Heal Your Trauma Find Your Voice

Annie Campanile, PhD
Heal Your Trauma Find Your Voice

Are you a high-achieving leader, tired of the self-doubt, sleepless nights, and the knot in your stomach before every difficult conversation? No matter how accomplished you are, does that inner critic still whisper, “You’re not doing enough”?I’ve been there, and I can’t wait to share a new way forward: one where you trust yourself fully, tap into your unique wisdom, and lead difficult conversations with both empathy and authority. Welcome to Heal Your Trauma Find Your Voice, a podcast for high-achieving, emotionally intelligent leaders who want to drop the pressure to be perfect and lead with clarity, confidence, and compassion.I’m your host, Dr. Annie Campanile, trauma-informed executive coach, PhD, MBA, and former healthcare leader with 25+ years of experience helping executives navigate high-stakes leadership without losing themselves.In each episode, I share real stories, evidence-based tools, and practical insights to help you: Build unshakable self-trustLead with calm, grounded executive presenceNavigate conflict and repair relationships with confidenceBecause when you lead from your full, wise self—free from fear and self-doubt—you become the kind of leader others respect, trust, and want to follow - the kind you always hoped you could be. Together, we’ll explore simple yet powerful, actionable steps you can take to resolve fight - flight - freeze - fawn survival response, communicate with confidence, and create relationships that truly uplift you - at work, at home, and in every aspect of your life. Click PLAY, and start finding your voice - today!

  1. 5D AGO

    Breakdown to Breakthrough: Reclaiming Yourself in Leadership

    Do you ever try so hard to get it right - only to feel like it’s never enough? Do you look outside yourself for answers, believing that others know better than you - even though you’re smart and capable? In this deeply personal episode of Heal Your Trauma, Find Your Voice, trauma-informed executive coach Dr. Annie Campanile shares the story of an emotional breakdown that became a professional breakthrough.  What started as a moment of overwhelm while folding laundry became a wake-up call to slow down, listen inward, and reconnect with her true self. You’ll learn: The unexpected metaphor that helped Dr. Annie reconnect with herself (hint: it involves slime!)Why self-doubt and burnout might be signs you’re ignoring your own wisdomHow over-consumption of advice and strategy can slow your progressA behind-the-scenes decision to slow down production of this podcastA loving reminder that real leadership starts with how you care for youWhether you lead a team or simply lead yourself, this episode will speak to your heart if you’ve been striving, pushing yourself, and feeling like something's got to give. If this episode resonates with you, share it with a friend — or leave a review to let Dr. Annie know how it landed. Want to receive coaching live on the show? Click here to send me a message. Support the show Love this show? Say thanks with a 5 star rating or leaving a positive review. Want more help leading a team that gets along—and gets results? Apply for on-air coaching here (spots are limited). More Resources for You: Get The Empowered Feedback Toolkit for easy-to-follow, step-by-step guidance so you can speak clearly and confidently—especially during tough conversations. Explore Dr. Annie's Executive Coaching Program. Download your free guide: Trauma Survivors Empowerment Guide Connect with Dr. Annie online: LINKEDIN | INSTAGRAM | WEBSITE 2025 ©Annie Campanile, PhD

    12 min
  2. JUN 4

    What No One Tells You About Healthy Boundaries at Work

    You told yourself you’d stop checking email after dinner…But somehow, it’s 11pm again, and your laptop is still open. If you’re a high-achieving leader who wants to set healthy boundaries at work, but you keep getting pulled back in out of fear you’ll drop the ball, this episode is for you. We’re talking about what’s really behind the late-night work cycle, and why most leadership advice about work/life balance completely misses the mark. You’ll hear the story of an executive coaching client who went from anxiety and overworking to clear, confident boundaries, and how a simple body-based practice helped her rebuild self-trust without rigid rules. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why discipline isn’t your problem—and what isThe deeper reason high performers break their own boundariesWhat healthy boundaries actually look like when you’re responsible for resultsHow to reset your nervous system with the Sunshine ExerciseA simple self-reflection question to guide your next boundary decisionThis isn’t about doing less. It’s about leading from self-trust and self-connection—not fear or survival mode. Other episodes & topics mentioned: Can't Relax after Work? Let's Fix That! Rigid Boundaries at Work Open Boundaries at Work Want to receive coaching live on the show? Click here to send me a message. Support the show Love this show? Say thanks with a 5 star rating or leaving a positive review. Want more help leading a team that gets along—and gets results? Apply for on-air coaching here (spots are limited). More Resources for You: Get The Empowered Feedback Toolkit for easy-to-follow, step-by-step guidance so you can speak clearly and confidently—especially during tough conversations. Explore Dr. Annie's Executive Coaching Program. Download your free guide: Trauma Survivors Empowerment Guide Connect with Dr. Annie online: LINKEDIN | INSTAGRAM | WEBSITE 2025 ©Annie Campanile, PhD

