27 episodes

What happens when you mix Carrie Bradshaw with Dr. Phil? You get me, Shallon Lester, an author, editor, NYC It Girl and YouTube dating coach with almost 1 billion views!

On this podcast, I’ll answer YOUR burning questions about love, lust, life and lip gloss—and everything between.

Are you ready to join the #Shallontourage and take over the world? Time to get on top, ladies...

♥️Submit a question on the Instantgo app, username ShallonXO and click CHAT
♥️Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO
♥️YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester

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Girl On Top: ShallonXO Shallon Lester & Studio71

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9, 395 Ratings

What happens when you mix Carrie Bradshaw with Dr. Phil? You get me, Shallon Lester, an author, editor, NYC It Girl and YouTube dating coach with almost 1 billion views!

On this podcast, I’ll answer YOUR burning questions about love, lust, life and lip gloss—and everything between.

Are you ready to join the #Shallontourage and take over the world? Time to get on top, ladies...

♥️Submit a question on the Instantgo app, username ShallonXO and click CHAT
♥️Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO
♥️YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester

For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
395 Ratings

395 Ratings

lianacoffey ,

PLEASE HELP! 🚨

Dear Shallon, I have $0 but I have to at least try to ask you this because I am freaking out inside (AHHHHH!) Ok I’m 22, been in a relationship for almost 7 years, married for almost 3, I live in the smallest town you can imagine. I’ve traveled a lot and lived in Florida as a kid. I had a rough child hood; neglect, emotional and physical (not sexual) abuse from a narcissistic mom and co dependent dad who were on drugs from the time I was 4-15 years old, they got sober for five years and relapsed around when I was 19/20. We had a big falling out over something petty because my mom is a sociopath and would try to make every event or friend in my life ruined with her with drama. She blocked me on Facebook and I haven’t had anything to do with her since. They are unemployed drug addicts again and they are draining my grandma dry of money but she will not see it.

I am rambling but I lost my job that paid very good for where I live. I haven’t found work and I’ve been unemployed since 12/2018.. Fast forward to my relationship -it’s terrible. I listen to your podcasts and videos on repeat, I listen to books, videos and research about toxic relationships. (My dream is to be a therapist) so I’m also fascinated with mental health and everything. I think my partner is a covert narcissist. We have great times of course but I know chemistry is not everything. I am sad more than I’m happy.

I’ve found out over the years that he is so much like my mom.. he criticizes, gaslights, manipulates, goes emotionally cold, lies and betrays me. Don’t forget the yelling and throwing fits. He grew up in a house hold with a step dad who treated his mother this way. I modeled my mom and dad’s relationship by being like my father. Codependent. I think I have BPD and I know you say that’s the worst thing to have but the more I work on myself I have reversed my insecurities, jealousy and anger so much I can just stop now and find inner peace before I go down a spiral of toxicity like I used to. I have such a long way to go and I have my first real therapy session in a few weeks.

I realized my marriage has been dead for a while. We are neither happy but we’re just attached to each other. I need some real advice because I have no one to turn to that would have to wisdom to know what to do because my parents are what you call garbage people. So how do I get out of this marriage? The only fast option I have is to move in this 50+ something year old man’s pent house in one of the 6 empty beautiful apartments downstairs if I work for his company. The thing is I don’t want anything to happen because he has girls there all the time that he sleeps with that are my age. I’m not interested in that but I think I made it clear. Should I move in there? I feel like I’m standing in the middle of different roads and don’t know which to turn to so I just freeze there. I have put in for jobs everywhere. Oh also I know I shouldn’t but I feel so guilty for my husband because it would be trauma for him if I left. How do I stop feeling this way? He is draining my energy and causing me to feel hopeless. I must mention we’ve both cheated on each other as well.. Help please!

Thank you so much if you even read this.

Better then mcpe ,

I love this women

Honestly she’s change my life. Enough said.

Gnatnelson ,

Solid Advice

Not only does Shallon give solid advice but she is fun to listen to. I always appreciate Shallon’s wisdom (which is beyond her years) and unique viewpoint on the hearts and minds of men.

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