Harmony UU Podcast

Harmony UU Podcast
Harmony UU Podcast

The Harmony UU Podcast delivers a weekly sermon from our lay-led Unitarian Universalist services. Each episode features a unique perspective on balancing faith and reason, with a wide range of topics. Whether you're a Harmony UU member who wants to catch up on a service you missed, or just a curious seeker looking for inspiration, we hope you enjoy this podcast. Visit our website at harmonyuu.org for more information about our community, located in the northeast suburbs of Cincinnati.

Episodes

  1. MAR 3

    Compassion

    Compassion…for Regular Folks (Part 1)Sermon by Jen GillumOkay, here we go. A testosterone surging teenage boy, a perimenopausal woman and her 80-year-old mother walk into a bar…. What, you want a punch line? Sorry. That’s just my life, folks! The joke is on me. (That part about the bar though is NOT a joke. That part I take seriously. It’s medicinal.) Yes. At age 52, I live with my almost 80-year-old mother. No, wait. SHE lives with me! (I know what you were all thinking.) Also, my son (soon to be a teenager) is sucking air in this home as well…trying desperately to find his way into manhood. And here I am. An older mom. A late, late bloomer in life—literally even, since I created new life when my own was potentially half over. Some might also say a slow learner—but WHEN I do finally get the lesson, I get it real good. Let me prove my point.   When I was deep in the world of infertility treatments, secret hopes and silent shame and grief through miscarriages, somewhere along the way I said to myself: This is surely the hardest battle I will face. But when I had a pre-school child and my dad was in and out of Hospice and ultimately passed from this earth and my mom was left alone, I said to myself: This. This is surely the hardest thing. But then JUST a MERE 30 days after my dad had left us all, my husband revealed that he was leaving me. The marriage was over. And that little bomb of shock trauma, after I was fully able to let it land, I absolutely KNEW (if I survived it at all)—THAT would be the most crushing blow of my one, precious life. Not so much because of being without a partner, but because we had focused so hard and so long through countless procedures and surgeries on becoming a “family.” And the version of family I had convinced myself was best for our child, my one and only baby, got ripped away. I was fractured. Broken open. And I’m still kind of picking up pieces some days and re-assembling the puzzle of me and our family. Some days it’s rough and the scars are jagged. But most days it’s a beautiful mosaic. And although I would not wish that past pain on anyone, I also wouldn’t change any of it. On any day. Without ALL of those experiences, I wouldn’t be me. And I’m proud of who I’m becoming. But ONE THING is for sure and for certain. I DO NOT EVER say that something is the hardest thing anymore!!!!!!  Except, you guys, so help me…living in the same home with my mother is THE HARDEST damn thing! See, told you I was a slow learner.  JSo, what does this have to do with Compassion? Well, I guess number one is that I need some. I need some big time.  Creating a home and a life for my son following my divorce where he was safe and loved and well taken care of was everything to me. I was scared. I couldn’t answer the question, who would be home when he got off the bus? He was not yet in kindergarten. It was a different time. There were lots of questions I could not answer. I was scared. My mom was alone and not in a great financial position.So, we did the thing that made the most sense at the time. Exit husband. Enter mother. Fear-based decisions are not always the smartest ones. And I’m going to straight up skip the worst parts of this story. The parts where my mom was in serious complicated grief over losing her husband. And I was either pissed off or,well, really super duper pissed off. And NEITHER of the people we were pissed off at were there with us, so you do the math. It was ugly, and there were times when I did not think we’d be able to continue under one roof. Sigh. But time kept ticking. Day by day. And here we are now. It’s been 9 years since my dad died. And 6 years of living under the same roof with my mom. Time does keep ticking. But not forever. These past two years have brought some noticeable changes in my mom. Loss of memory. Less willingness or interest in tackling things independently.

