability and asserting personal needs can open doors to emotional safety and genuine connections. 

Plus, we introduce Love IQ membership, providing tools and community support to encourage healthier relationship patterns and embolden you to step boldly into a future brimming with genuine connection and emotional security.

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Have you ever wondered why swiping right doesn't bring Mr. or Ms. Right into your life?

Our latest podcast episode peels back the layers of online dating and self-identity, guiding you towards a path of self-discovery and meaningful connections. Diving into the heart of what makes relationships tick, we unpack the significance of understanding yourself and your past traumas to navigate the digital love terrain with clarity and purpose. With insights from relationship experts and life coaches, this isn't just a talk about finding love; it's about reshaping your approach to foster genuine partnerships and steer clear from the clingy grip of codependency.

Let's talk about the four C's—no, not diamonds, but something just as valuable for your relationship: compatibility, consideration, communication, and collaboration. Our conversation explores the compatibility matrix, a tool that's about to become your best friend in the quest for love. It's not about the numbers game but finding someone who truly aligns with your values and dreams. We'll dissect the patterns that may have led you to play the hero in past relationships and how you can break free from these cycles. Listen in as we share strategies that can revolutionize your approach to dating, turning it from a maze of misconnections into a journey of joint discovery.

Wrap up your headphones, because we're bringing the finale to your relationship woes with a discussion on the most crucial part of any connection: communication. Learn how to lay the foundation of happiness within yourself before even stepping into the dating scene. We break down why the Love IQ assessment and an 11-part strategy are the roadmaps you need to navigate the complex world of modern dating with finesse. Plus, get the scoop on how to make conversations sizzle with authenticity and intention. By the end of this episode, you'll be ready to meet someone extraordinary and cultivate a love that's as rewarding as it is resilient.

As promised links below relating to this episode: 
Discover Your Love IQ Assessment: https://loveiq.scoreapp.com
Compatibility Matrix: https://www.lovewithintelligence.com/meet-the-one

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What if the key to navigating the complex world of dating and relationships lies in understanding our childhood experiences and attachment styles? Imagine being able to recognize the impact of your attachment style on your relationships, and reshape your approach to love based on this understanding. In this episode, we embark on a journey to explore the deep-seated influences of our early years on our adult relationships, focusing on the four main attachment styles - secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized.

Do you find yourself falling in love with potential instead of reality, often leading to a cycle of disappointment and heartbreak? In today's discussion, we expose the potential pitfalls of this approach and steer you towards a new perspective, emphasizing the significance of day-to-day happiness in relationships. We also explore how attachment styles can often be misused as an escape route to stay in unhealthy relationships, stressing the need for clear communication and understanding of your own needs to ward off feelings of insecurity and anxiety.

Our conversation doesn't end there. We delve deeper into the realms of empathy and compatibility, two crucial elements in fostering healthy relationships. Discover how empathy can help you better understand your partner's emotions and needs, and why compatibility plays a pivotal role in ensuring the longevity of a relationship. As we wrap up, we leave you with a powerful thought - using your emotions as a guide in seeking a fulfilling relationship. So, tune in and let's decode the intricate world of relationships together.

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As your guide through the labyrinth of narcissistic relationships, I am Lily Walford, an international relationship and dating coach. I’ve walked this path, from the murky depths of toxic relationships to the refreshing breath of authentic love, and my journey has equipped me with insights that I am eager to share with you. In this episode, we pull back the curtain on the intricate psychological mechanisms that narcissists employ, broadening our understanding of dangerous power dynamics that they use to entrap their victims. 

We delve into the unsettling world of narcissistic manipulation, unmasking the distressing reality of trauma bonds. By drawing from my comprehensive research and personal experiences, we dissect the striking contrasts and disturbing similarities between healthy and unhealthy relationships. You will grasp the toll that a toxic relationship can inflict on the nervous system, precipitating complex PTSD and emotional damage. However, we don't dwell on the gloom - this episode also shines a light on the path to healing and moving on post-narcissistic relationships.

Finally, we navigate the riveting landscape of love after narcissism. Together, we stress the significance of setting healthy boundaries and fostering a supportive social environment. We craft a tailored dating strategy focused on cultivating a lasting relationship. By probing your past relationships and childhood experiences, we aim to understand how they influence your choice of partners. As we wrap up, you will feel enlightened about narcissistic relationships and empowered to foster healthier, happier relationships.

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Are you ready to liberate yourself from the shackles of toxic relationships? In today's episode, we are taking a deep dive into healing, self-discovery, and transitioning to healthier relationships after surviving a toxic one. We'll journey through the complexities of trauma bonding, the impact of toxic relationships on our perception of reality, and the power of placing yourself as the priority. 

Often, we find ourselves stuck in a purgatory of dating, not quite understanding how to navigate through the murky waters of emotions and desires that are aftermaths of toxic relationships. By shedding light on this often-overlooked struggle, we aim to equip you with the tools to identify and break free from such chains. We will guide you on how to reclaim your autonomy, understand and manage your triggers, and redefine your desires, ultimately paving a path towards a healthier and happier you.

As we transition from discussing the trauma of toxic relationships to the peace of healthier ones, we'll explore how to recognize potential toxic partners and trust your intuition. We'll also delve into the transformative power of dating in healing and moving on from the shadows of your past. We believe everyone deserves to experience love and companionship without the strain of toxicity. Let's break away from past distortions and prioritize self-care together. Tune in and join us on this journey towards healing, self-discovery, and healthier relationships

Website: www.LoveWithIntelligence.com
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We all know that good communication is key to any healthy relationship but how can you use it to enhance and increase intimacy and connection on a daily basis with ease? In this episode we deep dive into how communication can enhance trust, create interdependence and also cultivate a powerful level of intimacy with ease. 
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Lily Walford - The Love and Intimacy Mentor
Supporting singles and couples to find and develop deeper levels of love and intimacy
Everyone deserves love but not everyone knows how to get it, so tune in if you are ready for undeniable love that lasts.

Website: www.LoveWithIntelligence.com
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Single? Download Our Meet The One Guide
Find Your Love IQ Here: Your Love IQ Assessment