The Well Centered Woman Podcast Tonika Maria

Listen in on this Livestream that I did last week as I unpack how unworthiness causes us to place ourselves in a dangerously vulnerable situation, one that causes us to seek from others what we REFUSE TO FIRST GIVE OURSELVES! If you are still seeking validation (from a man or anyone else) that you are lovable, worthy, and deserving you will always be forever proving and performing, struggling, and striving to be loved. It shows up in the over giving, overcommitting, overextending oursel...

I'm back! It's been a LOOOONG time and I'm excited to get back to my WCW family. Sooo let's dive into this Facebook and YouTube live where I am unpacking what happens when we repress, run from, resist and ride over the top of emotional pain. When that restless sad feeling comes don’t brush it off or go do something to occupy your mind...You are Worthy of Your Tears 🙏🏼❤️🙌🏼Pain is a teacher. It comes to pass and not to stay! If you are in some kind of emotional pain right now - great...

Have you ever been in a Microsoft Teams or Zoom meeting where everyone is overtalking and interrupting each other? How do you conduct yourself as a woman of faith when you are under pressure and there are too many cooks in the kitchen and the temptation is to go off on someone? How do we practically maintain poise under pressure? Listen in as I speak from recent personal experience on how to not let your emotions hijack your testimony and ability to think and problem solve in stressful ...

If you have just endured a major life season or completed major life milestones, please, please take your time, recalibrate, and reflect before you jump out to do something big, stressful and new to fill in the gap! A new baby, a new job, a new relationship, changing churches, moving, ending a relationship, last kid moving out and now living the empty nest life, loss of job, death in family…. All of these are very major life events. Sometimes in our emotional state, restlessness, ...

God is good! I’m getting better and better at exiting #StageLeft when I see the #RedFlags. As high achieving women of faith over 40, we don’t have time to stay in limbo land with man and neither do we settle or compromise our values and standards! Listen in as I discuss why at our age it is so CRITICAL to believe what we see at face value instead of waiting, praying and giving the “benefit of the doubt”…Books & digital courses for your personal development & emotional heal...

Pain is a teacher! It doesn’t come to stay. It is supposed to pass on through us. But when we get stuck in it, by running from, hiding, pushing it away, avoiding, medicating, we delay our destiny… In this episode, I unpack the last five subtle and sneaky ways that unprocessed pain, hurt, trauma, drama, and disappointments. We don’t realize this is happening until we look back and realize how far off course are. Don’t let it be you!Books & digital courses for your personal developmen...