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So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode will make it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.

Husband Material Drew Boa

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.9 • 203 Ratings

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode will make it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.

    Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Write A Story (Part 3)

    Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Write A Story (Part 3)

    How do you write a story about your trauma and sexual experiences? In part 3 of this 4-part series, Wendell Moss shares his story: "Sex & Sexuality"

    If you love story work, you'd love Husband Material Groups.

    Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/group

    Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Drew is the founder of Husband Material, where he helps men outgrow porn. Learn more at husbandmaterial.com

    Wendell Moss (MA, LMHC) is a therapist, lead instructor, and facilitator at The Allender Center. Wendell serves as adjunct faculty at The Seattle School Of Theology & Psychology. Email Wendell at bishopmoss@gmail.com

    Marcus Spaur is a Certified Husband Material Coach, Inner Child Recovery Specialist, and CCAR Coach. Marcus is the founder of Between The Covers Coaching. Learn more at betweenthecoverscoaching.com

    Chris Inman (M.Div, PSAP) is a Certified Unwanted Guide and Certified Professional Recovery Coach. Chris is the founder of Porn-Free Masculinity. Email Chris at chris@np-recovery.com

    Resources For Story Writing (including paid links):
    Story Writing Resources, by Adam Young (free PDF documents)Expressive Writing: Words That Heal, by Dr. James Pennebaker and Dr. John Evans (book)Take the Husband Material Journey...
    Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

    • 42 min
    Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: Why We Do Story Work (Part 2)

    Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: Why We Do Story Work (Part 2)

    Why is story work absolutely essential for men outgrowing porn? In part 2 of this 4 part series, Chris Inman shares his story: "The Lonely Walk."

    If you love story work, you'd love Husband Material Groups.

    Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/group

    Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Drew is the founder of Husband Material, where he helps men outgrow porn. Learn more at husbandmaterial.com

    Wendell Moss (MA, LMHC) is a therapist, lead instructor, and facilitator at The Allender Center. Wendell serves as adjunct faculty at The Seattle School Of Theology & Psychology. Email Wendell at bishopmoss@gmail.com

    Marcus Spaur is a Certified Husband Material Coach, Inner Child Recovery Specialist, and CCAR Coach. Marcus is the founder of Between The Covers Coaching. Learn more at betweenthecoverscoaching.com

    Chris Inman (M.Div, PSAP) is a Certified Unwanted Guide and Certified Professional Recovery Coach. Chris is the founder of Porn-Free Masculinity. Email Chris at chris@np-recovery.com
    Take the Husband Material Journey...
    Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

    • 33 min
    Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: What Is Story Work? (Part 1)

    Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: What Is Story Work? (Part 1)

    What is story work? Where did it come from? What does it look like? In part 1 of this 4-part series, Drew shares his story: "The Day I Got Braces."

    If you love this series, you'd love Husband Material Groups.

    Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/group

    Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Drew is the founder of Husband Material, where he helps men outgrow porn. Learn more at husbandmaterial.com

    Wendell Moss (MA, LMHC) is a therapist, lead instructor, and facilitator at The Allender Center. Wendell serves as adjunct faculty at The Seattle School Of Theology & Psychology. Email Wendell at bishopmoss@gmail.com

    Marcus Spaur is a Certified Husband Material Coach, Inner Child Recovery Specialist, and CCAR Coach. Marcus is the founder of Between The Covers Coaching. Learn more at betweenthecoverscoaching.com

    Chris Inman (M.Div, PSAP) is a Certified Unwanted Guide and Certified Professional Recovery Coach. Chris is the founder of Porn-Free Masculinity. Email Chris at chris@np-recovery.com

    Resources for Story Work:
    The Allender Center and Allender Theory (organization, podcast, courses)Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way To Healing, by Jay Stringer (book)Redeeming Heartache, with Cathy Loerzel (video)The Place We Find Ourselves, by Adam Young (podcast)The ReStory Course, by Restory Counseling (video course)Take the Husband Material Journey...
    Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

    • 40 min
    Porn and Inner Healing Prayer

    Porn and Inner Healing Prayer

    What is inner healing prayer, and how can it help men outgrow porn?

