Finding Free Podcast Amy & Craig Andrews

The way we think about Jesus impacts the way we talk about faith and how we treat those around us.  Who is Jesus to you?  Where did that frame of reference come from and has it ever changed?  
 
We don’t do a lot of sermon discussion focused podcasts on Finding Free Podcast but there was so much dialogue around Amy’s sermon at Cedarbridge on March 3rd that we wanted to dive a little deeper into this conversation.  
 
Our discussion is lively and in our typical style, we laugh a lot as we each discuss, ‘Who is Jesus to Us’!  We give each other a safe space to talk without the need for any one of us to be right or wrong, knowing we can always learn something from each other.  Even if you don’t partake in sermons regularly, we think you will find this conversation insightful and thought provoking.  You might find it helpful to listen to the sermon we reference before or after you listen to this podcast.  You can find her sermon at the link below.  Thanks for listening!
 
Link to Amy's March 3rd Sermon
https://www.cedarbridgechurch.com/media/4kss46m/march-3-2024-worship-gathering
 
Explicit Content: Language
Music by: Tucker Fry
Web Design & Graphics by: Shannon Cox
Produced & Edited by: Craig Andrews

Grab your comfiest blankets and a mug of something great and listen to some stories of holidays past.  Laugh as Craig talks about the time his grandpa accidentally got sloshed at a family gathering.  Giggle as Amy shares her most memorable Christmas present (double AA batteries required).  And Jeff has a family "oops" moment that will have you in stitches.  And much more! 
 
In this episode we share memorable holiday moments from our growing up years.  Some are "remember when" stories that have been talked about at family gatherings time and time again.  Others are more serious and somber, as we talk about loved ones who are with us no longer.  It’s funny, sentimental and also a reminder to slow down and let the light of love in where possible. 
 
Explicit Content: Language
Music by: Tucker Fry
Web Design & Graphics by: Shannon Cox
Produced & Edited by: Craig Andrews

When Craig and Amy started Finding Free Podcast in 2020, they thought a lot about the podcast name.  They settled on Finding Free Podcast because they wanted to focus on the freedom and liberation that can come from pushing yourself to break out of the metaphorical places where you feel stuck and bogged down.  This podcast was designed to give space to talk about hard topics with authenticity and vulnerability and for the Finding Free listening community to gain strength in hearing and sharing stories of growth.  
 
In this episode, Craig, Amy, and Jeff talk about the practices and activities that enable them each to live life from a space of generosity and freedom.  From looking at beautiful mountain views to time spent at the beach or doing creative things, they discuss several different ways they have found to feed their souls.  Whether through travel or nature, people or adventure, making time to do things that are life-giving and spirit-freeing is crucial to one’s personal physical, mental and spiritual health — and it’s often the first thing to go when life gets busy and overloaded.  When life gets busy and hectic, how do we give ourselves permission to breathe and how do we become grounded once again?
 
What are the activities, places, rituals, or people that help you remember who you are at your core?  When do you remember feeling most alive, unhindered and free?  We hope this episode will inspire you to reflect on what brings you joy and freedom and will encourage you to prioritize doing just that.
 
Explicit Content: Language
Music by: Tucker Fry
Web Design & Graphics by: Shannon Cox
Produced & Edited by: Craig Andrews

