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Dee Tozer is a psychologist turned couples coach with over 33 years of experience. Dee shares her wisdom on the "disapproval effect" in relationships, highlighting key pivot points where breakdowns occur due to people's unawareness and lack of knowledge. Tune in to gain insights on navigating disapproval and creating a deeper love in your own life.



Golden Nuggets From This Episode:

✨ “A relationship can't thrive with disapproval.”

✨ ”The secret of a good relationship is asking the right questions.”

✨ ”In the moment of crisis, do the best to soothe and settle it.”

✨ ”Men are on the receiving end of the majority of criticism in couples.”

✨ ”You will never, ever go wrong by allowing the other person to be right, unless it's life or death.”

✨ ”Be patient and tolerant, this day and age doesn't give us a lot of.”

✨ ”It's a really good lead in to start with shame because shame, we feel shame because we are rejected.”

✨ "I think we all can take responsibility in some way, even if we weren't the one doing the act."

✨ "It's a long lifetime ahead of shaping, reshaping men, boys to men to be able to say what they want to say."

✨ "Remember that every single person just wants to be loved."



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IG: @couples_master_coach

LinkedIn: www.LinkedIn.com/in/dee-tozer-couples-master-coach

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YouTube: https://youtube.com/@DeeTozer-Couples-Master-



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Timestamps from episode:


01:59 The effect of disapproval
05:32 Disapproval and rejection
09:25 Wedding night gone wrong
12:25 Nipping disapproval in the bud
15:32 Communication and conflict resolution
19:38 Framing up effective communication
23:41 Giving up on relationships
26:49 Conscious coupling and relationship dynamics
30:57 Rebuilding trust after betrayal
35:06 Couples repairing after infidelity
35:15 Retreat Ad
38:07 A crazy story during lockdowns
42:57 Changing perception in relationships
45:18 Shifting perspectives in communication
49:02 Toothbrush storage solutions
52:40 Seaweed for a ring


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In this episode, we are joined by Luci Lampe, a beautiful inspiration of love and embodiment. Luci shares her journey of wild feminine embodiment, sexual liberation, and healing, as well as her experience with her husband's depression and disability. She also discusses her own autoimmune disorder and the transformative season it led to. Luci is an open book and dives into topics such as spirituality, sexuality, relationships, and the wild woman.



Golden Nuggets From This Episode:

✨ "That practice was really the place where I learned how to receive love and feel pleasure for the sake of pleasure without an agenda, even without even having to make orgasm a goal."
✨ "This is my ritual or making it ceremonial, making it a devotional. Worshipful act."
✨ "Wise, incredible, self-aware teenage girls that do not settle for less than what they are worth."
✨ "What we have learned is that the most important thing is to leave space for the miracle to happen."
✨ "So it's really being a big girl, pulling up your bigger pants and being like, you know what? It's not, I fucked up."
✨ "You really see me and you accept me."
✨ "There's so much possibility in those little tender after moments and that afterglow to expand on the pleasure."
✨ "There's also this unattachment to needing to cling on to something."
✨ "It is feeling that deep care, that somewhat, that thoughtfulness that like, oh, I saw this and I thought of you, or I think you'd enjoy this and really nurturing each other's hearts."
✨ "Embody them in a way that serves the truth, that serves love, that serves union and harmony and unity, it is so powerful."
✨ "It's so beautiful when you do surrender to the wave and it brings you and you just ride with it and then you always end up in a spot for me when I fully surrender to it and it plays a piece at the other end."



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Website: https://lucilampe.com/



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Timestamps from episode:


00:43 Love, embodiment, and spirituality with Lexi Davis and Lucy Lampi
02:44 Sexual liberation and self-pleasure
07:32 Feminine energy, devotion, and healing
13:06 Parenting, family dynamics, and healing generational trauma
16:14 Navigating conflict and acceptance in a long-term relationship
21:33 Healing inner child wounds in a relationship
27:22 Deepening intimacy and sexual connection in a long-term relationship
30:49 Retread Ad
32:13 Surprising Pleasure and Exploration in Relationships
36:04 Safe and Connected Sexual Relationships
39:06 Staying Connected and Divine Union
45:52 Creating True Love and Lasting Relationships
55:40 Exploring Dark Goddesses With Love


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Alison Armstrong’s exploration of human behavior began in 1991 with a decision to find out what brings out the best and worst in men. This naturally led to studying women’s behavior and making vital connections between the two. She then delves into her study of men, sparked by a comment made about her friend. Allison explores her initial assumptions about men and how they have been constantly surprised by their complexity. Tune in to discover more about Alison's fascinating exploration of who these people are.



