30 min

How to Complete Household Projects Without Eroding Your Marriage - EP206 Destined To Be

    • Self-Improvement

Running a household includes childcare, cleaning, cooking, home maintenance, and more.
But each of us brings different skill levels and our own frustrations to these projects when they don't proceed as we expect.
So how can we set aside our reactive behaviors in order to see our household projects through to completion?
On this episode of Destined to Be, we'll walk you through how our old stories come up when we work on projects, causing overwhelm that can be bigger than the task at hand. Plus, how your self-criticalness and perfectionism tendencies can trigger your partner's negative energy.
We'll talk about how to recognize and avoid your triggers, so you and your partner can sidestep the common conflicts when completing household honey-do lists. 
Listen in for some strategies to avoid overwhelm, stop the arguing, lighten the mood, and apply Rule 62, so you and your partner can successfully complete your couple's DIY projects.
Are you ready for a more meaningful partnership with your significant other? We have a limited number of spaces in our couple's mastermind coming in October. Reach out to Jeremiah, or Mallory for an application TODAY!
Key Takeaways How multi-tasking taxes the body's nervous system
Why frame of mind is everything when it comes to starting a project with your significant other
Why it's vital to know what triggers push you out of the zone of your tolerance
The different ways males and females respond during high-stress situations
How to use Rule 62 to give yourself a reality check during a challenging project
How to return to non-violent communication when things get elevated
How our over-critical nature and perfectionist tendencies trigger our partner's negative energies
Why an adult time-out is the key to tamping down conflict during couple’s DIY projects
How to set yourself up for success in projects that require immediate completion
Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory Destined to Be Podcast
Destined to Be on Instagram
Jeremiah on Instagram
Mallory on Instagram
Level Up Entourage Facebook Group
Text LEVEL UP to 586-600-8492
Resources Request an Application for the Fall Couple’s Mastermind
Review Destined To Be on Apple Podcasts

Running a household includes childcare, cleaning, cooking, home maintenance, and more.
But each of us brings different skill levels and our own frustrations to these projects when they don't proceed as we expect.
So how can we set aside our reactive behaviors in order to see our household projects through to completion?
On this episode of Destined to Be, we'll walk you through how our old stories come up when we work on projects, causing overwhelm that can be bigger than the task at hand. Plus, how your self-criticalness and perfectionism tendencies can trigger your partner's negative energy.
We'll talk about how to recognize and avoid your triggers, so you and your partner can sidestep the common conflicts when completing household honey-do lists. 
Listen in for some strategies to avoid overwhelm, stop the arguing, lighten the mood, and apply Rule 62, so you and your partner can successfully complete your couple's DIY projects.
Are you ready for a more meaningful partnership with your significant other? We have a limited number of spaces in our couple's mastermind coming in October. Reach out to Jeremiah, or Mallory for an application TODAY!
Key Takeaways How multi-tasking taxes the body's nervous system
Why frame of mind is everything when it comes to starting a project with your significant other
Why it's vital to know what triggers push you out of the zone of your tolerance
The different ways males and females respond during high-stress situations
How to use Rule 62 to give yourself a reality check during a challenging project
How to return to non-violent communication when things get elevated
How our over-critical nature and perfectionist tendencies trigger our partner's negative energies
Why an adult time-out is the key to tamping down conflict during couple’s DIY projects
How to set yourself up for success in projects that require immediate completion
Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory Destined to Be Podcast
Destined to Be on Instagram
Jeremiah on Instagram
Mallory on Instagram
Level Up Entourage Facebook Group
Text LEVEL UP to 586-600-8492
Resources Request an Application for the Fall Couple’s Mastermind
Review Destined To Be on Apple Podcasts

30 min