    12 min
  3. MAY 28

    When Boundaries Are Too Flexible at Work: Shut Down Gossip Without Breaking Trust

    You’re spending more time mediating team drama than leading your team—and it’s exhausting. One person is constantly checking up on their coworkers, calling out unfinished tasks, and stressing over work that’s not even theirs. Meanwhile, the rest of your team is walking on eggshells to avoid the next emotional outburst. If you’ve ever had a team member who means well but ends up creating tension, today’s episode is for you. I’m diving into what’s really behind this behavior (hint: it’s not just about control), and I’ll walk you through a real-life example of how one of my clients used a simple, 3-step strategy called the Connection Bridge to reset expectations and calm the chaos—without shaming anyone or triggering more drama. You’ll learn: What “open boundaries” look like in the workplaceWhy well-meaning employees sometimes take on too muchHow to set clear, kind boundaries that protect your team’s cultureWhat to say exactly when someone’s behavior is crossing the lineIf you’re tired of team members policing each other and just want everyone to do their job without the drama, this episode will show you how to lead with both strength and sensitivity. 🎧 Press play to learn how to shift your team dynamic and lead with clarity (and peace). ✨ Resources mentioned: Free Empowerment GuideDM me on Instagram @dranniecampanile if you'd like to be coached live on the show!Listen to episode 7 for more on Velcro TrustListen to episode 19 for more on The Connection BridgeWant to receive coaching live on the show? Click here to send me a message. Support the show Love this show? Say thanks with a 5 star rating or leaving a positive review. Want more help leading a team that gets along—and gets results? Apply for on-air coaching here (spots are limited). More Resources for You: Get The Empowered Feedback Toolkit for easy-to-follow, step-by-step guidance so you can speak clearly and confidently—especially during tough conversations. Explore Dr. Annie's Executive Coaching Program. Download your free guide: Trauma Survivors Empowerment Guide Connect with Dr. Annie online: LINKEDIN | INSTAGRAM | WEBSITE 2025 ©Annie Campanile, PhD

    13 min
  4. MAY 21

    When Boundaries are Too Rigid at Work: How to Reopen Communication Without Overstepping

    Have you ever had a team member suddenly go silent... stop replying to your messages... or even quit without warning? In high-performing teams, breakdowns in communication can happen fast—and when they do, it’s tempting to either ignore it or push for answers. But what if the silence isn’t defiance... but a sign of Cactus Trust—a trauma-informed response that shuts others out to feel safe? In this episode, I’m kicking off a powerful 3-part series on boundaries in professional relationships, starting with rigid boundaries—the kind that block progress, stall collaboration, and leave leaders stuck. You’ll hear a real coaching story about a senior leader navigating a silent, withdrawn team member—and how a simple 3-step tool called the Connection Bridge helped re-open communication without overstepping. 💡 After Listening You'll Learn: Why some team members shut down in response to feedback or tensionA 3-step process to re-open communication gently and clearlyHow to lead with compassion and structure, even when a team member won’t talk 🛠️ Try This Week’s Practice: Use The Connection Bridge with a team member who's pulled away: Name what you’re seeing Offer one structural adjustment Ask one yes/no question to reopen the door 🔗 Links + Resources Mentioned: Listen to Episode 8 on Cactus TrustListen to Episode 17 When a Doctor built healthier boundaries✨ Next Week’s Topic: We’ll unpack loose boundaries—when team members overshare, say yes to everything, or blur the lines. I’ll show you how to stay grounded and set kind, clear expectations. Want to receive coaching live on the show? Click here to send me a message. Support the show Love this show? Say thanks with a 5 star rating or leaving a positive review. Want more help leading a team that gets along—and gets results? Apply for on-air coaching here (spots are limited). More Resources for You: Get The Empowered Feedback Toolkit for easy-to-follow, step-by-step guidance so you can speak clearly and confidently—especially during tough conversations. Explore Dr. Annie's Executive Coaching Program. Download your free guide: Trauma Survivors Empowerment Guide Connect with Dr. Annie online: LINKEDIN | INSTAGRAM | WEBSITE 2025 ©Annie Campanile, PhD

