166 episodes

A podcast for women shattered by infidelity who want to untangle from the pain and come back to life stronger than they were before.

I know. I’ve been there too and I can show you how to flourish!

Go to www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and download your free ”Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide” today!

FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal Lora Cheadle

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 37 Ratings

A podcast for women shattered by infidelity who want to untangle from the pain and come back to life stronger than they were before.

I know. I’ve been there too and I can show you how to flourish!

Go to www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and download your free ”Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide” today!

    How to Rebuild Trust After an Affair – With Yourself, Your Partner, & Life

    How to Rebuild Trust After an Affair – With Yourself, Your Partner, & Life

    What does it take to trust again after an affair? It begins with a radical understanding of the multitude of ways that you were betrayed. Contrary to what you might think, an act of infidelity is more than a single betrayal. It involves a breach of emotional, spiritual, financial, marital, and sexual trust. Even more, it violates the trust you have in the way the world is supposed to work, what it means to be married, and what you thought your life was supposed to be like. Of course it’s difficult to trust again after infidelity! But it’s not impossible. Let this show be the first step in understanding the complex nature of trust, untangling the many ways that you were betrayed, and reconnecting to yourself so you can finally get unstuck and start healing.

    Top Take-a-ways:

    The importance of defining and untangling the many ways that you had your trust violated.
    The difference between losing trust in a person, an idea, a script that you have in your head about the way things are supposed to be, and trust in yourself.
    Why rebuilding trust in yourself always comes first, and how to begin trusting your intuition and having your own back once again.
    Why it takes at least two years to rebuild trust after an affair.
    The eight-step process for rebuilding trust with your partner (and why facing difficulty and going through more difficult times is necessary to fully restore trust.)

    Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!

    Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!

    Spring Sale! One-on-one affair recovery coaching for women who have been cheated on by their intimate partner who are committed to:

    Overcoming the devastation, pain, and obsessive thoughts and reclaiming peace,
    Rebuilding trust in themselves, their intuition, and the world,
    Making sense of their story regardless of their partner’s participation,
    Reconciling the life they have now with the life they thought they’d have,
    Moving on with confidence and clarity – whether they are working things out with their partner or moving on alone, and
    Bringing themselves back to life again, stronger and happier than before!

    Only $333 per month for one 90-minute session per month, a monthly, 30-minute self-hypnosis to use between sessions, weekly prep work to augment your healing, and real-time Voxer support. Lora@loracheadle for more information or to apply.

    Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!

    • 57 min
    Toxic Masculinity – What it’s Really About (A Channelled Perspective)

    Toxic Masculinity – What it’s Really About (A Channelled Perspective)

    Buckle up for a unique perspective on the phenomenon of toxic masculinity! Unlike Lora’s regular shows, this episode features a live Q&A session where Lora channels her guides, “The Librarians,” to answer questions around toxic masculinity, the role of religion on the planet, and how we can best manage and protect our integrity and energy when confronted with toxicity.

    As with any live, channeled show, answers tend to be revealed in “spiral form,” meaning that the several peripheral answers are addressed first, before honing-in to the final, zinger of an answer. Be prepared to have your mind blown, your perspective shifted, and your heart opened.

    Top Take-a-ways:

    What we perceive as “toxic masculinity” is being brought onto the planet by “warrior souls” committed to pushing humanity towards spiritual growth and understanding.
    A new paradigm for the idea of “being triggered,” why it’s not a trigger, but an “infection” of a preexisting wound, and how it’s our own responsibility to heal that infection.
    Exploring both the positive and negative aspects of religion and how to make sure we stay in its light and away from its shadow of guilt, shame, and transferred control.
    The divine soul-work of transmuting and processing your own pain, and why things like charity and helping out can disconnect people from their divinity and create toxicity instead.

    Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!

    Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!

    Spring Sale! One-on-one affair recovery coaching for women who have been cheated on by their intimate partner who are committed to:

    Overcoming the devastation, pain, and obsessive thoughts and reclaiming peace,
    Rebuilding trust in themselves, their intuition, and the world,
    Making sense of their story regardless of their partner’s participation,
    Reconciling the life they have now with the life they thought they’d have,
    Moving on with confidence and clarity – whether they are working things out with their partner or moving on alone, and
    Bringing themselves back to life again, stronger and happier than before!

    Only $333 per month for one 90-minute session per month, a monthly, 30-minute self-hypnosis to use between sessions, weekly prep work to augment your healing, and real-time Voxer support. Lora@loracheadle for more information or to apply.

    Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!

    • 54 min
    How Cheaters Justify Cheating – The Psychology of Betrayal

    How Cheaters Justify Cheating – The Psychology of Betrayal

    One of the most confusing aspects of being cheated on is how your cheating partner can claim that they didn’t think about you, your kids, home, family, friends, community, or employment – especially if they cheated with someone at work, before they cheated or even while they were cheating.

    While on the surface it defies belief that someone could intentionally take all the steps and actions necessary to have an affair (or affairs) and claim that they never thought it would hurt you, this show explains why it makes sense, and how it is possible for your partner to never think that their cheating would hurt you.

    Top Take-a-ways:

    How and why it’s possible that your spouse did not think of you or the consequences of cheating while he was cheating.
    Compartmentalization and how a normal defense mechanism that enables us to function in everyday life helps cheaters maintain a double life.
    The difference between the male brain and the female brain and how men are not wired to see connections between different areas of their lives.
    Masculinization, culture, and how we inadvertently train men to disconnect from their emotions.

    Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile!

                         Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!

    Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!

