how to kill past versions of yourself that no longer serve you

Some versions of you kept you safe. And some versions of you are now keeping you stuck. In this episode of Get In, You’re Driving, I talk about the fear of being a burden, the identities we build to survive, and what it actually takes to let go of versions of yourself that are hurting you — without betraying the parts that once protected you. Inspired by the Victoria Beckham documentary and the idea of “killing the WAG,” this episode explores two toxic stories I carried since childhood, the moment everything shifted, and a practical way to start outgrowing old identities with honesty and compassion. If you’ve ever struggled to receive help, felt defined by survival, or sensed you’re outgrowing who you used to be — this one’s for you. 📚 Essays That Go With This Episode 🔗 Killing the hyper-independent girl in me https://substack.com/@getinyouaredriving/p-179732536 🔗 The Medicine of Being Seen https://substack.com/inbox/post/180698331 🔗 Connect With Me 🚗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinyouaredriving/ 🚗 Website: https://www.getinyouaredriving.com/ 🚗 Substack: https://amariawholikestowrite.substack.com/ 🚗 YouTube:⁠ https://www.youtube.com/@getinyouaredriving⁠ 🚗 Email: maria@getinyouaredriving.com Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. I am not a licensed therapist, counselor, or medical professional, and nothing shared in this podcast should be considered professional advice. The content is based on my personal experiences, reflections, and insights. If you are struggling with mental health challenges or serious life issues, please seek guidance from a qualified professional.