36 episodes

Being a widow comes with a variety of unique challenges—including facing the dreaded personal finances. But maybe with the right tools and the right attitude, it doesn't have to be so bad. On He's Gone but the Money's Not, hear success stories of widows who have made it through the financial forest after losing their spouses. Learn how they cope with and address their personal finances after their world has turned upside down. Hosts Summer and Nicole bring these stories to light and will help you understand key financial topics that will put you on the road to financial success.

He's Gone But The Money's Not Nicole Roberts CFP® & Summer Parry

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    • 5.0 • 3 Ratings

Being a widow comes with a variety of unique challenges—including facing the dreaded personal finances. But maybe with the right tools and the right attitude, it doesn't have to be so bad. On He's Gone but the Money's Not, hear success stories of widows who have made it through the financial forest after losing their spouses. Learn how they cope with and address their personal finances after their world has turned upside down. Hosts Summer and Nicole bring these stories to light and will help you understand key financial topics that will put you on the road to financial success.

    Should You Invest In Real Estate? | Interview with Bob Aamodt, CFP®

    Should You Invest In Real Estate? | Interview with Bob Aamodt, CFP®

    Bob Aamodt, CFP® has been an advisor for over 25 years. He has been mentioned by several widows who have been interviewed on this podcast as their advisor. Bob shares his experience investing in real estate. We talk about the pros and cons of real estate investing. Spoiler, it may be more complex than you realize.

    If you would like to learn more about Rock House Financial and the services offered see our website https://rockhousefinancial.com/
    Information expressed does not take into account your specific situation or objectives, and is not intended as recommendations appropriate for any individual. Listeners are encouraged to seek advice from a qualified tax, legal, or investment adviser to determine whether any information presented may be suitable for their specific situation. 

    RH Advisors, LLC dba Rock House Financial is an SEC-registered investment adviser and the opinions expressed on this show do not reflect the opinions of Rock House Financial or any sponsors of the podcast. All statements and opinions expressed are based upon information considered reliable although it should not be relied upon as such. Any statements or opinions are subject to change without notice.

    Information presented is for educational purposes only and does not intend to make an offer or solicitation for the sale or purchase of any specific securities, investments, or investment strategies.  Investments involve risk and unless otherwise stated, are not guaranteed.  Past performance is not indicative of future performance.

    • 31 min
    Improved Finances after the Loss of a Spouse | An Interview with Julie

    Improved Finances after the Loss of a Spouse | An Interview with Julie

    Summary

    In this podcast episode, we explore Julie’s unique path as a widow. After her husband's unexpected passing from an aortic aneurysm, Julie's financial situation took an unexpected turn. Unlike many widows who face financial challenges, Julie's finances significantly improved following her husband's death.

    Throughout their 15-year marriage, Julie and her husband faced substantial financial setbacks due to his spending habits and addictions. They constantly struggled to stay afloat, resulting in the loss of their house, persistent debt, and an inability to save or invest for retirement. However, since becoming a widow, Julie has undergone a remarkable transformation.

    Julie has successfully rebuilt her credit, eliminated her debt, and achieved financial stability. She has been able to purchase a new house and car, save for retirement, and even expand her family by adopting a daughter and welcoming several grandchildren. Inspired by her own journey, Julie has connected with other widows and widowers, leading her to establish a charity called Ministering Angels. This organization aims to provide much-needed assistance to widows and widowers who find themselves in desperate need.
    Resources

    Visit Julie’s charity website: https://wwministeringangels.org/ 

    If you would like to learn more about Rock House Financial and the services offered see our website https://rockhousefinancial.com/
    Information expressed does not take into account your specific situation or objectives, and is not intended as recommendations appropriate for any individual. Listeners are encouraged to seek advice from a qualified tax, legal, or investment adviser to determine whether any information presented may be suitable for their specific situation. 

    RH Advisors, LLC dba Rock House Financial is an SEC registered investment adviser and the opinions expressed on this show do not reflect the opinions of Rock House Financial or any sponsors of the podcast. All statements and opinions expressed are based upon information considered reliable although it should not be relied upon as such. Any statements or opinions are subject to change without notice.

