Pursue your God-given desire for a Christ-centered marriage.
Lily Mtongwiza walks with you during your season of singleness to help you renew your mind so that you can date deliberately and court with confidence.
Lily offers single women a balanced approach to modern dating with Christ-centered principles.
The Forever Love podcast is where you can tune in and get advice on your love life (or lack thereof) that honors your relationship with God.
Choosing Marriage And Trusting Christ Within
There comes a time in every woman’s life where she finally believes wholeheartedly that she is going to be a wife.
Sometimes it happens on her way up down the aisle.
But usually, it happens somewhere between heartbreak and daydream.
For me, it happened while I was still very young and naive. I just knew that I was meant to be married. That the best version of myself happened to include being a wife and mother.
But that awareness was often also driven by fear.
Because I also thought that being a wife and mother was somehow better than being me here and now. That it was better than being single.
As a result, I had a tendency to rush. I threw myself into relationships and went on crazy wild searches for my better half.
You must be wondering, how did I make that transition from desperate searching to a solid Christ-centered relationship?
Well my friend, it all started when I learned how to listen to and trust Christ within, instead of all the voices on the outside.
It all boils down to this…
My mom, friends, mentors, and pastors all love me deeply and want the very best for me. There are books and sermons, Youtube videos, and courses that will teach you how to prepare for marriage.
But at the end of the day, there is Christ on the inside who is willing and able to direct your steps.
In today’s episode, we’re going to talk about how to stop listening to the world and start listening to Christ within.
Money, Marriage And Ministry. Serving From A Place of Abundance.
What’s your favorite excuse?
For me, it’s that I don’t have enough.
I hate to admit this, but I wake up in the morning, and the first thing I think is, “I didn’t get enough sleep last night.”
Then it’s “there’s not enough coffee or milk for breakfast.”
So now I’m not going to have enough energy to do all my work.
And I don’t have enough time to go get more.
And even if I did have the time, I don’t have enough money right now.
And that’s why I need to get busy with work because if I don’t, my husband will think I’m not doing enough.
And if he thinks I’m not doing enough, he won’t love me enough.
And if he doesn’t love me enough, then I won’t be enough.
And if I’m not enough, What’s the point?
Most days it doesn’t usually go to that extreme, but it’s not hard to see how we get there right?
And that’s why today I want to talk with you about scarcity in money, marriage, and ministry.
I'm also going to share with you some very important questions you need to ask yourself in order to get into alignment with the truth, especially in relation to your God-given desires.
Let me be real with you about my own excuses and what I'm doing to lay them down before the Lord and I'm going to invite you to do the same.
My prayer is that as we get honest about these issues we will be able to not only heal but thrive.
Joy In The Moment
In today's episode, we're talking about how to pause and embrace joy in the moment.
Allowing ourselves to experience joy often seems self-indulgent, but I want to assure you that it is one of the most effective ways to enter into a place of worship and praise.
The second benefit is the amount of clarity we can gain. Our vision of the future is often clouded with fear and worry, but joy actually helps us to see things from a more realistic point of view.
Please enjoy today's episode.
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How to Serve Others by Creating and Selling a Digital Course with Amy Porterfield
I wanted to help women prevent divorce ever since I realized how good the right relationship could me. But learning how to pursue such an important ministry didn't come easily. But God always provides teachers and opportunities to learn from those who have gone before us. That's why it is my pleasure to introduce you to my friend and mentor, Amy Porterfield.
Amy is the brains behind Digital Course Acadamy, the program joined in 2020 that allowed me to create and sell my signature course Ready For The One. Her program has helped me in ways I could’ve never predicted, but more on that later.
Today, Amy and are talking about how owning your own business can be a blessing for your marriage, why alpha-type men are attracted to boss ladies, how entrepreneurship can strengthen your relationships skills and so much more!
Amy is known to be a step-by-step kind of girl and she tests everything she teaches first-hand, so when I joined her FREE Bootcamp in 2020, I knew I was in good hands.
And guess what?
Amy is offering (for FREE) another Digital Course Kickstarter: 30 Day Bootcamp.
And because I know digital courses *might* be something on your mind, I wanted to make sure you could join right away!
So even if you’re not 1000% sure a digital course is right for you, that’s ok -- the bootcamp is FREE and it’s a great way to discover that the ideas you’ve been sitting on are *actually* great ideas.
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The Importance of Habits
Do you ever feel like you’re constantly trying to figure out how to overcome the overwhelm?
Each week, Lily Mtongwiza, your favorite relationship coach for women pursuing their God-given desire for marriage, shares her best coaching tools and insights to help you navigate this season of your life.
Whether you’re single as a pringle, falling head of heels, or hearing wedding bells, this podcast is for you.
In this episode, I want to share why establishing good habits is an essential first step to achieving your God-given desires.
I also have an extra special bonus I want to share with you today from one of my own mentors and the woman who helped me create my digital course, Ready For The One.
You're definitely going to want to get your hands on this!
If you’re ready to create habits that will begin a brand new chapter for you… one that sets you up to pursue the kind of freedom that would change the game forever, grab your 6 Daily Habits To Create More Freedom & Live Your Best Life Today.
The Modern Christian Bachelorette With Thobile Mogorosi
Getting tired of the waiting game?
Sometimes it can feel like you are stuck spending some of the best years of your life just waiting for your "real life" to begin.
But, Thobile Mogorosi, my guest for this episode, and I are determined to show you that there is a better way.
Talking about your desire for marriage shouldn't be something we hush or try to hide.
I know... You've been told to just wait and let it happen. But as I've said before, marriage is not something that just happens to you.
Marriage is something you co-create with Christ.
And along the way, it's a good idea to get some Christ-centered input from those who have achieved what you'd like to create.
That's why Thobile has put together a very special Summit with over 25 guest speakers including myself and Stephan Speaks, to equip and encourage you on the road ahead.
In this episode, Thobile gives us the inside scoop as to how her personal journey, which took over 40 years, inspired her to turn around and help others achieve a Christ-centered marriage with more grace and freedom.
Click Here To Register For The Modern Christian Bachelorette Summit
The Modern Christian Bachelorette Summit will be Featuring 25+ Experts In Navigating Life As A Single Christian Woman Desiring Marriage
This is a FREE 5-day online summit on top practical strategies to owning your worth and positioning yourself for marriage, so you can find love without losing yourself
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