10 min

How to help a griever get back to living life RESILIENT PEOPLE

    • Personal Journals

This episode is a response to a Twitter post that I recently made that garnered a bit of attention.
I was remarking on how I was including a friend, who recently lost her husband, in my plans. Inviting her to play tennis, hang out and go out for dinner.
So many people replied with their own stories of living with grief and the alienation they encountered while others wrote about the ways in which they had included a griever in their vacations, dinners and making plans together.
The grievers had remarked on the typical "outreach" comments that they would hear as a way for others to feel as though they were helping. These are touched-on as well as examples of how they also felt acknowledged, loved and seen which allowed them to make steps to move forward from their loss.
This episode is with Janet Fanaki, a widow for over three years and the host of the RESILIENT PEOPLE podcast.

This episode is a response to a Twitter post that I recently made that garnered a bit of attention.
I was remarking on how I was including a friend, who recently lost her husband, in my plans. Inviting her to play tennis, hang out and go out for dinner.
So many people replied with their own stories of living with grief and the alienation they encountered while others wrote about the ways in which they had included a griever in their vacations, dinners and making plans together.
The grievers had remarked on the typical "outreach" comments that they would hear as a way for others to feel as though they were helping. These are touched-on as well as examples of how they also felt acknowledged, loved and seen which allowed them to make steps to move forward from their loss.
This episode is with Janet Fanaki, a widow for over three years and the host of the RESILIENT PEOPLE podcast.

10 min