Her Becoming with Dara Koenig

Dara Koenig

Dara Koenig is an executive coach, writer, and leadership voice focused on identity, integrity, and influence. Through interviews, reflections, and conversations with women building their lives and leadership in real time, Dara explores what it means to grow with courage, faith, and disciplined movement. Her Becoming is a conversation series highlighting women who are still building — not just the stories from the finish line. Because becoming doesn’t happen all at once. It happens one step at a time. Pardon our dust.

Episodes

  1. Identity, Belief, and the Confidence You Didn’t Realize You Had

    Apr 20

    Identity, Belief, and the Confidence You Didn’t Realize You Had

    Some conversations don’t end when the recording stops. This was one of them. In this episode of Her Becoming, I sit down with Meshell Baker, Chief Confidence Igniter, for a conversation that moves far beyond the surface of confidence and into the deeper work of identity, belief, and becoming. Meshell shares her journey from early identity struggles and seasons of shame to building a life rooted in intentional growth, and challenges the way we often think about confidence. Not as something you either have or don’t have, but as something you are already using every single day. Because the truth is, you are already confident in something. The question is what you are confident in, and whether that belief is working for you or against you. We talk about the difference between chasing goals and defining vision, how identity shapes leadership, and what it looks like to build a life that is aligned with who you are becoming, not just what you are accomplishing. This conversation is honest, grounded, and deeply practical. It speaks to the woman who knows she is meant for more, but feels stuck in the space between where she is and where she wants to be. In This Episode, We Cover: What confidence really is, and why it’s often misunderstoodHow identity is formed and why it matters more than you thinkThe difference between goals and vision, and why one leaves you emptyWhat leadership looks like when it’s rooted in identitySimple, daily practices that support long-term becoming If that’s you, this episode will meet you there. Links & Resources Read the full Her Becoming article: https://darakoenig.com/post/her-becoming-meshell-baker Connect with Meshell Baker: meshellrbaker.com 📥 MASTER Your Mornings https://resources.meshellbaker.com/masteryourmornings 🎶 2-Minute Tibetan Bowls https://youtu.be/Ih-rtou1PTc?si=dc9530OiXW3oYZVk 🌬️ 2-Minute Box Breathing Guided https://youtu.be/J8WFgoeKStI?si=G-8KO92Ep2RsZ5xu

    50 min

About

Dara Koenig is an executive coach, writer, and leadership voice focused on identity, integrity, and influence. Through interviews, reflections, and conversations with women building their lives and leadership in real time, Dara explores what it means to grow with courage, faith, and disciplined movement. Her Becoming is a conversation series highlighting women who are still building — not just the stories from the finish line. Because becoming doesn’t happen all at once. It happens one step at a time. Pardon our dust.