    Information presented is for educational purposes only and does not intend to make an offer or solicitation for the sale or purchase of any specific securities, investments, or investment strategies.  Investments involve risk and unless otherwise stated, are not guaranteed.  Past performance is not indicative of future performance.

    • 48 min
    Job Loss, Relocation, a Bad Economy and Loss | An Interview with Karen

    Job Loss, Relocation, a Bad Economy and Loss | An Interview with Karen

    Summary

    Karen faced significant hardships after the tragic motorcycle accident that took her husband's life. Suddenly finding herself as a single mother of six children, Karen had to navigate through various obstacles to ensure the well-being of her family.
     Having recently relocated from Michigan to Idaho, Karen and her husband were in the midst of selling their Michigan home and purchasing a new one in Idaho. However, her husband's untimely passing caused Karen to have to shoulder the responsibility of finding full-time employment while also finding a new place to live and struggling to sell their previous home in Michigan.  
    After being a stay-at-home mother for two decades, Karen recognized the need to enhance her skills and education to secure stable employment. She made the decision to go back to school and pursue further education in administrative assistance. Throughout the episode, Karen shares her experiences of juggling work and financial challenges while raising her children.
    Despite the rocky economy, Karen recounts the blessings and strategies that helped her stay financially afloat. She discusses the steps she took to maintain stability, including seeking professional help, getting financial assistance, and making wise financial decisions. Through her determination and resilience, Karen was able to achieve financial stability, retire, and feel secure about her future.
    Resources
    This testimonial was provided by a current client. The client was not compensated, nor are there material conflicts of interest that would affect the given statement.  The statement may not be representative of the experience of other current clients and does not provide a guarantee of future performance success or similar services. 
    If you would like to learn more about Rock House Financial and the services offered see our website https://rockhousefinancial.com/
    Information expressed does not take into account your specific situation or objectives, and is not intended as recommendations appropriate for any individual. Listeners are encouraged to seek advice from a qualified tax, legal, or investment adviser to determine whether any information presented may be suitable for their specific situation. 

    RH Advisors, LLC dba Rock House Financial is an SEC registered investment adviser and the opinions expressed on this show do not reflect the opinions of Rock House Financial or any sponsors of the podcast. All statements and opinions expressed are based upon information considered reliable although it should not be relied upon as such. Any statements or opinions are subject to change without notice.

    Information presented is for educational purposes only and does not intend to make an offer or solicitation for the sale or purchase of any specific securities, investments, or investment strategies.  Investments involve risk and unless otherwise stated, are not guaranteed.  Past performance is not indicative of future performance.

    • 45 min
    Finding Guidance After the Loss of a Spouse | An Interview with Chris Bentley

    Finding Guidance After the Loss of a Spouse | An Interview with Chris Bentley

    Summary

    In this podcast episode, we have the privilege of interviewing Chris Bentley, a financial advisor. Chris' journey began when he encountered a dear friend who had recently become widowed and realized the lack of resources available to support widows in similar situations. Rather than standing idly by, Chris decided to seize the opportunity to make a difference.

    In 2018, Chris founded Wings for Widows, a remarkable non-profit organization. Wings for Widows aims to provide invaluable coaching on financial and legal matters to both men and women who have lost their spouse. Despite not being widowed himself, Chris recognized the urgent need to offer guidance and support to those facing the challenges of widowhood.

    Through Wings for Widows, Chris has discovered that many widows lack the necessary resources and information to navigate their financial and legal decisions during such a devastating time. By offering coaching services, Chris and his team empower widows and widowers to avoid potentially devastating mistakes.

    Join us in this inspiring podcast episode as we delve into Chris Bentley's journey and learn more about the incredible work being done by Wings for Widows. Together, we can shed light on the critical need for support and provide hope to those who have experienced profound loss.

    Resources

    Visit Chris’ website: https://www.wingsforwidows.org/

    If you would like to learn more about Rock House Financial and the services offered see our website https://rockhousefinancial.com/
    Information expressed does not take into account your specific situation or objectives, and is not intended as recommendations appropriate for any individual. Listeners are encouraged to seek advice from a qualified tax, legal, or investment adviser to determine whether any information presented may be suitable for their specific situation. 

