391 episodes

A bold, vulnerable and honest weekly show for those courageous enough to believe they can have all the intimacy, health, money, relationships, fun, connection and self love they desire in life! If you believe having it all is possible and that YOU are the only thing separating you from your ideal life, you’re in the right place. In this podcast I share the mindsets, belief systems, personal habits, tools, accountability and support systems that I use daily to design my best life, all so you can go for your greatness and live your full potential! This is not like your typical self help or personal development show. I share my biggest breakdowns and breakthroughs as I travel my path of living an Abundant Loving Life. Ready? Let's do this!

Having It ALL: Conversations about living an Abundant Loving Life Matthew Bivens

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A bold, vulnerable and honest weekly show for those courageous enough to believe they can have all the intimacy, health, money, relationships, fun, connection and self love they desire in life! If you believe having it all is possible and that YOU are the only thing separating you from your ideal life, you’re in the right place. In this podcast I share the mindsets, belief systems, personal habits, tools, accountability and support systems that I use daily to design my best life, all so you can go for your greatness and live your full potential! This is not like your typical self help or personal development show. I share my biggest breakdowns and breakthroughs as I travel my path of living an Abundant Loving Life. Ready? Let's do this!

    Who Are You When No One Is Watching? (HIA Classic)

    Who Are You When No One Is Watching? (HIA Classic)

    The self improvement game is, many times, a public one. Spiritual, physical, mental and emotional self work can all be done in the open or with a group of people. And with group meditation and yoga and other similar things really taking off these days, one could buy into the idea that self improvement is a public act. 
    But there's something so much more important than the things we're DOING to improve our relationship to our selves, others and life, and that's who we're BEING. 
    I've talked about Doing vs Being on the podcast before, but today's topic takes it a degree further. Today I'm going in on the question: Who are you when no one is watching?
    So, I ask YOU -- when you're alone, in your secrecy, with no one watching and no one holding you accountable except for yourself, who are you? How do you treat yourself? What allowances do you give yourself? What language do you use to describe yourself and those around you?
    The way you answer those questions reveals more about your true state of being than other more outward displays of wellness. 
    It's said that you have between 40,000 - 60,000 thoughts per day. If you were to categorize each as a LOVING thought or FEARFUL thought, what would your ratio be?
    What you'll hear in this episode:

    How my secret self was exposed recently, and the consequences of my seeing the truth

    The self talk that contributes to us playing small

    The costs of not doing what you say you will do


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    • 41 min
    Fix Your Leaks

    Fix Your Leaks

    What "leaks" do you have in your life that need addressing?
    As you plan out your goals and intentions for 2022, it's important to not only think about the new things you desire, but also to understand the old stuff that you need to address once and for all. These "leaks" can be tough to identify, because focusing on the immediate problem is easier than really getting to the root of what's going on.
    But if you fail to identify the essence of your challenges, problems and breakdowns, then (1) they will never fully be resolved, (2) they will return in some form, and (3) you will not be able to reach the greatest heights of happiness, peace, freedom and health that you have the potential to reach.
    My relationships, career and health were stuck for years because I didn't fix my leaks. But I chose to dig in, do the hard and uncomfortable work, and address the things that I had been avoiding (or completely unaware of). Those choices have led me to where I am today, and my relationships, career and health have reached levels I didn't think was possible for me.
    Tune in as I share the story of my leaky basement, to help motivate you to finally address the leaks in your life.
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    • 10 min
    The 3 Step Formula To Creating Massive Results In 2022

    The 3 Step Formula To Creating Massive Results In 2022

    What is it that you want to create for yourself and your life in 2022?
    I have a tradition here on Having It A.L.L. that at the top of each year I help you create an amazing year. And in this episode I'm doing just that!
    But today, we're taking things up a notch and I'm sharing with you the simple 3 step formula that you can follow to create massive results in your life in 2022. When you study the masters, you spot patterns of effectiveness and success. I'm excited to bring you a pattern of success that I've applied in my life to have it all, and I've seen at play in countless other success stories.
    Get your pens and papers ready, we're about to do some work!
    Resources from this episode:

