185 episodes

Are you sitting in a marriage that feels empty? Struggling to connect with your husband? Maybe you’re telling yourself you’re just sticking it out for the kids, and what really keeps you in the marriage is God.

If this is you, I’ve been there. My story is your story. I want to help you reconnect in marriage and feel cherished again.

Hey, I’m Beatriz, a Jesus loving, wife and mom I’ve been married for 15 years, but for the past 10, I’ve actually had the affectionate and connected marriage I’ve always dreamed of!

What happened the first five years? Well, I was busy telling my husband all the things he was doing wrong, like how he needed Jesus and he needed to do to make me happy.

We tried marriage counseling, small groups, and all the things we were told would make our marriage better. Nothing worked and we separated.

How did I turn it around?
That’s what you’ll learn in this podcast - proven to communicate better, create more intimacy, and be a Godly wife.

So if you’re ready to finally communicate effectively with your husband, so you can stop fighting and be on the same team again, this podcast is for you. Now grab that journal and let’s jump right in.


Connect: Beatriz@thegracefueledwife.com

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The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com

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The Grace Fueled Wife | Communication, Intimacy, Separation, Reconciliation, Christian Marriage Beatriz Vargas | Christian Wife & Marriage Coach

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 164 Ratings

Are you sitting in a marriage that feels empty? Struggling to connect with your husband? Maybe you’re telling yourself you’re just sticking it out for the kids, and what really keeps you in the marriage is God.

If this is you, I’ve been there. My story is your story. I want to help you reconnect in marriage and feel cherished again.

Hey, I’m Beatriz, a Jesus loving, wife and mom I’ve been married for 15 years, but for the past 10, I’ve actually had the affectionate and connected marriage I’ve always dreamed of!

What happened the first five years? Well, I was busy telling my husband all the things he was doing wrong, like how he needed Jesus and he needed to do to make me happy.

We tried marriage counseling, small groups, and all the things we were told would make our marriage better. Nothing worked and we separated.

How did I turn it around?
That’s what you’ll learn in this podcast - proven to communicate better, create more intimacy, and be a Godly wife.

So if you’re ready to finally communicate effectively with your husband, so you can stop fighting and be on the same team again, this podcast is for you. Now grab that journal and let’s jump right in.


Connect: Beatriz@thegracefueledwife.com

Free Discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/

The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com

Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/

Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com

    E1//My Rockbottom Story: God Redeemed my marriage and can do the same for you!

    E1//My Rockbottom Story: God Redeemed my marriage and can do the same for you!

    In this episode, I talk about my story of healing and redemption in my own marriage. You hear all about what happened and why I feel God has called me to this work.
    I was just like you. I felt alone in my marriage. We felt like roommates - bad ones at that. My husband was an unbeliever and he was generally harsh with his words. I was struggling to give him any grace for his bad days because I felt he never gave me grace for mine. 
    I would think about what it would be like to leave him and start over... But God! Listen in to hear a story of hope about what only God can do!
     
    Wait!!! Before you go! 
    Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
     
    Work with me:
    The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
    Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
    Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
    Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news.  Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com

    • 31 min
    E2// The hard truth about who is to blame for issues in your marriage: The lie - It’s not me its YOU

    E2// The hard truth about who is to blame for issues in your marriage: The lie - It’s not me its YOU

    It's often easy to blame our husbands for the issues in our marriage. Perhaps they aren't loving enough, affectionate enough, or they don't help with the kids. I get it. Our husbands can be frustrating! What would happen however if we took a close look into our marriages to find what WE can change about ourselves first? 
     
    The tough love in this episode will have you re-thinking your perspective on marriage and making changes that can have a positive impact as quickly as TODAY!
     
    Wait!!! Before you go! 
    Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
     
    Work with me:
    The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
    Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
    Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
    Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news.  Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com

    • 9 min
    E3//The lie - It’s no big deal

    E3//The lie - It’s no big deal

    In this episode I discuss the truth behind the lie we believe when we say "it's no big deal" Why is this harmful? How do we fight this lie and move towards healthier communication?
     
    Wait!!! Before you go! 
    Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
     
    Work with me:
    The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
    Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
    Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
    Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news.  Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com

    • 20 min
    E4// The lie - No one can know what’s going on

    E4// The lie - No one can know what’s going on

    In this episode, we discuss our tendency not to talk about issues within our lives and marriage due to shame. We discuss the harm caused by our reluctance to be transparent with each other as well as how to navigate the paradox of transparency and protecting our marriage. 
     
    Wait!!! Before you go! 
    Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
     
    Work with me:
    The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
    Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
    Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
    Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news.  Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com

    • 19 min
    E5// How can you find true, Godly friendship as an adult?

    E5// How can you find true, Godly friendship as an adult?

    Adult friendships can be hard. How do we find true, Godly friendship as adults? What should you share/not share and how do you identify who in your life could potentially fill that role?
    Having a trusted friend has been paramount in my journey to keep my sanity in motherhood and marriage but I understand they may be hard to find. Learn to steer clear of gossip, build trust, and form a lifelong bond with that sister friend!
    In this episode, I interview my best friend Janice Kertcher and we talk about making lasting friendships as adults, finding people with whom we can share our life struggles, learning to discern how you can trust someone, and avoid toxic gossip. We discuss how all these topics help us to improve our marriages and quality of life as adults. 
     
    Wait!!! Before you go! 
    Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
     
    Work with me:
    The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
    Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
    Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
    Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news.  Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com

    • 47 min
    E6// How can we extend grace to each other in this time of Global pandemic/COVID-19?

    E6// How can we extend grace to each other in this time of Global pandemic/COVID-19?

    In this episode, I talk about how we can remain positive, choose love over fear and extend grace to one another in this crazy time of a global pandemic and COVID-19. 
     
    Wait!!! Before you go! 
    Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
     
    Work with me:
    The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
    Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
    Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
    Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news.  Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com

    • 14 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
164 Ratings

164 Ratings

Jennie-Laurie Hope ,

So needed!

Beatriz does such a great job of sharing her heart for marriage in an authentic way, with real steps you can take right now. If you are looking for Biblical guidance on how to get your marriage to a better place, this is it!

Liana Kanani ,

Grace a Word God Gave Me Just Yesterday

Thank you for your story I can’t wait to hear episode #2! We are going through a hard time and the fact that your podcast will be about being more gracious is confirmation because I just heard this yesterday from a devotional. Thank you so much for listening to the Lord to share your hardships and how His ways (and funny side aka buy him a TV lol I’ve been there:)) are the only way to a beautiful outcome and relationship. My will is strong but it’s time to be a purposeful strong woman!

Healthy Happy Mom Project ,

A must listen to for wives!

Beatriz has helped my marriage and changed my way of seeing things through this podcast. I’m so grateful for this community! Beatriz is an amazing listener and asks you questions to make you think of things you never thought about before. Thanks for all you do!!

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