    This episode is a preview of our new online course, "10 Ways To Heal Your Trauma: Resolving The Roots Of Porn And Sex Addiction." Get free access at healyourtrauma.com

    Resources for Inner Healing Prayer:
    Streams of Healing: Finding Your Way to Wholeness with Key Leaders in the Inner Healing Movement, by Cathy Little and Melinda Wilson (book & paid link)Introduction To Healing Prayer, with Leslie Weinzettel (podcast)Experience Healing Through The Immanuel Approach (podcast)Transformation Prayer Ministry (book & organization)Listening To Immanuel (PDF worksheet for journaling)Take the Husband Material Journey...
    Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

    • 21 min
    Porn and Polyvagal Theory (with John Kilmer)

    Porn and Polyvagal Theory (with John Kilmer)

    What is Polyvagal Theory? How can it help men outgrow porn? John Kilmer skillfully describes the autonomic nervous system and how to (re)shape it in order to experience regulation without unwanted sexual behavior.

    John Kilmer is a Mental Health Life Coach, Occupational Therapist, and Certified Husband Material Coach. John has completed the Foundations of Polyvagal Informed Practice Clinical Training Series with Deb Dana. He's a grateful follower of Jesus who is passionate about men's inner healing work. Learn more about John at relaxedcaregiver.com.

    This episode is a preview of our new online course, "10 Ways To Heal Your Trauma: Resolving The Roots Of Porn And Sex Addiction." Get free access at healyourtrauma.com

    Books on Polyvagal Theory (these are paid links):
    Anchored, by Deb DanaPolyvagal Theory in Therapy, by Deb DanaThe Pocket Guide To The Polyvagal Theory, by Dr. Stephen PorgesTake the Husband Material Journey...
    Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

    • 23 min
    What Is God Doing In My Trauma? (with Matt Wenger)

    What Is God Doing In My Trauma? (with Matt Wenger)

    We need a theology of trauma. In this episode, Matt Wenger powerfully invites us to view our trauma through the lens of Jesus's life, death, and resurrection. This episode is a preview of our new online course at healyourtrauma.com

    Matt Wenger is the clinical director of Boulder Recovery, a 14-day intensive for Christian men struggling with sex, porn, and relationship issues. Boulder Recovery uses the TINSA treatment model (Trauma-Induced Sexual Addiction) to heal the traumatic experiences and attachment wounds driving addictive behaviors and problematic thinking around sex and intimacy.

    EXCITING ANNOUNCEMENT: Today, Matt Wenger and Drew Boa are releasing a new free online course called "10 Ways To Heal Your Trauma: Resolving The Roots Of Porn And Sex Addiction." Get free access at healyourtrauma.com
    Take the Husband Material Journey...
    Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

    • 20 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
203 Ratings

203 Ratings

Nathan_K89 ,

Great content

I have really enjoyed Drew’s you tube channel for quite some time now! I have the option to listen to this podcast while at work or doing daily life. I love his genuine love and desire to help men outgrow porn. This podcast is helpful, uplifting and encouraging! Thank you for the stories and interviews all pointing back to Jesus! Keep up the good work brother!

Changed for the Better ,

A Life Changing Program

Husband Material’s Drew Boa weekly explores male sexuality in all its aspects. Although it’s main purpose is to “help Christian men outgrow porn and save their marriage” it is so much more and can help men of all faiths, both married and single. I have found answers to questions I’ve had for many years but not known where to find someone who will
talk on the topics covered in these podcasts. Drew speaks frankly, honestly and explicitly but in an uplifting and positive manner that gives hope to the hopeless, encouragement to those who struggle and practical advice that can change the lives of those who apply his simple but profound advice.

bjett ,

Like nothing I’ve ever seen before

This podcast was my introduction to Drew and to the Husband Material community and its altered my life. At the beginning it was me learning about my own desires and sexuality and how they were formed out of pain. I love the sense of care and kindness that Drew brings to each topic. As I have become more involved in the community and now participated in the Husband Material retreat twice, I can say I’ve never seen anything like this. I’ve made my closest friendships and experienced deep restoration. Husband Material is really a culture that honors the experience of being a male, the good parts and the less good parts, and aims to reconnect us with the Jesus who never rejects us.

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