    29 min
  2. 10/02/2023

    The Great Disruption

    A look at how technology will disrupt the structures of how western society functions. The following is a transcript of the sermon written and delivered by Harmony member Rob Rogan on Oct. 1, 2023. So it has been a minute since I’ve done a sermon up here, and I’m kind of excited to get back to it. And then I’m going to throw a disclaimer out there. I do like to do these. Some of the lines of logic and scenarios I’m going to throw out here today, may be considered too dramatic. They may be considered unrealistic, or maybe not.  But I ask that even when I intentionally get a little hyperbolic, that we allow ourselves the space to run down these logical rabbit holes. And at the end of our discussion, we consider if we agree with them or not.  But if you’d give me a little artistic license, I appreciate it.  Also, before I do get into it, I do want to give some credit for some of the source material to Israeli historian Yuval Harari. If you don’t know him, he’s just a really, really interesting guy to listen to. He’s got a really straightforward take on a lot of things usually from a historical lens. And I highly recommend he’s got a lot of content out there.  So– and I am actually going to play a couple clips with him towards the end. So you’re going to see him. All right. So with that out of the way, I’m going to go ahead and dive in. All right.  So, question, how many here have seen the Stanley Kubrick classic film 2001? All right. Maybe half. OK. By all accounts, it’s probably one of the more groundbreaking movies of all time.  For those who haven’t seen it, I’d offer, it’s a fairly obtuse film. It’s filled with imagery as much as it is story. And it’s really designed to evoke emotion, maybe even more than it is to be logically interpreted. Kubrick himself stated that if anyone walked out of the theater on the first viewing and understood the film, that he failed as a filmmaker.  However, what is quite clear is the representation of technology as this two-sided sword that hurts humanity as much as it helps. I particularly marvel at the imagery of the first act of the film. The whole first scene, maybe 20 minutes, is now a line of dialogue. And it’s kind of this powerful story of depicting the primitive descendants of humans that learn to use bones as tools for the first time and then immediately use that to kill fellow primates and acts of rage.  Now, most remember the more infamous third act of the movie where the dangerous computer known as how becomes one of the first cautionary tales of AI and cinema. In the film, the soothing voice and complex abilities of the HAL 9000 computer controls every system and device around our astronauts in space.  And while Hal is compliant in his requests and gentle in his demeanor, Kubrick masterfully makes the viewers feel so uncomfortable by showing how helpless the astronauts were. Even in scenes where Hal is kind and benevolent, we feel how the astronauts are completely reliant upon the technology.  Now, this movie, which was released 55 years ago, really did a bad job at predicting the year 2001. But perhaps now in 2023, we are at a time where technology is approaching an uncomfortable relationship with humans. And why intend to portray today a cautionary view of technology?  I’m not going to talk about the kind of uprising violent technology featured in pop culture cinema, like the Terminator, the Matrix, or other more common sci-fi human versus AI tropes. Instead, I intend to discuss technology, even in concentrated human control, that represents a more gentle but dangerous Hal-like risk to the very structures of our society.

    24 min
  3. 07/03/2023

    Vacation Privilege

    The following is a transcript of the sermon written and delivered by Harmony members Gretchen Johnson and Doren Cook on July 2, 2023.The concept of “vacation privilege” is something I didn’t really think about until fairly recently. And it’s ironic; I was texting with Paul Smith and he let me know he was not going to be here today because he’s in Africa with his family. And he said, how ironic, you’re talking about vacation privilege, and here I am in Africa.But what we want to talk about today is there’s a lot more, you tend to think about socioeconomics when it comes to where you vacation. There’s a lot more to that and we don’t all have the ability to travel safely everywhere. So Doren and I hope to create awareness and then in discussion talk about how we can support others and be a force for change. So it’s said there are three types of wealth in the summer.Some of you who are older may remember these days. There’s the people that have central air conditioning, likely a lot of us here in this room. There’s the people who have one room air conditioner, usually in the parents’ room. And then there’s people who have no air conditioning, who swelter in a hot room and all fight over who gets to sit in front of the fan. That was my house growing up. So.Thinking about vacation, I know the pictures are kind of small, but I’m hoping when you look at this, you probably relate to one of the photos. You have taken a vacation in your lifetime. You look at a budget. You pick a destination. You talk about if you’re going to fly or drive.That’s what vacation is to you. However, according to Bankrate, more than a third of the people in this country can’t take a vacation of any kind. And that was sobering for me. I did not realize it was that high. So they’re bombarded with guilt because all we hear is take your kids on vacation, go on vacation. Your teacher says, where did you go on summer vacation?And there’s a lot of people who have to say nothing. I didn’t go on vacation. There was an article called Summer Vacation Really Sucks When You’re Poor. And it talked about how expensive it is to be poor in the summer. You’ve got higher electrical costs if you are lucky enough to have air conditioning. You have to figure out how to feed your child because they’re not going to school and perhaps getting a free lunch.You’ve got guilt because you’re not able to take your kids on vacation or to Kings Island like everybody else. We used to think if you were poor you’d go to the YMCA camp—at least that was the town I grew up in. Most Y camps today cost more than $200 a week. So if you figure that for a summer, chances are you’re not using that for child care. So a lot of folks are working two jobs, three jobs. They have to be away from their kidsSo what do the kids do? Unfortunately, a lot of them are either staying home alone, maybe with an older sibling if they’re lucky, or the more fortunate ones are staying with relatives. But it’s certainly not the situation that many of us encounter. So if you’re in this situation, what do you do? You have no money. You Google it. That’s what I did. What do people do when they have no money and want to take their kids on vacation?And I will tell you, it was very sobering and very sad. And I know some of you who work in social services are aware of this. The two answers that came up first, vacation is expensive. Save 5% to 10% of your income to plan for it. Now, if you are living paycheck to paycheck, you can’t feed your family. Obviously, you can’t do this. And it said, this is a quote, “Almost any family,

