227 episodes
Husband Material Drew Boa
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- Health & Fitness
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4.9 • 192 Ratings
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So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode will make it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.
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Experience Healing Through The Immanuel Approach (with Cathy Little and Melinda Wilson)
What is the Immanuel Approach? How can it help Christian men outgrow porn? Cathy Little and Melinda Wilson unpack this amazing way to change your brain and heal your heart through connecting with Jesus experientially. You'll also hear a refreshing reminder of how Jesus relates to you with unconditional love, even in your deepest shame.
Cathy Little and Melinda Wilson are the founders of Face To Face Ministries. They are passionate heart healers who have dedicated their lives to activating and equipping men and women with tools backed by brain science to accelerate personal breakthroughs through connecting with Jesus using the Immanuel Approach.
Check out Cathy and Melinda's podcast here.
Immanuel Sessions are designed to help you connect with Jesus, receive healing from emotional wounds and trauma, and uncover lies that keep you from living out the truth of who you are in Christ. There is no agenda other than to help you connect with Jesus and allow Him to lead you into greater healing, freedom, and wholeness.
Schedule an an Immanuel Session with Face To Face Ministries here.
Books mentioned in this episode (these are paid links):
Streams of Healing: Finding Your Way to Wholeness with Key Leaders in the Inner Healing Movement, by Cathy Little and Melinda WilsonThe Immanuel Approach For Emotional Healing & For Life, by Dr. Karl Lehman (free draft version)The Immanuel Approach For Emotional Healing & For Life, by Dr. Karl Lehman (published paperback version)Joyful Journey: Listening To Immanuel, by Dr. James Wilder, Anna Kang, John Loppnow, and Sungshim LoppnowAttached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love, by Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel HellerTake the Husband Material Journey...
Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening! -
Can Medication Help Me Outgrow Porn? (with Adam O'Neill)
What if certain kinds of medication can make it easier to outgrow porn? Adam O'Neill unpacks the benefits and drawbacks of supplementing your sexual recovery with medication such as naltrexone. You'll get wisdom about what to expect and how to decide what's right for you. Adam also addresses common objections and concerns about receiving psychiatric assistance with compassion and clarity from a Christ-centered perspective.
Here are the case reports Adam mentioned about naltrexone:
Internet sex addiction treated with naltrexone - Mayo ClinicNaltrexone in cases of compulsive sexual behaviors - Psychiatrist.comNaltrexone in the treatment of adolescent sexual offenders - National Library of MedicineTreatment Of Compulsive Pornography Use With Naltrexone: A Case Report - American Journal Of PsychiatryCompulsive Sexual Behavior and Alcohol Use Disorder Treated With Naltrexone: A Case Report and Literature ReviewInterested in learning more? Bring your questions to our Live Q&A with Adam O'Neill on Tuesday, November 28th @ 7 PM Eastern Time inside the Husband Material Community.
Adam O'Neill is a Certified Physician Assistant who practices Christian Psychiatry in Virginia, where he is licensed to prescribe medications. Adam graduated from Thomas Jefferson University with a Masters of Physician Assistant Studies in 2019. Prior to that, he attended Wheaton College in Illinois, where he earned his Bachelors in Psychology. Learn more about Adam O'Neill & Associates at aoavirginia.com
Buy Adam's book (this is a paid link):
The Mind After Eden: Psychiatry in a Post-Fall World
Take the Husband Material Journey...
Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening! -
What Is A Pornographic Approach To Recovery?
How has porn impacted your approach to recovery? Learn 7 pornographic styles of recovery and what healthy recovery looks like instead.
Pornographic recovery is:
isolatedescapistavoiding painimpatientpassive/consumingcold and harsh.Healthy recovery is:
relationalembodiedembracing painresilientproactive/creativewarm and kindThe idea of "a pornographic style of recovery" is based on Andrew Bauman's concept of "a pornographic style of relating" (PSR) as described here:
A Pornographic Style Of Relating (article)The Psychology of Porn (book & paid link)Other Husband Material episodes mentioned:
Long Distance FriendshipHow To Heal Your Inner ChildHow To Measure Freedom From PornHow To Outgrow PornTake the Husband Material Journey...
Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening! -
Helping Men Feel Safe To Open Up And Heal From Trauma (with Dr. James Reeves)
What helps men feel safe to open up and heal from trauma? Dr. James Reeves (the pirate pastor) tells the story of facing his childhood wounds, building a hospital church, and creating the Fearless Series—which is fantastic!
The Fearless Series for Men is designed for Christian men to get the conversation started about childhood sexual, physical, or emotional trauma and how it has affected their lives.
Check it out:
The Fearless Series For Men: fs4men.comThe Fearless Series For Women: fs4women.comDr. James Reeves has been a pastor for more than 40 years. He nearly resigned, but chose to confront his past, and then used his newfound freedom in Christ to build a "hospital church" based on addressing emotional wounds. James is a regular speaker at conferences across America about how the local church can minister effectively to survivors of sexual trauma.
Interested? Email James at Jamesreeves68@gmail.com.
Take the Husband Material Journey...
Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening! -
How Porn Recovery Can Transform Your Church (with Sam Black)
What if your church was a safe space to outgrow porn? Sam Black explains how porn recovery ministry leads to less work for pastors, more generous donors, more passionate volunteers, and a legacy of health for the next generation.
Sam Black is the Director of Recovery Education at CovenantEyes. He has edited 16 books on the impact of pornography and authored two: The Porn Circuit and The Healing Church.
Buy Sam's new book (this is a paid link):
The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong About Pornography And How To Fix It.
Take the Husband Material Journey...
Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening! -
How To Escape Creepy Conversations Before Sexting
Have you ever felt uncomfortable or unsafe while chatting online? In this episode, I’ll share practical tips on how to escape creepy conversations… and 5 reasons why we sometimes don’t. At the end, you’ll hear real-life examples of how I have responded to unwanted sexual communication.
Take the Husband Material Journey...
Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
Customer Reviews
Great content
I have really enjoyed Drew’s you tube channel for quite some time now! I have the option to listen to this podcast while at work or doing daily life. I love his genuine love and desire to help men outgrow porn. This podcast is helpful, uplifting and encouraging! Thank you for the stories and interviews all pointing back to Jesus! Keep up the good work brother!
A Life Changing Program
Husband Material’s Drew Boa weekly explores male sexuality in all its aspects. Although it’s main purpose is to “help Christian men outgrow porn and save their marriage” it is so much more and can help men of all faiths, both married and single. I have found answers to questions I’ve had for many years but not known where to find someone who will
talk on the topics covered in these podcasts. Drew speaks frankly, honestly and explicitly but in an uplifting and positive manner that gives hope to the hopeless, encouragement to those who struggle and practical advice that can change the lives of those who apply his simple but profound advice.
Like nothing I’ve ever seen before
This podcast was my introduction to Drew and to the Husband Material community and its altered my life. At the beginning it was me learning about my own desires and sexuality and how they were formed out of pain. I love the sense of care and kindness that Drew brings to each topic. As I have become more involved in the community and now participated in the Husband Material retreat twice, I can say I’ve never seen anything like this. I’ve made my closest friendships and experienced deep restoration. Husband Material is really a culture that honors the experience of being a male, the good parts and the less good parts, and aims to reconnect us with the Jesus who never rejects us.
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