54 episodes

What happens when you mix Carrie Bradshaw with Dr. Phil? You get me, Shallon Lester, an author, editor, NYC It Girl and YouTube dating coach with almost 1 billion views! On this podcast, I’ll answer YOUR burning questions about love, lust, life and lip gloss—and everything between. Are you ready to join the #Shallontourage and take over the world? Time to get on top, ladies... ♥️Got a love quandary? Submit a question at www.shallonlester.com ♥️Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO ♥️YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester

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    • 4.7, 687 Ratings

What happens when you mix Carrie Bradshaw with Dr. Phil? You get me, Shallon Lester, an author, editor, NYC It Girl and YouTube dating coach with almost 1 billion views! On this podcast, I’ll answer YOUR burning questions about love, lust, life and lip gloss—and everything between. Are you ready to join the #Shallontourage and take over the world? Time to get on top, ladies... ♥️Got a love quandary? Submit a question at www.shallonlester.com ♥️Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO ♥️YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester

    Quarantine Spirals: Divorces, Dudes and Diapers

    Quarantine Spirals: Divorces, Dudes and Diapers

    With all of us battling some form of 'Rona related existential dread, I'll talk four Shalloners off the cliffs of insanity, whether they're dealing with their parents' divorce, a fantasy flirtation, the worry that they "owe" their mom a grandchild!

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    • 35 min
    First Time Fiascos & Flirting Gone Wrong

    First Time Fiascos & Flirting Gone Wrong

    This week, we’ll help two lovelorn Shalloners get over the trauma
    of losing their virginity to, well, losers, and give advice to another who flirted herself into a corner with a married man...and now has an unhinged wife on her tail! 

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    • 31 min
    The Art Of Apologizing & Females Flirting With Your Fella

    The Art Of Apologizing & Females Flirting With Your Fella

    This week two Shalloners find themselves needing to issue major apologies to their boyfriends, but another
    is demanding an explanation for her man’s female “friend” who can’t keep her trashy hands to herself!

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    • 30 min
    Quarantining With Parents: Criticisms & Catholicisms

    Quarantining With Parents: Criticisms & Catholicisms

    This week we’re helping Shalloners stuck in lockdown with family situations that are...less than ideal, shall we say. From a literal list of things to change for a suddenly-super religious father, I’ll tell you how to navigate sticky family situations without losing
    your mind—or all the progress you’ve made on yourself! 

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    • 32 min
    Quarantine Stress: Family Fiascos & Moving Mayhem

    Quarantine Stress: Family Fiascos & Moving Mayhem

    Sanity is unraveling at a rapid pace, and that means parental feuds and snarky roommates. I’ll help you channel your anxiety into something productive, and help two other Shalloners who can’t fathom why guys stick with lackluster rebounds and deadbeat chicks! 

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    • 35 min
    Quarantine Dating: Setting The Pace & Getting Back The Guy!

    Quarantine Dating: Setting The Pace & Getting Back The Guy!

    This week I’ll help a Shalloner wanting to knock an ex’s socks off when she sees him post-lockdown, tell another one how to set the pace for online chit-chat with a guy she just started talking to, and help another recognize a predator in her midst! 

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    • 34 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
687 Ratings

687 Ratings

burn! ,

The Whole Package

I have never met Shallon Lester, but she makes me feel seen, heard and loved. I’m a huge fan of this podcast as well as her YouTube videos. I love the mix of street-smart older sister/best girlfriend/wise sage vibes in her advice and she has helped me navigate so many areas of my life in ways that usher in expansion and growth. I am beyond grateful that I discovered her.

dess098 ,

Insightful content

I’ve been watching Shallon’s videos for a while and now I’m listening to the podcasts. Her content has helped me improve my relationships and myself as a person. I really appreciate her advice and I think we can all learn a thing or two from her! :)

Beegee6942086 ,

Predator & Not owning up

I used to be a big fan and watched her videos, she started coming off as less knowledgeable and starting playing psychologist too much when she has no credentials other than quick google searches. Her obsession with younger men is disturbing and she seems like SHES the one who needs REAL help and needs to be off the internet until she addresses her mistakes in a genuine way, not just deflecting and acting like everyone is a hater. She’s also lowkey racist and as Latina, I started noticing her micro-aggressions against Black Women and men and also that comment that is on VIDEO of her saying Racist comments about immigrants is completely disgusting. She’s a fraud.

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