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So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode will help you achieve lasting freedom from porn more quickly and permanently—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually healthy man of God.

Husband Material Drew Boa

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.9 • 72 Ratings

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode will help you achieve lasting freedom from porn more quickly and permanently—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually healthy man of God.

    Healing Mother Wounds (with Dan Hitz)

    Healing Mother Wounds (with Dan Hitz)

    What is a mother wound? How do you know if you have one? And how can mother wounds be healed? In this episode, Dan Hitz tells the story of his mother wounds, how they impacted his sexuality, and what the Lord has done to alleviate his anger, remove his self-hatred, and allow him to feel safe with women.

    Dan Hitz is the Executive Director of Reconciliation Ministries (a member of Restored Hope Network). Dan is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Michigan, a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional [CCTP], and has been trained in EMDR.

    You can email Dan at dhitz@recmin.org.

    Related resources by Dan Hitz:
    Overcoming the Mother Wound (article)
    When My Mother and Father Forsake Me (article)

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    • 52 min
    Theology of the Penis (with Jeremy Williamson)

    Theology of the Penis (with Jeremy Williamson)

    What is God's purpose for the penis? How does it reflect the image of God? And how can I reclaim the goodness of my penis? Join me and Jeremy Williamson for a candid conversation about God, men, and embodied brotherhood.

    Jeremy Williamson is a Pastoral Counselor at Restoration Counseling in Northern Colorado. Email Jeremy at jeremy@restorationcounselingnoco.com.

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    • 40 min
    Emotional Times And Seasons

    Emotional Times And Seasons

    Why are certain times of the day, week, or year more difficult? Because emotions fluctuate. In this episode, I'll help you prepare for emotionally difficult times and seasons so you can give yourself plenty of grace and space to process your emotions rather than turning to the pacifier of porn.

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    • 10 min
    Psychology And Spirituality (with Dr. Ken McGill)

    Psychology And Spirituality (with Dr. Ken McGill)

    How does psychology relate to spirituality? How does therapy relate to theology? Dr. Ken McGill is a Christ-centered clinician who has been answering these questions for decades. In this episode, Dr. Ken offers a perspective on sex addiction that is both clinical and compatible with Christianity.

    Dr. Ken McGill is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist with a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology. He is the author of Cultivating Love Book Series (this is a paid link): https://amzn.to/3hUNmlv Learn more about Dr. Ken at drkenmcgill.com.

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    • 31 min
    How To Measure Freedom From Porn (LIVE)

    How To Measure Freedom From Porn (LIVE)

    Measuring freedom from porn usually produces self-contempt or self-righteousness. How can we avoid these two pitfalls? Is there a better way? Yes, there is!

    In this episode, I'll share the 4 levels of freedom from porn, how to evaluate your sexual and emotional maturity and my #1 most meaningful measurement.

    Register my upcoming free live class, "How To Outgrow Porn," at outgrowporn.com!

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    • 46 min
    Porn As Re-Enactment Of Sexual Abuse (with Wendell Moss)

    Porn As Re-Enactment Of Sexual Abuse (with Wendell Moss)

    Why do we return to porn even though it harms us? What if we return to porn precisely because it harms us? The answer is often re-enactment. "Re-enactment (noun): the acting out of a past event." Therapist and licensed mental health counselor Wendell Moss tells the story how porn re-enacted sexual abuse from when he was a boy, and what happened when he was confronted by the fierce kindness of God.

    Wendell Moss teaches at The Seattle School of Theology & Psychology and The Allender Center. Although he is privileged and delighted to work with both men and women, Wendell loves to create contexts of healing for men, especially African American men. Contact Wendell here.

    Books and resources mentioned in this episode (these are paid links):
    To Be Told, by Dan Allender
    Healing The Wounded Heart, by Dan Allender
    The Cure, by John Lynch, Bruce McNichol and Bill Thrall
    Redeemed Sexuality, by Drew Boa
    Pure Desire, by Ted Roberts

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    • 57 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
72 Ratings

72 Ratings

cjnieset ,

Thank You Drew!!

So extremely thankful and grateful for your material and guests as you present us with amazing opportunities to learn and heal from our sexual brokenness. We are all at different stages and have different brokenness’s. Thank you Lord for Drew and all that he is doing to help us men heal from our sexual brokenness!!

OFM Brad ,

Exhausted by shame? Find freedom!

Drew’s Husband Material podcast, videos and group are true blessings. It is not just about stopping porn, it is really about learning about yourself. Understanding your story, and learning why the porn keeps coming in the first place. It is only through truly getting to know myself, my story, and learning God’s heart for me that I was able to find freedom from the shame! A huge gift to everyone and such an important step to really learning what it means to be husband material!

Grace and Peace be unto you ,

Great insightful podcast!

This podcast has helped change my life and shift the trajectory of who I was becoming as a man.

Drew’s insight in this podcast is one from a biblical perspective that helps to inspire men to pursue sexual wholeness. Through Husband Material, he encouraged me to take a deeper look at my experiences in life and reframe them. He is truly a man of valor and I encourage anyone who wants to grow and quit porn to take a listen!

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