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How to Be a Girl is an audio podcast I produce about life with my six-year-old transgender daughter. It stars the two of us -- a single mom and a six-year-old "girl with a penis" -- as we attempt together to sort out just what it means to be a girl.

How to Be a Girl The Heard

    • Kids & Family
    • 4.8 • 972 Ratings

How to Be a Girl is an audio podcast I produce about life with my six-year-old transgender daughter. It stars the two of us -- a single mom and a six-year-old "girl with a penis" -- as we attempt together to sort out just what it means to be a girl.

    The Medical Stuff

    The Medical Stuff

    For years, people have asked me what I would do when my daughter hit puberty. Was I going to let her do... the "medical stuff?" Well, right after the pandemic struck, so did puberty. And this is what my daughter (and her mother) decided to do.

    • 42 min
    Episode XXXI: M is for Middle School, Take Two

    Episode XXXI: M is for Middle School, Take Two

    This episode is different from any of our previous episodes. It’s also a do-over, because the first version of this episode overlooked the fact that my daughter is growing up, fast. She’s almost a teenager, and we both agree that it’s time she took charge. So that’s what she did. (Here’s a little more about how this episode came to be.)




















































    Listen to the book! How to Be a Girl on Audible Originals
    Find us on Twitter: @girlpodcast
    Support HTBAG on Patreon
    MUSIC CREDITS:
    “Edge of the World” (Instrumental) by Dot Dot Dot (Courtesy of Audiosocket)
    Filesharer's Lament by Podington Bear

    Episode XXX: Emma at last

    Episode XXX: Emma at last

    I want you to meet my good friend, Emma. When she was a little girl, she was just like my daughter. But no one knew her for 60 years. I'm so glad she's here now.

    Episode XXIX: Eleven

    Episode XXIX: Eleven

    I sit down for a talk with my (almost) 11-year-old: Cliques, gossip, fashion, puberty, and how it feels to be a transgender tween.
    MUSIC CREDIT: “Little Girl” by Jetty Rae (Courtesy of Audiosocket)

    Episode XXVIII: The Tell

    Episode XXVIII: The Tell

    A new friend at school. A poker lesson. A 10-year-old hatches a plan.
    MUSIC CREDITS:
    “Ganef” by Vagabond Opera and “Moonlight Love Affair” by Steve Rice (Courtesy of Audiosocket)
    “Chill Wave” by Kevin MacLeod
    “The Reckoning” by Podington Bear
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    Episode XXVII: Playdates with Christians

    Episode XXVII: Playdates with Christians

    Are the new next-door neighbors going to let their daughters play with mine if they find out she's transgender? To attempt to answer this question, I seek expert advice from a new friend in the Bible Belt.
    MUSIC CREDITS:
    “Morning” by Nicole Reynolds, “Shall We Gather at the River” by Pat Holmberg, “Amazing Grace Solo Piano” by Lana Palmer (Courtesy of Audiosocket)
    "Canoe" by Podington Bear
    "Amazing Grace," piano and vocals by Miss M. Mack
    Please consider supporting us on Patreon. It really helps keep this podcast going!

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
972 Ratings

972 Ratings

Haily D ,

This Podcast is Amazing!

How to be a girl shows that you can be who you want, boy, girl, or non binary. Don't listen to the haters and keep going! Much love, Hailey (3

🏳️‍🌈hairbrush🏳️‍🌈 ,

:)

this makes me so happy! im transmasc and i think your podcast id awesome! don't listen to the haters, i'll bite them

lulublue72 ,

Thank you.

I was so excited to see there was a new episode! Thank you to you and your daughter for sharing your story to the world. I’m guessing the older she gets, the less she’ll want to share (which makes sense) but I hope you are all doing wonderfully!

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