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What happens when you mix Carrie Bradshaw with Dr. Phil? You get me, Shallon Lester, an author, editor, NYC It Girl and YouTube dating coach with almost 1 billion views! On this podcast, I’ll answer YOUR burning questions about love, lust, life and lip gloss—and everything between. Are you ready to join the #Shallontourage and take over the world? Time to get on top, ladies... ♥️Got a love quandary? Submit a question at www.shallonlester.com ♥️Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO ♥️YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester

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What happens when you mix Carrie Bradshaw with Dr. Phil? You get me, Shallon Lester, an author, editor, NYC It Girl and YouTube dating coach with almost 1 billion views! On this podcast, I’ll answer YOUR burning questions about love, lust, life and lip gloss—and everything between. Are you ready to join the #Shallontourage and take over the world? Time to get on top, ladies... ♥️Got a love quandary? Submit a question at www.shallonlester.com ♥️Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO ♥️YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester

    EVIL WEEK BONUS: How (and Why) to Embrace Wickedness

    EVIL WEEK BONUS: How (and Why) to Embrace Wickedness

    EVIL WEEK BONUS: How (and Why) to Embrace Wickedness

    Evil Week is in full swing but it can be hard to fully step into the shoes of sin, right? I'll give you a perditious little pep talk on how evil and intuition walk hand in hand. Plus: we'll sorting out what exactly makes for great sex (and how to get it!) and ranting about...Emily Ratajkowski?

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    • 45 min
    Evil Week Preview: The Art Of Revenge

    Evil Week Preview: The Art Of Revenge

    Evil Week begins on October 25 on YouTube and Infstream, and the Shallontourage deserves a little...appetizer, don’t you think? This week I’m talking all about revenge — how to get it, who to tell, what it looks like, and the two different strategies for annihilating your enemies.

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    • 33 min
    Moving On & Moving Up

    Moving On & Moving Up

    This week our mantra is: stay true to yourself. Sometimes it’s necessary to look at the reality of the situation, a person, or even a town and say… You know what? This just isn’t good enough for me anymore. Plus, I’ll tell you how to cultivate what I call celebrity energy to insulate you from beta males who neg you on dating apps and IRL!


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    • 35 min
    There’s Freedom In Restraint: How To Be Your Own Savior

    There’s Freedom In Restraint: How To Be Your Own Savior

    This week we’re talking to a Shalligator who feel stuck in her current college circumstance, plus another trapped by a friend who just won’t listen to her advice, and another who ponders the age old question: if we sleep with a guy in the first date, is it the kiss of death? I’ll break it all down!

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    • 42 min
    Love Bombing Boys & Draining Disaster Friends

    Love Bombing Boys & Draining Disaster Friends

    This week, we’re learning how to see the reality of the situation — not what we hope it is, or what fear tells us it is. One Shalligator is getting ghosted by a guy with unclear intentions, while another is debating whether or not to cut off a toxic friend. I’ll sort it all out and give you a soothing new mantra!


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    • 38 min
    Heroin Highs & Nerdy Needs

    Heroin Highs & Nerdy Needs

    We’ve all been there with the guy who felt like drugs—every text and every hook up gave us that dopamine insanity. One Shalligator offers her tip on how to clip the cravings, then another ask a crucial question: when we are finally finished with f**k boys, where can you find a hot quality nerd? I’ll tell you a fun and easy way to magnetize quality characters into your life and how to avoid potential pitfalls!

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    • 37 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
756 Ratings

756 Ratings

Ts1319891522 ,

Love it!

Shallon has helped me understand myself and become a better person. She’s also so so funny. I would love to hear more book club readings in the future. 💕

zahira.e ,

Too many ads

I love what this podcast offers but all these ads are too much.

Wally Review Company ,

Listening to Shallon is a Form if Self Care...

I’m 17 and so incredibly grateful I came across Shallons content so young. She doesn’t simply offer dating advice. Her advice is unique because she encourages us to PUT. OURSELVES. FIRST. To better all aspects of our lives. My life NO LONGER revolves around ANY MAN. And In turn that makes me magnetic and NOT DESPERATE for ANYONE. I’m attuned to my own desperation and keep that at bay. This has helped all of my interpersonal relationships...Listening to this podcast or Shallons YouTube videos will truly be one of the best forms of self care you could give yourself. I don’t know how she churns out so much content every week! ALSO unlike many other (rather mediocre) you tubers, shallon can literally talk for like 30 minutes straight and captivate you the ENTIRE time. She’s an great rhetorician and doesn’t use too many jump cuts. It’s great!! Thanks Shallon! You’re doing great girl!

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