    9 min
  5. MAY 14

    The Unexpected Cure for Burnout (You Can Do in 10 Seconds)

    Ever wonder, "How much longer can I keep giving like this before I burn out?" If you're a high-achieving leader in healthcare or another high-pressure space, this episode is your breath of fresh air. This week on the show, trauma-informed executive coach Dr. Annie Campanile shares a surprising, fun story about a silent moment of human connection—and how it unlocked a healing practice she now teaches to leaders across the country. 🌞 You’ll discover: Why high performers often feel the most disconnected (and what to do about it)A 3-step practice you can do in under 10 seconds to feel more grounded and presentHow to connect deeply with others—without saying a word or needing more timeThe surprising neuroscience behind this “sunshine” techniqueWhy genuine warmth (not grit) is your greatest leadership assetWhether you're leading a team, managing a household, or navigating personal healing, this episode reminds you: meaningful connection is always available—and doesn’t have to come at your expense. Try the “Sunshine Exercise” this week and tag us @DrAnnieCampanile to share your experience! 👉 Resources Mentioned: Free Empowerment Guide: AnnieCampanile.comListen to Episode 14 for the original “Sunshine Exercise” Want to receive coaching live on the show? Click here to send me a message. Support the show Love this show? Say thanks with a 5 star rating or leaving a positive review. Want more help leading a team that gets along—and gets results? Apply for on-air coaching here (spots are limited). More Resources for You: Get The Empowered Feedback Toolkit for easy-to-follow, step-by-step guidance so you can speak clearly and confidently—especially during tough conversations. Explore Dr. Annie's Executive Coaching Program. Download your free guide: Trauma Survivors Empowerment Guide Connect with Dr. Annie online: LINKEDIN | INSTAGRAM | WEBSITE 2025 ©Annie Campanile, PhD

    11 min
  6. MAY 7

    Always on Edge at Work? Do This to Get Out of Survival Mode Fast

    Feel like you're constantly bracing for conflict at work? This episode reveals a simple nervous system reset to help you stay grounded, speak clearly, and break free from the fight response—before it damages your relationships or your career. Have you ever walked into work already bracing for a fight? Maybe your jaw clenches before anyone even says a word. Maybe you anticipate conversations, imagining how you’ll defend yourself. Here’s what most people don’t realize: that “on edge” feeling might not be about the current moment. It might be your nervous system, stuck in survival mode. In this episode, I’ll share the story of a physician whose fight response nearly cost him his job—and the simple reset that helped him reclaim his calm, his voice, and his career. You’ll learn: Why fight mode isn't a personality flaw (and how to spot it in yourself)A quick body-based reset you can use anytime, anywhereWhy trying to "stay calm" doesn’t work—and what doesHow to speak with strength, not survivalThis one’s for you if: You care deeply. You work in a high-pressure environment. You want to speak with clarity—not conflict—even when the pressure is on. Want to receive coaching live on the show? Click here to send me a message. Support the show Love this show? Say thanks with a 5 star rating or leaving a positive review. Want more help leading a team that gets along—and gets results? Apply for on-air coaching here (spots are limited). More Resources for You: Get The Empowered Feedback Toolkit for easy-to-follow, step-by-step guidance so you can speak clearly and confidently—especially during tough conversations. Explore Dr. Annie's Executive Coaching Program. Download your free guide: Trauma Survivors Empowerment Guide Connect with Dr. Annie online: LINKEDIN | INSTAGRAM | WEBSITE 2025 ©Annie Campanile, PhD