Golden Nuggets From This Episode:

✨ "I wanted to find out what I was doing that was bringing out the worst in men."

✨ "We think of them as a hairy, dysfunctional, emotionally cut off, misbehaving woman who's in need of training and education and discipline and punishment."

✨ "If you took it for granted, it would tell me that you know who I am."

✨ "Watching television deserves to be interrupted at all times."

✨ "They're taking all their years of experience, all their successes and failures, all their assessments of who we are and what really matters to us."

✨ "Their survival depends upon being productive and their productivity depends on being trusted and respected."

✨ "If we can't give each other what we need to give and what we need to get. If we can't do that, it's never going to turn out."



Connect More with Alison:

IG: instagram.com/TheAlisonArmstrong

Website: alisonarmstrong.com

Facebook: facebook.com/understandmen



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Timestamps from episode:


03:17 Men talking about women
04:25 Random acts of kindness
11:09 Divorce and parental influence
15:18 Bringing out the worst in men
22:16 Withholding accountability and appreciation
24:32 Single focus and productivity
30:09 Couples with different languages
34:12 Honoring each other's reality
34:40 Retreat Ad
40:09 Why you can't trust men to tell the truth
42:09 How Women Teach Honest Men It's Not Worth It
49:41 Disastrous conversations turned amazing
51:36 How to become a woman that a man wants to marry


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In this solo episode, Lexy shares the reality of divine love and why most people don’t experience it. A love so grand, requires you to completely surrender to the unknown and feel everything. It’s going to blossom into the most magical and abundant environment for endless creation and yet it will be a journey along the way. She believe it’s worth everything and yet most people fear it, because how vulnerable and risky putting your heart on the line is in divine union. Lexy Davis is a love embodiment coach who helps people create relationships that feel like home! She believes everyone can have partnerships that are filled with romance, safety and so much joy :) Tune in to hear how to find this kind of love and how to navigate it.



Golden Nuggets From This Episode:

✨ "Healthy love is one of the most courageous and biggest risks of our life and how easy it is to be in a relationship that's not gonna last forever."

✨ "Conflict is a portal for deep intimacy."

✨ "Love is an endless flow, my loves. It is whoosh like a waterfall."

✨ "It makes me so sad how the smallest portion of men are actually being loved in the ways that they need to be loved, but we treat men like women and we just don't understand them."

✨ "I only attract amazing, incredible men."

✨ "Having an open heart sounds all cute and fun but in reality it's fucking crying on the floor hyperventilating sitting in a puddle of your tears and also the highest states of bliss."

✨ "Love is a co-creation of infinite magic when there's two people harmonized together and the way that your whole life will shift and the amount of abundance that will come in and the way you two come together can co-create so much more than you could have done on your own. Yes you can do so much on your own but two people coming together is the most powerful thing"

✨ "Love is not something you get to control."

✨ "I'm willing to feel all of that because I am willing to receive the greatest love of this lifetime."



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Timestamps from episode:


01:02 Dark night of the soul
06:03 The risk of surrendering to love
10:39 Trusting your intuition in dating
13:33 Trusting in divine timing
16:06 Conflict as a portal for intimacy
19:27 Healthy love and boundaries
22:08 Retreat Ad
24:31 Relationship growth and satisfaction
27:01 Shifting dynamics and love techniques
30:15 Vulnerability and fear in love
34:30 Doubt in relationships
37:33 Twin flames and soulmates
42:28 Sexual intimacy and emotional safety
45:12 Receiving love and miracles


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In this episode, Lexy and guest Sophie Josefina discuss the power of masculine and feminine energies and how they impact various aspects of our lives. Sophie shares her expertise as a polarity teacher and explores the role of these energies within ourselves, relationships, and even in our businesses and connection to the universe. Tune in to gain insight into remembering the humanness of your lover. Also how to balance of masculine and feminine energies and discover how they can enhance your partnerships.



