24 episodes

Even Mormon couples get the "7-year itch", but what happens when (after 10 years) one of them decides to scratch that itch with a BDSM-style flogger? Hosts "Red" and "Blue" take you along for the ride as they continue their journey from being a straight-laced super-young, monogamous, Mormon married couple, to opening up their marriage to desires and experiences that were previously off limits. "How do you make that switch?", "What does that even look like?", "Why not just get divorced?" are a few of the questions Red and Blue answer in hopes to provide insight into their unconventional marriage dynamic that seems to work...surprisingly well.

To make matters even more interesting, Red & Blue also discuss how they choreograph their life around their two sons, as they strive to understand the needs of their younger son who has been diagnosed with high-functioning Autism, as well as keeping up with the needs of their older son who is seemingly too smart for his own good. As they talk it out, Red & Blue hope to share and discover new perspectives on their relationships, each other, and themselves. You may never see the world the same way again!

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Even Mormon couples get the "7-year itch", but what happens when (after 10 years) one of them decides to scratch that itch with a BDSM-style flogger? Hosts "Red" and "Blue" take you along for the ride as they continue their journey from being a straight-laced super-young, monogamous, Mormon married couple, to opening up their marriage to desires and experiences that were previously off limits. "How do you make that switch?", "What does that even look like?", "Why not just get divorced?" are a few of the questions Red and Blue answer in hopes to provide insight into their unconventional marriage dynamic that seems to work...surprisingly well.

To make matters even more interesting, Red & Blue also discuss how they choreograph their life around their two sons, as they strive to understand the needs of their younger son who has been diagnosed with high-functioning Autism, as well as keeping up with the needs of their older son who is seemingly too smart for his own good. As they talk it out, Red & Blue hope to share and discover new perspectives on their relationships, each other, and themselves. You may never see the world the same way again!

    HWMI 021 - Back in the Game

    HWMI 021 - Back in the Game

    Red & Blue are back for Season 2! No they didn't initially plan on making the previous episode a season finale, but with everything that's happened since it seemed like a good chapter marker as they dive headfirst into the the world of Open Marriage and Polyamory

    • 1 hr 9 min
    HWMI 020 - Flirting with Attraction

    HWMI 020 - Flirting with Attraction

    Red & Blue banter about flirty attraction, keeping sexual tension in the friend zone and the importance of feeling attractive. Red sings a bit, and Blue shares his epiphany toward submission. Blue shares his frustrations with his own "conventionally unattractive" physical traits, and kicks off his new self-evolutionary experiment/project by revealing his current goal: The manifestation of physical attraction through self-alignment and shifting of perspective. Red & Blue also discuss exclusivity, non-exclusivity, monogamy, non-monogamy, polyamory, and the tragedy of opportunities to connect that are left sitting on the table. Also, bad polygamy jokes vs acceptable polygamy jokes.

    • 53 min
    HWMI 019 - Dominance

    HWMI 019 - Dominance

    Red & Blue return (after surviving another Spooky Szn) to pick up where they left off in their BDSM discussion: Dominance. You may need to forget everything you think you know about BDSM Dominance (definitely forget most of what Hollywood taught you about dominance). Between Red's experience-based BDSM information, and Blue's attempts at linking it back to his outdoor adventures in the Boy Scouts, you may learn something new...or at least gain a weird new perspective on BDSM dominance...or maybe you'll just walk away with a really good app idea.

    • 58 min
    HWMI 018 - Spooky Storiez

    HWMI 018 - Spooky Storiez

    • 37 min
    HWMI 017 - How We've Made Spooky Muzic

    HWMI 017 - How We've Made Spooky Muzic

    Red & Blue PLAY THEIR OWN RECORDS!! In the thick of Spooky Szn, time is limited, resources are waning, but things are gettin' creepy. During his hunt for Spooky media, Blue dove into the archives of his hard drives and came across a bunch of the music he (and sometimes Red) have recorded over the years and decided to set aside the Spooky tracks for Red & Blue to listen to and share with the world. It's a bit of a cop-out, but it's also a lot of fun to hear the weird, hauntingly eerie music that Red & Blue made during their very early years of marriage. Not much has changed...still weird, still Spooky.

    **NOTE: Red is allowed to touch whatever she wants in the house. The Theremin is a proximity-based instrument that is played without touching it...

    ...Blue isn't a control freak. Blue is an over-thinker.

    • 56 min
    HWMI 016 - Spooky Szn

    HWMI 016 - Spooky Szn

    Blue gives a heads up regarding how chaotic it's going to be for the next few weeks. Don't worry! We're still releasing episodes, but they'll likely be a bit off the normal schedule that we barely stick to in the first place. Stick around to the end of this episode for a little surprise to kick off SPOOKY SEASON!!!

    • 6 min

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