    10 min
  7. APR 30

    How to Stop Overworking without Risking Your Career

    Is your work ethic secretly working against you? When you're the person everyone relies on, it can feel impossible to say No — especially when it feels like your career, reputation, or relationships are on the line. You take pride in being dependable and driven. But when that strength turns into an unspoken agreement to always do more, it can leave you overworked, under-appreciated, and resentful. If you're tired of feeling stretched too thin — and ready to stop being the "go-to" person for everyone else’s workload — this episode is your turning point. I’m sharing The Power Shift, a simple yet powerful technique to help you: Recognize when your work ethic is being used against youSet boundaries without guilt, fear, or confrontationReclaim your time, energy, and confidence — without risking your career Try The Power Shift Today: Ask yourself these two transformational questions: Where have I been using my power to avoid conflict?How can I use that same power to take care of myself instead?The Power Shift can create big results, but knowing how to apply it is key. 🎧 Tune in to hear how my client Lisa used this exact practice to break free from years of being overworked and undervalued, and how you can start doing the same thing. In This Episode, You’ll Discover: ✅ The hidden reason you keep getting more work (and how to change it)  ✅ Why high-achievers and people pleasers struggle to set boundaries — especially after trauma  ✅ How to shift from feeling trapped to empowered using two simple questions  ✅ How to protect your wellbeing and your professional reputation without conflict Want More Support? Download your FREE Trauma Survivors Empowerment Guide — packed with practical tools to reduce anxiety, speak up with confidence, and set boundaries that feel good. 👉 Grab it here https://www.anniecampanile.com/sensitivity-into-strength Next Week: We’re exposing what happens when workplace stress flips from people-pleasing to fight mode — and how to use your voice without turning every conversation into a battle. Don’t miss it! Want to receive coaching live on the show? Click here to send me a message. Support the show Love this show? Say thanks with a 5 star rating or leaving a positive review. Want more help leading a team that gets along—and gets results? Apply for on-air coaching here (spots are limited). More Resources for You: Get The Empowered Feedback Toolkit for easy-to-follow, step-by-step guidance so you can speak clearly and confidently—especially during tough conversations. Explore Dr. Annie's Executive Coaching Program. Download your free guide: Trauma Survivors Empowerment Guide Connect with Dr. Annie online: LINKEDIN | INSTAGRAM | WEBSITE 2025 ©Annie Campanile, PhD

    9 min
  8. APR 23

    You're Smart, Successful and Still Doubting Yourself — Here's Your Solution | Ally McLean, NP

    Imposter syndrome doesn’t always show up as "I'm a fraud!" — sometimes it’s the quiet voice that wonders, “Do I actually know what I’m doing?” In this episode, we’re unpacking the hidden ways imposter syndrome lingers, even in people with years of experience and real results behind them.  Whether you’re starting something new, stepping into leadership, or simply trying to trust yourself more deeply, this is the episode that will help you breathe easier, speak up, and move forward with confidence. 💡 In this episode, you’ll learn: What imposter syndrome really sounds like (it’s sneakier than you think)Why smart, capable people still question their worthThe mindset shift that breaks the cycle of self-doubtHow to overcome imposter syndrome and own your expertiseA real story that will help you feel seen, validated, and empowered🧠 Favorite Quote: “I don’t know everything. But I do know what I know.” Other Episode Mentioned: Pause Before You Please: How to Say Yes on Your Terms 💬 If this episode spoke to you, do me a favor: ✔ Tap those 5 stars ✔ Share it with a friend who struggles with self-doubt ✔ Subscribe or Follow so you never miss and episode Want to receive coaching live on the show? Click here to send me a message. Support the show Love this show? Say thanks with a 5 star rating or leaving a positive review. Want more help leading a team that gets along—and gets results? Apply for on-air coaching here (spots are limited). More Resources for You: Get The Empowered Feedback Toolkit for easy-to-follow, step-by-step guidance so you can speak clearly and confidently—especially during tough conversations. Explore Dr. Annie's Executive Coaching Program. Download your free guide: Trauma Survivors Empowerment Guide Connect with Dr. Annie online: LINKEDIN | INSTAGRAM | WEBSITE 2025 ©Annie Campanile, PhD

    8 min

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Are you a high-achieving leader, tired of the self-doubt, sleepless nights, and the knot in your stomach before every difficult conversation? No matter how accomplished you are, does that inner critic still whisper, “You’re not doing enough”?I’ve been there, and I can’t wait to share a new way forward: one where you trust yourself fully, tap into your unique wisdom, and lead difficult conversations with both empathy and authority. Welcome to Heal Your Trauma Find Your Voice, a podcast for high-achieving, emotionally intelligent leaders who want to drop the pressure to be perfect and lead with clarity, confidence, and compassion.I’m your host, Dr. Annie Campanile, trauma-informed executive coach, PhD, MBA, and former healthcare leader with 25+ years of experience helping executives navigate high-stakes leadership without losing themselves.In each episode, I share real stories, evidence-based tools, and practical insights to help you: Build unshakable self-trustLead with calm, grounded executive presenceNavigate conflict and repair relationships with confidenceBecause when you lead from your full, wise self—free from fear and self-doubt—you become the kind of leader others respect, trust, and want to follow - the kind you always hoped you could be. Together, we’ll explore simple yet powerful, actionable steps you can take to resolve fight - flight - freeze - fawn survival response, communicate with confidence, and create relationships that truly uplift you - at work, at home, and in every aspect of your life. Click PLAY, and start finding your voice - today!

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