    Untangle yourself from the past, release judgment, and uncover the power, beauty, and joy that’s been inside you all along. All with a wink and a smile!

    Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!

    • 46 min
    The Top Three Ways to “Get Over” an Affair and Start Living, Loving, and Enjoying Life Again – Solo Show

    The Top Three Ways to “Get Over” an Affair and Start Living, Loving, and Enjoying Life Again – Solo Show

    “I wish I could just get over it” and “I want it all to go away!” are two of the most common refrains of the betrayed partner. Even though infidelity leaves you devastated, racked with obsessive thoughts, and wondering if you will ever feel “normal” or happy again, the truth is, you can get over your partner’s affair. Learning to love yourself and to enjoy life again takes time, but like any wound, this pain will heal too.

    Top Take-a-ways:

    Why realizing that some things you will never get over is the beginning of healing.
    Defining what the “Getting Over It” means to you now, and in the future.
    Differentiating between the things you can control, and the things that you cannot.
    Spring Sale!!!! One-on-one affair recovery coaching for women who have been cheated on by their intimate partner who are committed to:

    Overcoming the devastation, pain, and obsessive thoughts and reclaiming peace,
    Rebuilding trust in themselves, their intuition, and the world,

    Making sense of their story regardless of their partner’s participation,

    Reconciling the life they have now with the life they thought they’d have,
    Moving on with confidence and clarity – whether they are working things out with their partner or moving on alone, and
    Bringing themselves back to life again, stronger and happier than before!

    Only $333 per month for one 90-minute session per month, a monthly, 30-minute self-hypnosis to use between sessions, weekly prep work to augment your healing, and real-time Voxer support. https://loracheadle.com/affair-recovery-for-women-with-lora-cheadle/ for more information or to apply.

    Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!

    Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!

    Go to www.NakedSelfWorth.com and download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide and learn what you can do to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your sexy, and begin re-choreographing your life today!

    Join Lora’s Betrayed to Brilliant  – Flourish After Betrayal Facebook group, for support, inspiration, and a community of others who have been where you’re at, right now.

    Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!

    • 56 min
    It Started With a Betrayal – Jesus, Judas & What Betrayal Means for You

    It Started With a Betrayal – Jesus, Judas & What Betrayal Means for You

    While it may feel like you are the only one who has experienced the heartbreak and pain of betrayal, you are not alone. In fact, the basis of the entire Christian religion is founded on the resurrection…which was preceded by the crucifixion…which was preceded by – you guessed it – a betrayal.

    Top Take-a-ways:

    Why betrayal is the beginning of the story and is always the catalyst for something more and something better, not the end.
    How the phrase “What Would Jesus Do” might impact your post-betrayal decisions.
    The story of the Easter Egg, and what cracking and breaking open means for your own rebirth.
    Discover a simple but profound exercise that will get you unstuck, appreciating yourself, and clear on the kind of future and relationships that you wish to create.

    Coaching Assignment: List 20 things that you like about yourself. Don’t judge or second guess, they can be anything no matter how big or small! Next, make a list of 20 things you desire in a relationship. Get specific and don’t be afraid to claim exactly what you want. Take some time to combine these two lists to create an affirmation, using the following statement:

    I desire, want, and deserve ___(something from your relationship list)___ because I like and value __(something from the list of things you like about yourself)______.

    For example;


    I desire, want, and deserve a relationship with mutual respect because I like and value the way I always try to listen to and understand others.

    Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile!

     

                         Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!

    Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!

    Untangle yourself from the past, release judgment, and uncover the power, beauty, and joy that’s been inside you all along. All with a wink and a smile!

    Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!

    • 56 min
    Healthy Hormones Despite Infidelity or Feeling Betrayed by your Changing Body – With Dr. Deb Matthew

    Healthy Hormones Despite Infidelity or Feeling Betrayed by your Changing Body – With Dr. Deb Matthew

    Hormones are chemical messengers that control the way you feel, react, and relate. Hormones are what make you who you are on the inside. So, when something stressful or traumatic happens, and your hormones go out of whack, you’re not going to feel like you normally do! Whether it’s menopause, the stress of infidelity, or you suddenly feel betrayed by your own body because you no longer recognize the woman staring back at you in the mirror, this show will help. Learn to get your hormones under control so you can get back to being you and feel better fast!

    Top Take-a-ways:

    Why it’s not the amount of stress that matters, it’s how you let that stress impact you that matters, and how to increase your tolerance to stress and your resilience in life.
    How, even though it’s so common to be exhausted in the morning – and reach for coffee, crash in the afternoon – and reach for carbs, and then get a second wind right before bed – and reach for a glass of wine. it’s not a normal way to live.
    Learn all about the cortisol – the master hormone – and it’s impact on the immune system, blood sugar levels, weight gain, and all other hormones.
    Discover the essential balance of estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone and what signs and symptoms to look for to determine if your hormones might be out of balance, and most importantly, what to do to correct this imbalance.

     

    Dr. Deb Matthew MD, The Happy Hormones Doctor, is a best-selling author, international speaker, educator, wife and mom of four boys. After suffering for years with fatigue and irritability, her quest to restore her personal health led her to change everything about her practice of medicine. She has been featured on national podcasts, radio, and broadcast shows, including NBC, ABC, CBS, and FOX.

    As a Functional Medicine Practitioner, she helps clients finds the root cause of their hormone imbalances. Download your free book This is NOT Normal at www.ItsYourHormones.com and learn more about her practice at www.signaturewellness.org. 

    Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!

    Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile!

    Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!

    • 55 min

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