Friends with Benefits

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‘Friends with Benefits’ is the essential podcast for rewards and benefits leaders. Hosted by Carl Chapman and David Duckworth from Ben, each episode brings together top minds in benefits and HR to unpack the latest trends shaping the world of benefits. Think AI, employee engagement, ROI, and more. Expect real talk with industry innovators and bold ideas you’ll want to steal. If you’re building better benefits, this is the podcast your CPO wishes you’d listen to.

Episodes

  1. 12/23/2025

    The Christmas Special: Reflections, Wishes, and the Future of Employee Benefits

    Our festive episode reflecting on the first year of the Friends with Benefits podcast — plus Santa drops by with the world’s biggest benefit wishes. In this Christmas Special, Carl and David look back on a standout first year for the Friends with Benefits podcast — from launching the format to hosting guests who challenged conventional thinking in reward and benefits. The conversation covers reflections on standout episodes, why passion-led discussions matter more than scripted topics, and what themes are likely to dominate 2026. A surprise appearance from Santa (Seb) introduces a series of benefit “wishes” submitted by consultants, reward leaders, and managers — sparking honest discussion around AI, inclusion, pay transparency, engagement, and global complexity. The episode closes with a look ahead to what’s shaping up to be a big year for benefits. 00:00 — Intro 00:39 — Reflecting on a Big First Year 01:00 — Why the Podcast Matters 01:41 — Letting Guests Talk About What They Care About 02:00 — A Standout Moment: Josephina from British Airways 02:34 — Purposeful Communication Over Noise 03:00 — Why Passion Creates Better Conversations 06:00 — Inclusion and Choice in Benefits 07:00 — Pay Transparency Is Coming (Whether You Like It or Not) 08:17 — Rethinking ‘Engagement’ in Benefits 09:19 — Global Complexity Isn’t Going Away 11:05 — Looking Ahead to 2026

    12 min
  2. 11/25/2025

    The One With Tony from Aristocrat: What 40 Years in Reward Reveals About Employee Benefits

    What happens when one of the earliest flexible-benefits pioneers looks at the industry today — and realises many of the same issues still haven’t been fixed? Tony Nevin has spent over four decades in reward and benefits, working as an advisor, consultant, practitioner, entrepreneur, and one of the earliest team members at Thomsons (later Darwin, now Mercer). Tony joins Carl and David to reflect on four decades in benefits — from the birth of flex, to the pitfalls of tech, to the ongoing struggles with admin, comms, and engagement. They cover salary sacrifice reform, focus groups on factory floors, carers’ benefits, medical inflation, neurodiversity, and the hard truth that HR and finance often underestimate the strategic impact of benefits. Episode Highlights: 00:00 — Intro 00:45 — 43 Years, a Green Suit, and an Accidental Career 02:00 — The Moment Flexible Benefits Were Born 03:30 — “The Problem Hasn’t Been Solved Yet” 05:30 — Salary Sacrifice: Easy for Government, Hard on Employees 08:45 — Engagement as the Real Bottom Line 12:30 — Benefits Aren’t Important… Unless You Make Them Important 16:00 — The Whiteboard Reality Check 19:00 — Carers Are the New Frontier of Workforce Support 23:30 — ADHD, Self-Understanding, and New Communication Patterns 27:00 — The 80% Open-Rate Email 30:30 — The Job, Defined Simply Be the first to know when new episodes drop! Follow us on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thanksben/

    33 min

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‘Friends with Benefits’ is the essential podcast for rewards and benefits leaders. Hosted by Carl Chapman and David Duckworth from Ben, each episode brings together top minds in benefits and HR to unpack the latest trends shaping the world of benefits. Think AI, employee engagement, ROI, and more. Expect real talk with industry innovators and bold ideas you’ll want to steal. If you’re building better benefits, this is the podcast your CPO wishes you’d listen to.