    33 min
  4. 06/09/2023

    Article 2 UU Update

    A great look at what could be changing in our 7 UU Principles and Beyond. The following is a transcript of the sermon written and delivered by Harmony member Susan Wenner Jackson on June 4, 2023. I have to warn you that this is not my typical sermon. If I get– usually when I give sermons, they’re more from the heart, more personal. This is a little bit more, I guess, academic. But I’ll try to keep it light and so we can all understand. But the– for some of you might know this  some of you this might be complete news to you. So whatever– wherever you come from, we’ll all be on the same page by the end of this.  But a couple of years ago, the UUA, the organization that is– contains all UU churches commissioned a group of people, of experts and members to come up with totally new wording for basically our constitution, the constitution of UU, which is called Article 2. Article 2 makes it sound like it’s just one little thing but it’s actually like a whole set.  So when Dale earlier said like the eighth principle, the eighth principle was something that was introduced a couple of years ago and it was part– it was an addition to the Article 2. But this is actually– that sparked kind of a whole thing. I’ll move to the next slide.  They wanted to totally like revisit, revise the whole thing, not just kind of add an amendment if you will. So just a couple of things.  This is sort of the language that’s like the foundation of our beliefs or our kind of values as a church, as a faith. And it does include the principles, if you’re familiar with the seven principles and the sources and our purpose. And our bylaws, I didn’t know this, but our bylaws actually require that we revisit it and revise it every 15 years.  So for some religious institutions, this would be– Article 2 would be regarded as a permanent statement of belief but ours is a living tradition. We commit ourselves to regularly revisiting our principles and purposes to ensure that we’re relevant, that as we grow in understanding, our principles and purposes grow too.  So since new occasions teach new duties, we must continuously examine our principles and purposes to see what’s missing, what is no longer important, and whether the language communicates our core values to the current times. So that’s kind of like the purpose. That’s what the Article 2 is.  And so they formed a commission to look at this language and see how we could reflect who we are now and what we want to be. So I mentioned there were some changes like the eighth principle. They did change something. There was some language in there about “women and men” and they changed that to “people” in one of the sources.  There was also a recommended change to the first principle to change “all people” to “all beings” and that actually failed. That did not get the vote so they didn’t do it.  So– And the eighth principle was around – strictly around anti-racism, to add a principle around racism. And that– They finally just said let’s just get a group of leaders together to really just redo this whole thing.  Now, as a personal aside, I am a writer by profession and editor. So I do find– I kind of nerd out on this a little bit. I like– I think that words are very important and they matter and I like to kind of examine words and how the...

    22 min

Ratings & Reviews

4
out of 5
5 Ratings

About

The Harmony UU Podcast delivers a weekly sermon from our lay-led Unitarian Universalist services. Each episode features a unique perspective on balancing faith and reason, with a wide range of topics. Whether you're a Harmony UU member who wants to catch up on a service you missed, or just a curious seeker looking for inspiration, we hope you enjoy this podcast. Visit our website at harmonyuu.org for more information about our community, located in the northeast suburbs of Cincinnati.

To listen to explicit episodes, sign in.

Stay up to date with this show

Sign in or sign up to follow shows, save episodes, and get the latest updates.

Select a country or region

Africa, Middle East, and India

Asia Pacific

Europe

Latin America and the Caribbean

The United States and Canada