"The next hard road for the Church will be walking with and beside those that are deconstructing their faith, taking it apart either in small bits and pieces or altogether, putting it back together in part or sometimes not at all.  The question is, how will the Church show up for people in this space?" ~ Amy Andrews
The topic of faith deconstruction can be a hot button issue…but does it have to be?   As we grow in faith we often grapple with questions that are no longer satisfied with easy answers.  We need more.  Sometimes we begin the process of letting go of what no longer fits.  Like old clothes that just don’t wear well, sometimes we find out our old ideas don’t comfort us like our favorite sweatshirt, and we need something to change.  Sometimes just a few things need adjusting in the way we understand how God works in the world.  Sometimes it is much more comprehensive and involves taking apart every last bit of what we have held dear for so long and deciding what needs to stay and what needs to go.
In this episode, we discuss how lonely the deconstruction process can be, what it's like when spouses have different faith beliefs and how the church can respond.  This is an important conversation about holding space for “what is” for each us.  The process of asking questions and waiting for answers doesn’t have to provoke fear, though it often is riddled with anxiety and worry from those in the process themselves or those watching others walk that path.  How can the Church hold space, create stopping points of peace and allow room for the process of deconstruction?
Music by: Tucker Fry
Web Design & Graphics by: Shannon Cox
Produced & Edited by: Craig Andrews
 
References
https://cac.org/daily-meditations/how-did-jesus-approach-scripture-2023-02-09/
 

TW: purity culture, rape culture, sexual abuse
Explicit Content: Language, Sexual Content - masturbation, orgasm gap, general make-you-blush adult content.
In Part 2 we continue the conversation about purity culture and its impacts.  We talk more about how conversations about purity and sex can be done better, focusing on dialogue about consent, body autonomy and integrity rather than shame and silence.
If you grew up in an Evangelical church in the 1990’s, chances are you were exposed to the purity culture mindset. Though purity culture began with the intention of encouraging teens to postpone sexual encounters until marriage, the lasting effects have had significantly negative residual consequences. So what was purity culture exactly, what was its impact and where do we go from here?
We bring back our friend Jeff Bell to talk openly and honestly about our personal experiences with purity culture, sex and the church. We discuss everything from the orgasm gap to masturbation and how the lasting impacts of the purity culture mindset still impact many people today. It's time to hand purity culture, sexual shame, purity rings and lack of positive conversations around sex back to the church and simply say "We can do better!" This is a two part series that you don't want to miss!
Music by:  Tucker Fry
Web Design & Graphics by:  Shannon Cox
Produced & Edited by: Craig Andrews 
Articles/References/Books
https://www.christianity.com/wiki/christian-life/what-are-the-dangers-of-purity-culture.html
https://www.seaglassohio.com/purity-culture-recovery
The Great Sex Rescue, Sheila Gregoire
She Deserves Better, Sheila Gregoire, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach and Joanna Sawatsky
Come As You Are, Emily Nagoski
The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work, John Gottman of The Gottman Institute
Eight Dates, Conversations for a Lifetime of Love, Gottman
Shameless, Nadia Weber

TW: purity culture, rape culture, sexual abuse
Explicit Content: Language, Sexual Content - masturbation, orgasm gap, general make-you-blush adult content.
If you grew up in an Evangelical church in the 1990’s, chances are you were exposed to the purity culture mindset.  Though purity culture began with the intention of encouraging teens to postpone sexual encounters until marriage, the lasting effects have had significantly negative residual consequences.  So what was purity culture exactly, what was its impact and where do we go from here?  
We bring back our friend Jeff Bell to talk openly and honestly about our personal experiences with purity culture, sex and the church.  We discuss everything from the orgasm gap to masturbation and how the lasting impacts of the purity culture mindset still impact many people today.  It's time to hand purity culture, sexual shame, purity rings and lack of positive conversations around sex back to the church and simply say "We can do better!"  This is a two part series that you don't want to miss!

Music by: Tucker Fry
Web Design & Graphics by: Shannon Cox
Produced & Edited by: Craig Andrews
Articles/References/Books
https://www.christianity.com/wiki/christian-life/what-are-the-dangers-of-purity-culture.html
https://www.seaglassohio.com/purity-culture-recovery
The Great Sex Rescue, Sheila Gregoire
She Deserves Better, Sheila Gregoire, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach and Joanna Sawatsky
Come As You Are, Emily Nagoski
The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work, John Gottman of The Gottman Institute
Eight Dates, Conversations for a Lifetime of Love, Gottman
Shameless, Nadia Weber