    RH Advisors, LLC dba Rock House Financial is an SEC registered investment adviser and the opinions expressed on this show do not reflect the opinions of Rock House Financial or any sponsors of the podcast. All statements and opinions expressed are based upon information considered reliable although it should not be relied upon as such. Any statements or opinions are subject to change without notice.

    Information presented is for educational purposes only and does not intend to make an offer or solicitation for the sale or purchase of any specific securities, investments, or investment strategies.  Investments involve risk and unless otherwise stated, are not guaranteed.  Past performance is not indicative of future performance.

    • 33 min
    Losing Your Stay At Home Spouse | Interview With Emily

    Losing Your Stay At Home Spouse | Interview With Emily

    Summary

    Just one month shy of their 20th wedding anniversary, Emily was widowed unexpectedly at the age of 37 due to Covid. Emily’s husband, Nathan, was the core of their family as the stay at home dad. They have 4 children who were ages 10 - 19 at the time. Emily shares how she left her corporate job and became self-employed founding Brave Widow and the membership community to help other young widows navigate grief, heal their heart, find hope, and dream again for their future. Not having debt gave her a lot of flexibility to pivot to a new career that fit her family. She shares other tips on changing her career and investing in real estate.

    Resources
    Emily references this book “The Grief Recovery Method Handbook” https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/books/grief-recovery-handbook-src

    Find Emily’s podcast and coaching program here: https://www.bravewidow.com/podcasts/brave-widow-show

    If you would like to learn more about Rock House Financial and the services offered see our website https://rockhousefinancial.com/
    Information expressed does not take into account your specific situation or objectives, and is not intended as recommendations appropriate for any individual. Listeners are encouraged to seek advice from a qualified tax, legal, or investment adviser to determine whether any information presented may be suitable for their specific situation. 

    RH Advisors, LLC dba Rock House Financial is an SEC registered investment adviser and the opinions expressed on this show do not reflect the opinions of Rock House Financial or any sponsors of the podcast. All statements and opinions expressed are based upon information considered reliable although it should not be relied upon as such. Any statements or opinions are subject to change without notice.

    Information presented is for educational purposes only and does not intend to make an offer or solicitation for the sale or purchase of any specific securities, investments, or investment strategies.  Investments involve risk and unless otherwise stated, are not guaranteed.  Past performance is not indicative of future performance.

    • 50 min
    Should a Widow Pay Off Her House?

    Should a Widow Pay Off Her House?

    When you get a big windfall like life insurance, should you use it to pay off your house? Or if you have extra monthly income should it go to paying off your house or saving? This depends on many different factors. It can be different for each individual. Consider your priorities and situation, seek help from a professional, and don’t feel rushed to make a decision.

    If you would like to learn more about Rock House Financial and the services offered see our website https://rockhousefinancial.com/
    Information expressed does not take into account your specific situation or objectives, and is not intended as recommendations appropriate for any individual. Listeners are encouraged to seek advice from a qualified tax, legal, or investment adviser to determine whether any information presented may be suitable for their specific situation. 

    RH Advisors, LLC dba Rock House Financial is an SEC registered investment adviser and the opinions expressed on this show do not reflect the opinions of Rock House Financial or any sponsors of the podcast. All statements and opinions expressed are based upon information considered reliable although it should not be relied upon as such. Any statements or opinions are subject to change without notice.

    Information presented is for educational purposes only and does not intend to make an offer or solicitation for the sale or purchase of any specific securities, investments, or investment strategies.  Investments involve risk and unless otherwise stated, are not guaranteed.  Past performance is not indicative of future performance.

    • 14 min

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Relevant for EVERYONE!

I’m a married woman with 3 children in my late 30s, and I appreciate this podcast SO much. This is a wonderful podcast for men and women, and is especially helpful to those who still have their spouse with them. It gives me a lot of insight into how to prepare financially for any situation that might come up. I highly recommend this relevant podcast to EVERYONE, no matter your age or gender.

NateP3 ,

I Did Not Realize the Financial Mess I Could Leave My Wife

As a male listener I have never heard these types of conversations to the depth that I heard on this podcast. I think we all know young and elderly widows its actually pretty common. They seem to always “figure it out”. I have started thinking about what my wife would do if I disappeared and the reality is I want her focus to be with my kids not on paying the bills. I have found some simple daily action steps from this podcast to start making that process less complicated if it were to happen.

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