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What happens when you mix Carrie Bradshaw with Dr. Phil? You get me, Shallon Lester, an author, editor, NYC It Girl and YouTube dating coach with almost 1 billion views! On this podcast, I’ll answer YOUR burning questions about love, lust, life and lip gloss—and everything between. Are you ready to join the #Shallontourage and take over the world? Time to get on top, ladies... ♥️Got a love quandary? Submit a question at www.shallonlester.com ♥️Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO ♥️YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester
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Girl On Top: ShallonXO Shallon Lester & Studio71

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    • 4.7 • 888 Ratings

What happens when you mix Carrie Bradshaw with Dr. Phil? You get me, Shallon Lester, an author, editor, NYC It Girl and YouTube dating coach with almost 1 billion views! On this podcast, I’ll answer YOUR burning questions about love, lust, life and lip gloss—and everything between. Are you ready to join the #Shallontourage and take over the world? Time to get on top, ladies... ♥️Got a love quandary? Submit a question at www.shallonlester.com ♥️Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO ♥️YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester
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    In Defense Of Ghosting: The Real Reason Guys & Friends Ghost

    In Defense Of Ghosting: The Real Reason Guys & Friends Ghost

    Confession: I ghost friends. If you’re being blanked by a bestie (or a guy), I’ll give a counter point to what may be going through their head and how to prevent it from happening!

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    • 50 min
    Grad Week (Sorta): When You Can’t Be Happy For Your Friends

    Grad Week (Sorta): When You Can’t Be Happy For Your Friends

    This week I’ll tell you how I learned to stop seething over my friends love or accomplishments and how to feel confident in my own lane and life!

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    • 38 min
    Grad Week: Why It’s Ok To NOT Be Ok

    Grad Week: Why It’s Ok To NOT Be Ok

    Stressed because you don’t have it all figured out yet? Trying to manifest your dreams but nothings really happening? I’ll break down the right way to attract your perfect life, And give you a pep talk if you don’t even know where to begin!

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    • 46 min
    Grad Week: How To Deal With Life After College

    Grad Week: How To Deal With Life After College

    Graduating from college is terrifying and exhausting, but i’ll give you some tips on adjusting to corporate life, dealing with male-dominated industries, and post grad burn out. And head over to my YouTube channel for videos on how to find your passion and trust your dreams!

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    • 40 min
    How To Make Feedback Suck A Little Less

    How To Make Feedback Suck A Little Less

    If you’re a recent graduate—or just a person existing in the world—chances are people give you lots of “feedback” whether you ask for it or not. I’ll tell you how to process it with more neutrality and less defensiveness! 

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    • 41 min
    How Long Should You Wait To Have Sex With A Guy?

    How Long Should You Wait To Have Sex With A Guy?

    Is a relationship doomed if you sleep together on the first date? What’s the ideal timeline to shagging for the first time? I’ll explain a man’s mentality on a girl who puts out and how to up your chances of keeping him interested!

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    • 50 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
888 Ratings

888 Ratings

mindy-wesley ,

Love you xoxo

I can’t get enough of your content. We need honesty and realness more than ever!

Allycat1013 ,

Honest and Helpful

I love listening to your podcasts when I go on my walks. Honestly have helped me in so many different ways :) Thanks for being you ❤️

KravMagaGirl ,

Simply the Best!

Shallon is the best friend, big sister, voice in your head that you’ve always wanted and needed. Her advice is spot on and truthful. No beating around the bush. Why? Because she wants to bring the best out of you. She delivers all of this with a style that is completely unique and hilarious. Her podcasts always make me feel better! Do yourself a favor and subscribe.

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