Golden Nuggets From This Episode:
✨ "I wish I could have told younger me that she was a little trailblazer."
✨ "Nobody's entitled to your radiance."
✨ "I received so much pleasure and so much joy from being devotional."
✨ "A lot of us are getting sucked into the need to be better, need to fix this, need to be perfect, need to grow more until I can find love. It's capitalism in the self-development world."
✨ "Vulnerability is really the antidote to probably everything that comes up in relationship."
✨ "That is his nervous system taking care of his nervous system and it will look different than yours."
✨ "I just have to take care of myself so that I can also come back with more of me for you."
✨ "This is actually the gift, because when we allow the desire for more to happen without the collapse of the disappointment, that's when we actually break open to God."
✨ "I always believe that life is just cracking us open more and more."
✨ "Eventually you want a relationship with humans, not with the king."
✨ "I feel like so many women carry so much resentment towards the man of, you know, I'm his mother."
✨ "I need you to tell me every day that you've got me and that you see me and that you respect me, and then I'm freaking good at what I do."



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Website: www.sophiejosephina.com



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Timestamps from episode:


03:38 Sex and relationships advice
03:48 Sexuality and societal expectations
08:00 Femininity and receiving
11:23 Spoiling your man
15:05 Feminine archetypes and relationships
19:33 Fixing attachment styles
24:11 True vulnerability and emotions
26:28 Masculine and feminine digest differently
30:04 Avoidant and Anxious Attachment Styles
34:00 Retreat Ad
35:23 Longing and finding God
37:58 Providership and oracles
41:37 Respecting men and their wisdom
44:09 Understanding relationship dynamics
48:41 Mother vs. Lover dynamics
53:20 Releasing expectations in relationships
55:44 The importance of letting him free
1:01:05 Romantic moments and memories


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In this episode of Heart Snuggles, Lexy spoke with Maria Marshall CEO and Founder of Gaia Goddess, a global online and in-person female empowerment community. Maria shares her own journey through the "dark night of the soul" and how it inspired her to create a platform for women to empower themselves. She believes that everyone has the power to heal themselves and doesn't need gurus. Maria emphasizes the importance of tools, resources, and support in the healing process. Despite the challenges and discomfort, she believes that the journey is well worth it, as it allows individuals to rewrite their own narratives and create a better future. Tune in to hear more about Maria's inspiring movement and how it can transform lives.



Golden Nuggets From This Episode:

✨ "I really believe and know that we are all our own healers, that we don't need gurus in this modern day."
✨ "Being willing to look at everything in your closet, those skeletons in your closet, even though some of them you're like, I don't like knowing that."
✨ “I don't get an award for having more crap to transmute than the next person."
✨ "Goddess extraordinaire, and I don't mean this about myself, I mean about the business, about every woman."
✨ "While somebody's stabbing you in the back, you can still forgive."
✨ "Your intuition is never going to lie to you."
✨ "It's a collective prayer to our Yonis and to the womb of like, Thank you so much for this powerful portal of creation. Not only do we create life through there, but it is one of our creative centers. We birth our projects. We birth our businesses."
✨ "Jesus wasn't Jesus until he met Mary."
✨ "These energies of love and gratitude in the morning and at night really do shift us if we make it a practice."
✨ "It's everything because when you love yourself you don't care what people think about you when you love yourself."
✨ "It was like, forge forward sister, because we just made a rainbow for you to show you how powerful we are, and that we see you, and that we support you, and that you are a magic maker."



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IG: @gaiagoddesslifestyle

Website: https://gaiagoddesslifestyle.com/

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Timestamps from episode:


02:01 Dark Night of the Soul
04:13 Play and excitement
08:20 Resentment towards my mother
12:25 Spiritually bypass and personal growth
17:23 Divine Feminine Power
20:32 Developing a relationship with intuition
24:30 Developing intuition and trust
27:26 Trusting your intuition
32:26 Retreat Ad
34:27 Gaia's branding colors
38:47 The womb and Yoni steaming
39:26 Yoni steaming and empowerment
42:44 Finding the right seat
47:30 Self-love and motherhood
50:26 Becoming a balanced parent
54:20 Virtual sanctuaries and abundance
59:25 A magical rainbow appears
02:07 Vision board and synchronicity
1:07:30 Every single person wants love


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