    Creating Your Word For The Year, 2021 Edition - https://podcast.matthewbivens.com/creating-your-word-for-the-year-2021-edition/


    Special LIVE Episode: Create Your Word For The Year Workshop - https://podcast.matthewbivens.com/special-live-episode-create-your-word-for-the-year-workshop/


    How To Discipline Your Thinking So That You Get What You Really Want In Life! Self Mastery Wisdom From Dr. Joe Dispenza, Abraham Hicks and Shi Heng Yi - https://podcast.matthewbivens.com/how-to-discipline-your-thinking-so-that-you-get-what-you-really-want-in-life-self-mastery-wisdom-from-dr-joe-dispenza-abraham-hicks-and-shi-heng-yi/


    Steve Harvey's message about "Ask, believe, work" - https://youtu.be/WKroVMnxnMI



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    • 52 min
    How Men Can Care For Women And Show Up Powerfully In Their Relationship (From The Holistic OBGYN Podcast)

    How Men Can Care For Women And Show Up Powerfully In Their Relationship (From The Holistic OBGYN Podcast)

    "What are 3 things you want the world to know about caring for women?"
    My friend, Dr. Nathan Riley, asked me that question on his podcast, The Holistic OBGYN, and it sparked a really great conversation between the two of us.
    I'm excited to share that full conversation with you today!
    Here are links to Dr. Nathan Riley's podcast, website and Instagram:

    Podcast - https://www.holisticobgynpod.com/

    Website - https://www.belovedholistics.com/


    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nathanrileyobgyn/



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    • 45 min
    Relationship Misconceptions That Are Making You Unhappy with Sarah Bivens (HIA Classic)

    Relationship Misconceptions That Are Making You Unhappy with Sarah Bivens (HIA Classic)

    What are your core beliefs when it comes to relationships?
    Your beliefs influence your thoughts and actions, and shape the results that you create. Hold onto a belief that's ineffective and not-so-powerful, and the result may be something that you don't like.
    In today's episode I'm joined by my Queen, Sarah Bivens, and we're diving into some big relationship myths and misconceptions that we have believed that have lead to unhappiness in our relationships. 
    My intention with this episode is for you to be aware of the impact that your core beliefs have, and to start thinking about the beliefs that are shaping your relationships.
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    • 1 hr 10 min
    New Years Resolutions: Why I'm Not A Fan Of Them And What I Recommend Instead (HIA Classic)

    New Years Resolutions: Why I'm Not A Fan Of Them And What I Recommend Instead (HIA Classic)

    Are you one of the 92% of people who never come close to completing their New Year's Resolutions?
    As you can tell by the title, I don't like New Year's Resolutions at all. I'm all for people committing to better themselves, but the New Year's Resolutions framework is not set up for you to succeed.
    In today's episode I share why I dislike New Year's Resolutions and what to do instead if you want to start off your year on a powerful note.

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    • 34 min

Customer Reviews

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422 Ratings

422 Ratings

Mag ga lish ,

Matthew is magic! Listen to be inspired.

Matthew has been an influential and constant voice in my life for almost three years now! Listening to his podcast each week is like catching up with an old friend, one that has you asking all the right questions. Matthew’s voice is authentic and raw - sharing his own breakdowns and breakthroughs that leave you feeling both connected and inspired. The content is clear, easily digestible, and action-oriented. This may be the motivational fix you’re looking for on here. Definitely give it a shot! This podcast has meant everything to me and came to me when I needed it most. Thank you, Matthew! 💛

Biracial.Beauty ,

Ep 356

I always fall off and return to this podcast and every time I return you speak to my soul 😅 this episode resonated so deeply because I’ve been struggling to allow myself to be fully expressed for a whileee now. Something click in me a few months ago and I’ve been making changes but the 6 Fs are not being fulfilled in my life . So I’m going to start taking it step by step using the framework and I’m looking forward to the blueprint program ! Not even sure how old this episode is and where you are with the blueprint program but I’m going to stick around and keep an eye out. Love you and your family Matthew ! Sending love and blessings y’all way !

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Pep Talks

Just listened to the “what you need to have in common with your partner” episode and loved the conversation. Made me think a little more.

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